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Spring / Summer 2026 music thread

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northerngoldilocks · 12/03/2026 16:36

Time for a new thread as the old one is filling up and think we can claim its spring now!

Come and talk about music lessons, choosing instruments, exams, auditions, specialist schools, orchestras or whatever other music activities are going on. Everyone is welcome, from those with total beginners to those whose children are studying music at advanced levels. Ask for advice or share successes or struggles.

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thirdfiddle · 25/05/2026 12:49

CelloMumFlums · 25/05/2026 08:30

Hope all final year recitals are going well and best of luck to those with exams next half-term.

Super grateful for any advice re 1st round NYO video auditions: do intro and both pieces need to be in 1 take with 2 excerpts in the other (as for NCO) or can you submit eg 5 videos with intro/ piece 1/ piece 2/ excerpt 1/ excerpt 2 separately? Thank you!

I was certainly under the impression from the video submission guidance that they can submit it in as many or as few videos as they like.

horseymum · 25/05/2026 09:29

@CelloMumFlums I've no idea, all I know was there was much hilarity as older one was 'helping ' younger one. Not sure any actual usable takes got done yesterday! I think they can all be separate but I leave her to do it. The staff are pretty helpful though if you get in touch.

CelloMumFlums · 25/05/2026 08:30

Hope all final year recitals are going well and best of luck to those with exams next half-term.

Super grateful for any advice re 1st round NYO video auditions: do intro and both pieces need to be in 1 take with 2 excerpts in the other (as for NCO) or can you submit eg 5 videos with intro/ piece 1/ piece 2/ excerpt 1/ excerpt 2 separately? Thank you!

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 22:27

Londonmummy66 · 20/05/2026 22:09

And I was seeing him on a park bench cuddling up to a couple of labs for warmth.... no doubt where DD will end up.

😂 My overworked and depressed brain was not imaginative enough :))

DD's former violin teacher says he was happiest in Japan - very well paid 100% secure job, family accommodation provided and classical musicians revered by the Japanese... not sure if that's universal though as her Japanese teacher was not supported at Japanese school and actively discouraged from doing music instead of academics 🤷‍♀️

Londonmummy66 · 20/05/2026 22:09

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 20:22

That should of course should read digs, not dogs.

And I was seeing him on a park bench cuddling up to a couple of labs for warmth.... no doubt where DD will end up.

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 20:22

That should of course should read digs, not dogs.

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 20:09

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 20:01

True but you still need to live.

one of the problems was having to keep paying London rent whilst out on tour. Dogs were provided, but the pay just wasn’t enough.

I know. That's one of the reasons I was reluctant for DD to prioritise dance, the others being extreme competition, injuries and short career...
It still feels sad though, irrationally.

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 20:01

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 19:18

Oh well, no one is in the arts for the money, I guess 😂

True but you still need to live.

one of the problems was having to keep paying London rent whilst out on tour. Dogs were provided, but the pay just wasn’t enough.

Siriusmuggle · 20/05/2026 19:45

Good luck @Comefromaway
we’ve just got home from my kid’s final year recital. I was really nervous! He definitely relaxed as he went along and the final (very difficult) piece went as well as he’d hoped. His tutor, head of department and other professor of his instrument came to watch which was great but also nerve wracking. It was good to see so many of his friends supporting him too, can’t believe that’s his last bit of assessed work done.

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 19:18

Oh well, no one is in the arts for the money, I guess 😂

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 17:18

Dancers are also paid far worse than musicians too.

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 15:54

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 14:35

She isn't really dancing at the moment. I hope that one day she will redisover her love of dance but a lot has happened.

Dance is even harder than music... 😞
We're of Romani descent so amateur dancing never goes away and of course there are lots of classes to maintain structured training, but there are not so many performing opportunities in adult life...
Anyway, I digress :)

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 14:35

She isn't really dancing at the moment. I hope that one day she will redisover her love of dance but a lot has happened.

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 13:55

After some end of year showcases, I realised I suffer from post show blues - was feeling nearly depressed for quite a while. Does your DD keep dancing @Comefromaway ? I nearly felt like grieving that DD had to stop dancing to focus on music...

Compsearch · 20/05/2026 13:41

Good luck also to your DD @Londonmummy66! I have literally sobbed the few times I’ve watched DS play so cannot imagine I’d cope in something like a final recital!

DH has been examining them this week and said that he was moved to tears by one he heard yesterday - pretty lovely job for him!

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 13:22

Londonmummy66 · 20/05/2026 12:22

good luck to your DS @Comefromaway - not being allowed to watch is actually the better option. I've had 2 degree recitals from DD and have another coming up next month. Sitting there is excruciating. She's currently agonising over the running order and which of the 2 instruments on stage she'll play each piece on.

Hope your DD's recital goes really well!

Ubertomusic · 20/05/2026 13:20

Best of luck to your DS @Comefromaway ! It's nerve wracking for parents but your DS has been building his career already so lots to look forward to!

Londonmummy66 · 20/05/2026 12:22

good luck to your DS @Comefromaway - not being allowed to watch is actually the better option. I've had 2 degree recitals from DD and have another coming up next month. Sitting there is excruciating. She's currently agonising over the running order and which of the 2 instruments on stage she'll play each piece on.

Comefromaway · 20/05/2026 09:34

I'm not even sure that it is open to anyone outside the conservatoire. He has had to scale his original idea down a bit. He was going to perform with a full band but due to being away (working on a professional show) it is just him and singer now.

It made me laugh that he has been practising one particular very tricky piece (by a theatre composer called Jason Robert Brown) then watched a video of the composer playing it live and even he doesn't play all the notes as written!

Compsearch · 20/05/2026 08:46

Hope it goes well @Comefromaway - such a big milestone!

horseymum · 20/05/2026 08:13

@Comefromaway Hope it goes well, it seems like so much pressure on one performance but I'm sure he will be well prepared. I take it you won't get to see it at this short notice!

Comefromaway · 19/05/2026 22:45

It’s ds’s final recital tomorrow. He omitted to tell me the date until now but he has been working.

northerngoldilocks · 19/05/2026 11:28

Sympathies for those navigating multiple clefs... I've been trying to help DD with the NCO excerpts this week - playing along on the piano. Turns out I can't really read anything above an E in the treble clef any more and have had to revert to writing the notes above if i'm to have any hope of being remotely helpful.

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Londonmummy66 · 19/05/2026 11:06

I had a laugh the other night as DD was looking at some early French keyboard music and suddenly took her hands off to play air cello - when I asked what she was doing she said working out what the tenor clef notes were - yet another indication of how weird the musical brain pathways can be.....

678socks · 19/05/2026 10:58

😂😂 we are at the stage with one of finding it in pieces but the other is just starting so tenor clef is in a separate book.