DS is currently doing a Btec in Engineering and A level maths (Year 12)
He's stated he wants to go to uni, and doesn't want to do an apprenticeship. He's very clear about this. When he makes up his mind, he rarely changes it. But he's refusing to consider which uni he might like to go to, and says he'll visit five open days, but has no idea which ones. I've done a lot of research, and today I tried to shove under his nose some info I've printed off regarding a uni course which seems really perfect for him, not me, it's a six hour drive away
He refused to even glance at it. I got a little exasperated and asked "Are you even going to university?" and he said "Yes, I'm going to turn up." In DS language that means he is definitely intending to go to uni, but is happy for me to choose which one. 
This is so far removed from what I was like at that age I'm really struggling to get my head round it.
He was exactly the same with high schools. He told me to choose a school and he'd go to it. That seemed fine when he was 10yo but this is getting silly.