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Spring / Summer 2026 music thread

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northerngoldilocks · 12/03/2026 16:36

Time for a new thread as the old one is filling up and think we can claim its spring now!

Come and talk about music lessons, choosing instruments, exams, auditions, specialist schools, orchestras or whatever other music activities are going on. Everyone is welcome, from those with total beginners to those whose children are studying music at advanced levels. Ask for advice or share successes or struggles.

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northerngoldilocks · 24/03/2026 09:24

Thanks all. Am feeling a bit bad that i was just grumpy that she had fallen over again so hadn't appreciated that it was actually really sore - suspect this is why she hadn't really told me how much it hurt. She messaged me at work yesterday and said it was hurting so told her not to do any music practice, but only when she was going to bed last night did i realise it was swollen and perhaps more of a problem... She obviously hadn't told her dad who was at home yesterday!

Have now ordered a splint (as obviously its the other wrist from the one she broke a couple of years back) and will head out for some arnica. Have sent her to school with it bandaged and taking ibuprofen. She has a trio run through tonight so will see if she can play or not - she feels bad for the others if she can't do it as the concert is tomorrow but i'm mainly hopeful that she will be ok in time for NCO! She has form for this as broke her other wrist just before the one and only violin exam i've ever entered her for!

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yodaforpresident · 24/03/2026 08:47

Goodness that sounds painful @northerngoldilocks - we have had a lot of relief with arnica cream in this house for bad sprains. Hopefully she feels better soon.

Compsearch · 24/03/2026 08:46

Sorry @northerngoldilocks that’s really rotten luck. Hoping she can rest up and recover double quick!

@Ubertomusic is it an instrument choice thing? If your DD wants to go into the profession she will need to choose one instrument at some point, but probably not for a few years? I know a lot of talented multi-instrumentalists and a front runner emerged usually by mid teens, but slightly depends what it is as you can get away with much less practice on wind and brass as compared to strings and piano, so easier to juggle more if that is your thing.

Ive been thinking about encouraging DS to start piano as it’s so useful, but he’s not asking to learn and I think he does plenty of music atm with violin + choir now ramping up (he’s still 7, in year 3) so my inclination is to leave it for now. Does anyone have thoughts on when is a good stage to add it?

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 24/03/2026 07:38

@northerngoldilocks poor kid! Healing vibes from here. Mine definitely fell over a lot when they were growing, so maybe it's that.DD2 also falls over just walking about sometimes but that's because she's in a world of her own.

@Ubertomusic that sounds like a tough decision. What does your DD want - as I'm sure you've realised mine is not a 'narrowing down' kind of girl - more a kind of 'widening out' one . Lots of different musicians needed - depends what they're aiming for. School supportive to both types,

I think recognise DD2 isn't the type to spend all her days perfecting one thing. Unless it's making a bassoon/recorder thing out of a carrot, which seems to have been the excitement of the last few days.

"I was going to tune the orchestra with it, but it's gone a bit mouldy"... classic comment on the phone this week.

chickentikkasalad · 24/03/2026 07:27

Oh so sorry for your poor DD northern! Hope she recovers quickly.

chocolateisnecessary · 24/03/2026 05:52

Oh no! Hope it improves soon!

Comefromaway · 23/03/2026 23:08

What awful timing, and not once but twice too.

sending healing thoughts.

Ubertomusic · 23/03/2026 22:57

Oh no @northerngoldilocks that sounds horrible! 🙈 Hope your DD recovers soon!
They're also tired towards the end of term and probably less focused as a result.

northerngoldilocks · 23/03/2026 22:46

DD has one of her busiest weeks of music for a while. She has the school concert including her chamber group and orchestra, a piano solo at her Sat centre and then heading to her NCO residential on Sunday.

She fell down the stairs a week ago and her wrist has been twinging since and had been suggesting skipping practice to give it time to get better. This weekend she slipped on the stairs AGAIN and now her wrist is swollen and painful. Have bandaged it and hoping it improves quickly 😬😬😬

I assume her extreme clumsiness is cos she’s growing - but her timing couldn’t be worse!

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horseymum · 23/03/2026 18:10

I think mine got asked about what music she listened to, other than classical. I also wouldn't stress too much as as I can't imagine she gave more than one word answers and was fine!

678socks · 23/03/2026 18:00

But we do have an amazing youth orchestra on our doorstep.

678socks · 23/03/2026 17:56

@Comefromaway thank you, we are in a dark spot and everything is miles away (but at least in the same country).

Londonmummy66 · 23/03/2026 17:46

@CelloMumFlums - our curveball was how much practice she did - it was very little compared with her peers so they pulled a lot of faces but she pointed out that she had got to where she had by practising efficiently rather than extensively..........

Ubertomusic · 23/03/2026 17:43

We've had a crazy March so far... with lots of concerts, three days of MT and a solo moved two months earlier so really half baked... with chops bleeding from an allergy and a blocked nose on top of that 🤦‍♀️

I keep telling myself that it's a good preparation for the life of a musician 😂 but it certainly feels less than ideal.

As the workload is only going to increase, I wonder if it would be better to keep all options open for the sake of versatility or start prioritising and focusing for more advanced and nuanced performance. DD has been stagnating for a while and the solo was particularly disappointing.

CelloMumFlums · 23/03/2026 17:29

@horseymum @Londonmummy66 thank you so much for the super helpful advice! Re the “interview” component of the audition, we have discussed the usual points re instruments chosen, repertoire, experience, why that particular JD and future plans but wondered whether anyone has been thrown a curveball of a Q that we may not have anticipated?! Thank you!

So sad re the Welsh JD. I recall signing a petition at the time as it all felt so unfair and short-sighted..

horseymum · 23/03/2026 16:18

@chocolateisnecessary I remember when that happened, so sad for everyone.

horseymum · 23/03/2026 16:17

In Scotland you have to pay the full fees for RCS juniors unless eligible for some bursaries or scholarships.
I would say it's not a must do if you want a career but you would then need to seek out other good opportunities for ensembles etc if none locally as that is a big draw for many. Some of the JDS do occasional sessions for instrument families as well, like double reed days etc. Also not all those going to ours want a music career. Many are there because their parents believe it helps their academics, or they enjoy playing in higher level ensembles.

chocolateisnecessary · 23/03/2026 16:17

It really was heartbreaking for the kids and handled in the worst way possible. Quite a few families left for England. The rest of us are basically muddling through! Some provision has improved, some has tanked. I don’t think a JD is necessary as such, but a good one would be a phenomenal experience I think.

yodaforpresident · 23/03/2026 16:08

I didn't know that @Comefromaway- what a very short-sighted policy.

Ubertomusic · 23/03/2026 15:55

678socks · 23/03/2026 15:46

@Comefromaway that is really unfair! Poor children.

Thanks all, guessing also not really a must do if the child is showing signs of wanting to pursue this as a career (today at least 😂)? Would be easier if we still lived down south!

Not a must and from what I can see those aspiring to be soloists don't bother going to JD at all :)

On the other hand, our former teacher was on a bus from Wales to London every week in their late teens to study with a particular teacher.

678socks · 23/03/2026 15:54

@Comefromaway midlands….will have a look then.

Ubertomusic · 23/03/2026 15:51

I didn't know that @Comefromaway and it's really sad to see what's going on with arts funding in general. I've seen on FB council arts funding has been halved since 2010...

Comefromaway · 23/03/2026 15:49

678socks · 23/03/2026 14:16

Somewhat inevitably the JD question has now reared its head. My feeling is that unless you actually live in london or Birmingham it is a total nightmare?? Also feels maybe like it would be better at secondary age? No pushiness was intended just an enquiry about whether it is something we are interested in.

Whereabouts in the country are you? As well as Birmingham there is Manchester then similar MDS funded schemes not attached to institutions in Sheffield, Leeds & Gateshead.

678socks · 23/03/2026 15:46

@Comefromaway that is really unfair! Poor children.

Thanks all, guessing also not really a must do if the child is showing signs of wanting to pursue this as a career (today at least 😂)? Would be easier if we still lived down south!