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Spring / Summer 2026 music thread

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northerngoldilocks · 12/03/2026 16:36

Time for a new thread as the old one is filling up and think we can claim its spring now!

Come and talk about music lessons, choosing instruments, exams, auditions, specialist schools, orchestras or whatever other music activities are going on. Everyone is welcome, from those with total beginners to those whose children are studying music at advanced levels. Ask for advice or share successes or struggles.

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thirdfiddle · 04/04/2026 16:18

Hope you can work it out nearlynever. I'm sure there is still MDS/bursary funding out there, orgs work really hard to make music accessible.

I guess the pressure comes from having to do Menuhin, Grumiaux or other major international competitions at some point, this is hard work.

Crikey, this really is top end stuff. A very different world indeed to our youth orchestra and grade exam shenanigans!

Nearlyneverready · 02/04/2026 10:48

Thank you so much @Ubertomusic - I now have a plan for today which makes me feel a bit less overwhelmed!

I will dm you now @Londonmummy66

Ubertomusic · 01/04/2026 22:54

Nearlyneverready · 01/04/2026 22:24

Thanks @Ubertomusic

Sorry - I meant a bursary or MDS for the JD. We would not be able to afford a JD without help.

I would need to give notice at the specialist school at the end of the Easter break, but will know about the school place before then. 1 JD has asked for a reply by 1 May and the other asked that we let them know as soon as possible, which is understandable. The bursary decisions aren’t made until a later date though, so I’m worried about picking one and then being turned down for a bursary. The audition for the 3rd JD is a couple of weeks away.

Neither JD has mentioned trial lessons, but great idea to email the department head about teachers.

Can they not confirm at this stage that the offer is for an MDS/bursary place? Paperwork and funds allocation always take a while but if they add the MDS clause to your offer letter, you wouldn't need to worry (well, at least not about their intentions, the gov is another story). Our initial offer letter didn't stipulate MDS, I just double checked that, said we wouldn't be able to afford it otherwise, and they added it.

I guess everyone is a bit uncertain about funding atm due to the government's actions but can the JDs confirm their own T&C at least? Especially those who want your answer asap?

I wouldn't hesitate to ask both heads of department first, whilst you're waiting for the school place anyway, then maybe heads of JD if needed.

Londonmummy66 · 01/04/2026 22:49

@Nearlyneverready - do you want to DM me as I think this might be one where being a bit more specific might help? I have JD/MDS and specialist contacts

Nearlyneverready · 01/04/2026 22:24

Thanks @Ubertomusic

Sorry - I meant a bursary or MDS for the JD. We would not be able to afford a JD without help.

I would need to give notice at the specialist school at the end of the Easter break, but will know about the school place before then. 1 JD has asked for a reply by 1 May and the other asked that we let them know as soon as possible, which is understandable. The bursary decisions aren’t made until a later date though, so I’m worried about picking one and then being turned down for a bursary. The audition for the 3rd JD is a couple of weeks away.

Neither JD has mentioned trial lessons, but great idea to email the department head about teachers.

Ubertomusic · 01/04/2026 21:56

Re. teachers, you could email head of department at JD and ask who they have in mind. They should also offer trial lessons, that can help to decide. The list of teachers on their web sites are not always up to date but I had a look at bios anyway when we applied, in case there is someone who could be a particularly good fit in your circumstances.

Ubertomusic · 01/04/2026 21:50

Do you need a bursary for the school or do you mean MDS for JD @Nearlyneverready ?
What are the deadlines, particularly for school?

Nearlyneverready · 01/04/2026 21:42

I don’t think I’ve posted on this thread before, but could really use some advice about JDs. DC has been at a specialist school up to now, but is looking to move. This would mean going to a JD instead, but I am acutely aware of how little I know!

DC has 2 JD offers so far with an audition at a third later this month. DC is also waiting to hear about a school place, so a lot depends on that too. Without the school place, DC would likely remain at the specialist school. Oh, and we will also need a bursary (currently on MDS) otherwise we won’t be able to afford it.

I honestly have now idea how to juggle it. The JDs that have made offers are understandably waiting for a response, but there is still one audition to go. Whether we can accept the offer will also depend on what financial support will be available, so I’m concerned about turning one down then finding out that the other can’t offer the bursary we would need.

Also, teachers - how would we find out what teacher DC would have? There are a couple of other factors that I need to consider, but they would fall into place if I could wrap my head around the above.

Any help/advice would be gratefully received.

Comefromaway · 28/03/2026 15:58

How wonderful Sirius and fingers crossed for more opportunities.

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 28/03/2026 15:28

@herbaceous well done to yours - amazing score, and to yours for debut @Siriusmuggle and yours for colours @QueenMabby .

Have DD2 back now after her symphony concert - three weeks off. Yay!

Siriusmuggle · 28/03/2026 13:22

Mine didn’t do JD either, although he now assists at one.
We went to watch his professional orchestra debut last night- it was brilliant, very proud moment. He is really hoping that they’ll put him on the extras list. Most of the section have been in the orchestra much longer than he’s actually been born which blew my mind a bit.

QueenMabby · 27/03/2026 17:55

We’ve never been involved in any jds (not sure dd would be good enough anyway) but she was thrilled to get presented with school colours for music today. She’s now the proud owner of a hideous stripy blazer.

Ubertomusic · 27/03/2026 16:20

Compsearch · 27/03/2026 16:02

@678socks I think people choose their JD for all sorts for reasons and of course not everyone gets multiple offers. I will only entertain sending my kids to the one DH teaches at because after years of having to parent solo on a Saturday they can be his responsibility!!

I think people choose their JD for all sorts for reasons and of course not everyone gets multiple offers.

That's true, we didn't even apply to one of JDs because they were involved in a public scandal and we didn't get an offer from the most selective one on the violin.

Ubertomusic · 27/03/2026 16:07

Compsearch · 27/03/2026 16:02

@678socks I think people choose their JD for all sorts for reasons and of course not everyone gets multiple offers. I will only entertain sending my kids to the one DH teaches at because after years of having to parent solo on a Saturday they can be his responsibility!!

😂

Compsearch · 27/03/2026 16:02

@678socks I think people choose their JD for all sorts for reasons and of course not everyone gets multiple offers. I will only entertain sending my kids to the one DH teaches at because after years of having to parent solo on a Saturday they can be his responsibility!!

Ubertomusic · 27/03/2026 15:48

Londonmummy66 · 27/03/2026 12:24

I think it is very variable. DD1 at JD was a first study pianist she had an hour of workshop by one of the senior profs each week and that cycled around performance, comparing different recordings and more technique focused workshops so at least one solo performance a month. (Also had an hours sightreading class each week - very scary plus either orchestra or duet and chamber music with the strings)

Piano is essentially a solo instrument, I guess they just have to have more solo performances. I haven't seen ours playing with chamber strings but it may be just an age thing, DD was 10 when she joined so in younger groups. I think pianists her age are still not playing with chamber strings but I may be wrong. Haven't seen that at school either at their age, maybe from year 9-10 if I remember correctly but I miss quite a few concerts so can't be sure.

And yes, it does vary depending on teacher, JD/school and individual combinations of instruments and skills.

I didn't count academic music, composition, conducting etc, only performance classes for orchestral instruments. I don't know much about piano studies anyway, it's DD's third instrument and sadly being neglected in our household.

thirdfiddle · 27/03/2026 15:18

678socks · 26/03/2026 21:52

I don’t know….I sort of thought they went to whichever JD they got into/suited their location etc. I don’t know….

I suspect we will be weighing up JD vs genuinely high ranking youth orchestra. Tricky with three studies, JD might make life easier as everything is in house on one day but it is a massive commitment….

That would have to be our approach. We don't have the sort of contacts to have a clue who DD should apply to. But she has got to a stage where current teacher is gently nudging her it is time to move on, so she will be changing teachers either way.

Londonmummy66 · 27/03/2026 12:24

Ubertomusic · 26/03/2026 20:06

Some home school, some go to specialist schools, I guess the pressure comes from having to do Menuhin, Grumiaux or other major international competitions at some point, this is hard work.

We only have experience of one JD and one specialist school, and ours are definitely focusing on developing orchestral musicians and not very pressurised. I know of someone who moved to the strictest teacher at our JD and it felt low pressure for them after another establishment 😂

In our experience, JD can be a slightly more narrow but perhaps deeper orchestral training with fewer solo performances whereas specialist school is broader in genres, options and combinations of groups. DD would normally play in one orchestra and one or two chamber groups at JD (she did two orchestras but it wasn't the norm) and would be required to play solo twice a year. The orchestras were v very good but she wasn't allowed to do first sectional desk because she was the youngest. At school, she does at least six orchestras/ensembles (I don't even remember off the top of my head), her seat depends on rep and required skills not so much on age, and she plays solo every term or more often. The rep is less challenging though. I guess specialist schools are better for versatility - she plays jazz for example which she wouldn't be allowed to do at JD until much later. I think JD is better if you want to separate school and music and focus on particular genre and one or two instruments. We couldn't fit three instruments and would not be allowed eg piano second study as we were not serious enough about piano. The school tolerates DD's lack of practice at the moment though her teacher is growing more and more impatient.

It may be very dependent on the place and teacher though. Some teachers at JD entered their students for multiple solos in preparation for exams, our teacher just didn't do that. I'm sure other JD structure their studies and priorities differently.

I think it is very variable. DD1 at JD was a first study pianist she had an hour of workshop by one of the senior profs each week and that cycled around performance, comparing different recordings and more technique focused workshops so at least one solo performance a month. (Also had an hours sightreading class each week - very scary plus either orchestra or duet and chamber music with the strings)

herbaceous · 27/03/2026 12:22

He is like his mother - wings it until the last minute, then puts in the effort! Let's see how that pans out with A-levels...

northerngoldilocks · 27/03/2026 11:04

Yes @herbaceous- it hasn’t really held him back. Imagine you’re right - sounds like busking in lessons cos he’s probably winging it at that point 😂 Sounds like he does the work in the end though and imagine closer to the exam the fear will set in!

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herbaceous · 27/03/2026 11:02

His piano approach has got him a performance diploma, so has served him well so far. He's going for the LRSM at Christmas. I think maybe he busks the fingering in lessons as hasn't actually done any practice!

Sounds like caution is the best approach to that wrist, @northerngoldilocks. They're complicated things!

northerngoldilocks · 27/03/2026 10:38

Brilliant result for your DS @herbaceous- also laughing at the piano comments. Given his love of singing is that actually such a bad thing- maybe playing by ear and singing is what suits him best right now.

I’ve been mainly cancelling things this week. School concert on Wed meant no chamber group (the music teacher played her part so the others got to perform) and no orchestra or band. Am about to cancel her piano solo on Sat too. It’s definitely not as bad as when she broke the other one so thinking maybe just sprained but it’s still a bit sore with big stretches on piano and given she’s supposed to be doing Schumann’s Aufschwung in the concert I don’t think it’s a good plan.

I’m still hoping she will be ok to play at NCO and that it will improve as the week goes on. For now still in a splint with copious amounts of arnica cream being applied. She hasn’t asked for painkillers in the last day or so though so seeing that as an improvement!

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herbaceous · 27/03/2026 10:10

ARSM result is in. A distinction! 46/50. He's very pleased.

He was also made one of four head boy/girls this week.

School report in, full of praise but saying he needs, basically, to spread himself less thinly.

Amusing comments by his piano teacher in school report too - "He needs to ensure that fingerings are worked out more carefully to produce a result that is musically and stylistic convincing. Too often this element is improvised, resulting in what to the specialist ear will sound a little like busking and lacking in care! Occasionally, his natural desire to express interferes with the music. I appreciate that may sound a little odd, but rubato and passion need to be within stylistic constraints."

678socks · 26/03/2026 21:52

I don’t know….I sort of thought they went to whichever JD they got into/suited their location etc. I don’t know….

I suspect we will be weighing up JD vs genuinely high ranking youth orchestra. Tricky with three studies, JD might make life easier as everything is in house on one day but it is a massive commitment….

Ubertomusic · 26/03/2026 21:30

678socks · 26/03/2026 20:50

I guess also difficult to know whether the JD teacher would be a good fit for your child, given that I think they have to stop having lessons with the ‘home’ teacher who may be amazing anyway? That element worries me.

Yes, there is always this risk, even though it's a small world. I guess violinists (and pianists?) pretty much apply to study with a particular teacher, not JD as such.