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Spring / Summer 2026 music thread

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northerngoldilocks · 12/03/2026 16:36

Time for a new thread as the old one is filling up and think we can claim its spring now!

Come and talk about music lessons, choosing instruments, exams, auditions, specialist schools, orchestras or whatever other music activities are going on. Everyone is welcome, from those with total beginners to those whose children are studying music at advanced levels. Ask for advice or share successes or struggles.

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horseymum · 25/06/2026 15:13

@Siriusmuggle I hope it all works out and they are able to now go off and do the bits they enjoy without the stressful bits.

Comefromaway · 25/06/2026 15:11

He doesn'c care and he isn't planning on going to his graduatio even if he does pass. He is 100% focused on the theatre festival he is MDing a show as part of at the moment.

Siriusmuggle · 25/06/2026 15:06

Incredibly he failed on self reflection 🤣 that’s impressive. In reality it was because he didn’t use his mentor or let me or his gran proof read it. If you didn’t already know he has ADHD a quick read of his written work will make it very clear. Lacks structure is how I’d describe it. But on the plus side he’s done extremely well on all 3 practical modules.
Hope you soon have good news @Comefromaway

Londonmummy66 · 25/06/2026 14:59

I'm sorry @Siriusmuggle - hopefully he'll get lots of feedback to know what to focus on this time

Comefromaway · 25/06/2026 14:46

That's such a shame. I am very surprised that for th major project they are not allowed to do a practical project like ds was in lieu of a dissertation. Saying that my ds chose a couple of written modules against my better judgment and I'm not convinced he will passed it.

Siriusmuggle · 25/06/2026 13:34

Degree results are in here. Smashed all the practical modules but failed the written project (predictably) by 3%. So despite total marks being comfortably in 2:1 band a resit of the project is needed. Should be awarded a resit as it’s marginal but it’s so much extra stress. Again. That’s 4 years out of 4 this has happened.

Compsearch · 24/06/2026 21:30

Ha yes, I think your DH is probably right since it’s a nice instrument - ours is not in that category! We’ve got one from stringers - their “student outfit” I think - and it was about £250, but they do an even more basic one than that for under £200 and I suspect would be totally fine for a spare.

DS is just 8 and has been on a 1/2 size for about 6 months - he’s tallish for his age (85th centile) and when we got it they said it would probably last til he’s about 9, if that’s any indication whatsoever! I think if you can measure their arm length that will give a better idea.

Ubertomusic · 24/06/2026 21:15

DD stayed on 1/4 for what seemed forever, a couple of years I think, auditioned with grade 8 pieces on it, and could stay even longer but we needed bigger sound for her rep. 1/2 lasted for a year and a bit. She's in senior school now and still plays 3/4.

It really depends on the child and grows spurts can be unpredictable.

I think for fractional sizes the quality of the instrument you need is defined by the rep you are playing. I was very reluctant to spend a lot even on the main instrument until 1/2. We had Gliga for 1/4, they're decent quality and cost around £300 as far as I remember.

EmeraldSlippers · 24/06/2026 20:50

Compsearch · 24/06/2026 17:18

High risk strategy but we fly regularly on easyJet and Ryanair between London and Ireland and just take my son’s 1/2 size violin as hand luggage. He has never been stopped - I make him carry it so they either don’t notice it or perhaps let him off as he’s cute! They are short flights obviously so that may also be a factor. I guess with a valuable instrument may not be worth the risk.

Alternatively the borrowing/buying cheap option could be worth a try. My DS seems to adjust instantly to different instruments so it’s not a given that it will be a struggle.

Ha the 'make the kid carry it because it's cute and no-one will stop them' is exactly the strategy I had suggested to my husband 😅I think it's 99% likely to work, but his problem was the 1% chance that it doesn't and then we're stuck with deciding what to do with someone else's antique violin at stake 😳so he said he's not comfortable risking it.
I think we will likely end up buying another one to keep in the UK because travelling with it seems too stressful. I hear what you're saying about different instruments @Ubertomusic, but she's generally fairly adaptable and probably better that than not playing for extended periods of time.
How long do kids normally stay on each violin size? Just wondering how much to cough up on the second instrument...

Ubertomusic · 24/06/2026 18:25

Compsearch · 24/06/2026 17:18

High risk strategy but we fly regularly on easyJet and Ryanair between London and Ireland and just take my son’s 1/2 size violin as hand luggage. He has never been stopped - I make him carry it so they either don’t notice it or perhaps let him off as he’s cute! They are short flights obviously so that may also be a factor. I guess with a valuable instrument may not be worth the risk.

Alternatively the borrowing/buying cheap option could be worth a try. My DS seems to adjust instantly to different instruments so it’s not a given that it will be a struggle.

Oh wow, your DS is already on 1/2, time flies! :)

Friends at JD had a similar problem switching between violins so I assumed it's a known thing in younger players, but I agree it's probably not a given.

Compsearch · 24/06/2026 17:18

High risk strategy but we fly regularly on easyJet and Ryanair between London and Ireland and just take my son’s 1/2 size violin as hand luggage. He has never been stopped - I make him carry it so they either don’t notice it or perhaps let him off as he’s cute! They are short flights obviously so that may also be a factor. I guess with a valuable instrument may not be worth the risk.

Alternatively the borrowing/buying cheap option could be worth a try. My DS seems to adjust instantly to different instruments so it’s not a given that it will be a struggle.

Siriusmuggle · 24/06/2026 15:28

Anyone remember when Lufthansa lost a number of brass instruments 4 years ago when Chet’s went on tour? They also lost my son’s trousers but fortunately his instrument went cabin baggage.

Londonmummy66 · 24/06/2026 12:35

Yes - the issues with a cello are even worse as you have to buy it an extra seat and then if the flight is full the cello seat is the first to go "as you can check it in" - err no that is the reason for coughing up for the extra seat in the first place. Although shout out to easy jet - my cellist friends say they are the most helpful.

Londonmummy66 · 24/06/2026 11:07

EmeraldSlippers · 24/06/2026 06:59

Thanks @Londonmummy66 .Would that be less long? The problem is the length, other dimensions are fine.

I'm wondering if it might not be better to buy a separate violin to keep in the UK to avoid flying with it at all. I'm completely new to the world of string instruments - do you have any suggestions for places to buy from?

Usually the length is dictated by the bow rather than the fiddle so a case that is only for a violin can be a bit shorter - however I don't know if they make them for smaller sizes below 1/4 and 1/2

An option would be to check the case into the hold with the bow in it but take the violin onto the plane in a silk bag and have it on your lap - OK for a shortish flight not so good for a long one.

Ubertomusic · 24/06/2026 09:37

EmeraldSlippers · 24/06/2026 06:59

Thanks @Londonmummy66 .Would that be less long? The problem is the length, other dimensions are fine.

I'm wondering if it might not be better to buy a separate violin to keep in the UK to avoid flying with it at all. I'm completely new to the world of string instruments - do you have any suggestions for places to buy from?

Switching between violins might be tricky for a beginner, even if the instruments are technically the same size. Even mass produced violins differ ever so slightly and beginners might have difficulties to quickly adjust finger positioning for intonation. If you have an antique one, the tone is also very different from the modern ones. I have two antique violins in front of me atm - both French Mirecourt, roughly the same period but probably different workshops, and fitted with different strings. They sound worlds apart 🤯 I guess all this might be slightly confusing for a young child, imagine you think your fingers are hitting the right spots as your muscle memory remembers them but you're somehow out of tune or the sound is not what you're used to. I may be wrong of course as children learn really fast, but it never worked for us.

We do not fly with the violin so no advice on this, sorry.

horseymum · 24/06/2026 07:16

I was just going to suggest getting a cheap one to leave if it's family you are staying with but the issue is they will grow quickly and move through the sizes. Maybe look at renting options? Or at least leaving a bow so you can get the shorter case.

EmeraldSlippers · 24/06/2026 06:59

Londonmummy66 · 23/06/2026 23:17

There are violin onlyh cases you can get - so the bow goes in hold luggage and the violin in hand luggage

Thanks @Londonmummy66 .Would that be less long? The problem is the length, other dimensions are fine.

I'm wondering if it might not be better to buy a separate violin to keep in the UK to avoid flying with it at all. I'm completely new to the world of string instruments - do you have any suggestions for places to buy from?

Londonmummy66 · 23/06/2026 23:17

EmeraldSlippers · 23/06/2026 22:43

Hi everyone, hoping for some advice about flying with a violin. We live in mainland Europe and visit the UK 2/3 times a year, for several weeks at a time. We always fly rather Ryanair or Easyjet because they're the only ones that fly in/out of the right airports
Since my DD started on the violin last year we have taken it with us to practice. She originally had a 1/10th which just fit within the hand luggage size, but she's recently moved up to a 1/8th and the case is now too big (62cm long, the limit being 55cm). I know they have a specialist instrument transporting service but we have heard that it's not to be trusted. The violin is not actually ours - it's been lent to us by her teacher, is 100+ years old and rather valuable, and I am terrified of something happening to it!
Do you fly with instruments? Would we have to book a seat for it if we want it to come with us in the cabin? Or do you think we might get away with booking a normal hand luggage bag and hope they don't measure it?

There are violin onlyh cases you can get - so the bow goes in hold luggage and the violin in hand luggage

EmeraldSlippers · 23/06/2026 22:43

Hi everyone, hoping for some advice about flying with a violin. We live in mainland Europe and visit the UK 2/3 times a year, for several weeks at a time. We always fly rather Ryanair or Easyjet because they're the only ones that fly in/out of the right airports
Since my DD started on the violin last year we have taken it with us to practice. She originally had a 1/10th which just fit within the hand luggage size, but she's recently moved up to a 1/8th and the case is now too big (62cm long, the limit being 55cm). I know they have a specialist instrument transporting service but we have heard that it's not to be trusted. The violin is not actually ours - it's been lent to us by her teacher, is 100+ years old and rather valuable, and I am terrified of something happening to it!
Do you fly with instruments? Would we have to book a seat for it if we want it to come with us in the cabin? Or do you think we might get away with booking a normal hand luggage bag and hope they don't measure it?

horseymum · 20/06/2026 20:24

@chickentikkasalad congratulations to your child, it's a nervous time waiting.
I don't think it's bad waiting to do grade 8, mine has been playing around grade 8 pieces for a couple of years but will do the exam in autumn to give the best chance for it all to come together.
@Siriusmuggle hope you get good news soon.

Siriusmuggle · 20/06/2026 17:39

Brass is a different world for us non musicians. I’ve picked up a bit over the last 15 years but I’m mostly bamboozled.

Ubertomusic · 20/06/2026 17:37

Fab news on the recital, congrats @Siriusmuggle ! Fingers crossed for the academic pass!

Re. mouthpieces, I looked at some modular systems from Germany, they look very interesting as you can tailor rims for jazz and other groups/genres and get titanium rims not the whole mouthpiece, but I couldn't get my head around specifications as I know next to nothing about brass. DD has a long way to go till conservatoire so these system would probably be too advanced for her level anyway. American brass forums are full of info, but they have a different sound and I'm not a musician so don't understand some nuances they discuss.

Siriusmuggle · 20/06/2026 16:58

Re mouthpieces, mine is a horn player and he uses PHC which have interchangeable components. He has a gold plated rim on his.
We’re nervously awaiting degree results. He got 100% on chamber assessment and 88% on doubling instrument recital. He’s likely to have passed his actual recital. But as it’s a non compensating degree he has to pass the academic project too, regardless of marks already accumulated. This is far from certain and he’s failed the equivalent module every year so far. I’m nervous.

QueenMabby · 20/06/2026 14:09

Thanks all. She’s doing performance grade (piano g8 at Christmas will be practical) but through school so they want to do the recording. The issue seems to be that all her pieces CAN be good, just not all at the same time! One of her friends is a cellist and post-diploma so she might be an option. Something to think about.

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