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Autumn / Winter 2025 Music

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northerngoldilocks · 31/08/2025 12:39

Time for a new thread in time for the new school term!

Come and talk about music lessons, choosing instruments, exams, auditions, specialist schools, orchestras or whatever other music activities are going on. Everyone is welcome, from those with total beginners to those whose children are studying music at advanced levels. Ask for advice or share successes or struggles.

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horseymum · 30/12/2025 20:08

Any interesting suggestions for music related summer jobs? Probably short term ones. Middle one looking for things to do that ideally pay. Pastoral staff on music courses is an option she's interested in, but the orchestras she's been in need a gap after you've been in them or you can't know young musicians, which rules out the ones she knows about. Any other interesting things to investigate?

northerngoldilocks · 28/12/2025 17:34

Thanks - he was going to be my option but as you say now in Norwood - he used to be in Nunhead which was more local but have had underwhelming exp in the past so unsure. Some people do rate him though so I could give him another try. Have found someone super local who can look at it tomorrow so hoping they’re good as would be amazing if so - especially for small repairs where being able to walk round is a bonus!

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Londonmummy66 · 28/12/2025 17:31

@northerngoldilocks - John Proctor in Norwood is DD's luthier of choice.

northerngoldilocks · 26/12/2025 23:29

Thanks both. I also asked around and South London youth orchestra had a local luthier come to the 3 and 4 concerts so have messaged them - if they work out will be great as super local. If not I’ll try the ones recommended here. Thank you

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se22mother · 26/12/2025 23:16

northerngoldilocks · 26/12/2025 19:54

@Comefromawaythe advantage of keyboards and exits!

Does anyone London based have a luthier recommendation please? Have had a bridge mishap- it’s ok ish now but would be good to take DD’s violin to be checked over. Am soooo lucky the sound post didn’t collapse 😬

If south Dante Zufolo in Bromley

Teenagelament · 26/12/2025 21:54

northerngoldilocks · 26/12/2025 19:54

@Comefromawaythe advantage of keyboards and exits!

Does anyone London based have a luthier recommendation please? Have had a bridge mishap- it’s ok ish now but would be good to take DD’s violin to be checked over. Am soooo lucky the sound post didn’t collapse 😬

Alex Hillairet in Holloway

GardensBooksTea · 26/12/2025 21:50

Legoninjago1 · 26/12/2025 09:24

Happy Christmas to you all and especially to any chorister families who are celebrating Christmas properly today! It’s been a marathon of concerts and services for us but we made it!

Yes! I meant to post something similar to yesterday, but ironically we were just all too exhausted and did a considerable amount of dozing 🤣😴 Enjoy a well deserved break!

northerngoldilocks · 26/12/2025 19:54

@Comefromawaythe advantage of keyboards and exits!

Does anyone London based have a luthier recommendation please? Have had a bridge mishap- it’s ok ish now but would be good to take DD’s violin to be checked over. Am soooo lucky the sound post didn’t collapse 😬

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Legoninjago1 · 26/12/2025 19:13

@horseymum he was alright actually! Loved the whole thing, thankfully! I was the one who couldn’t handle the pace… The 2am bed time after Midnight Mass was a particular killer!

Comefromaway · 26/12/2025 18:26

He was very eager to get home. He also managed to get from Manchester Victoria to Picadilly in 11 minutes!

horseymum · 26/12/2025 16:34

@Comefromaway that's impressive! I'm usually hanging around with the other bassoon parents as mine is frequently nearly last out! @Legoninjago1 I'm sure they will be tired after all that. We just had had one relaxed service on Sunday and that's all the music done.

Comefromaway · 26/12/2025 11:07

Hope everyone had a good Christmas.

we are on the road travelling north. At least todays matinee is 2.30pm instead of last years 1pm.

o think ds broke a record on Xmas Eve. Curtain down to out of the theatre in 45 secs and on the train in 7 mins!

Legoninjago1 · 26/12/2025 09:24

Happy Christmas to you all and especially to any chorister families who are celebrating Christmas properly today! It’s been a marathon of concerts and services for us but we made it!

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 22/12/2025 10:57

@QueenMabby @herbaceous etc - dd2 is also interested in choral scholarships. I think there is an Open Day specifically for them as well (perhaps)?, which I was planning to send DD2 to. She's a decent enough singer (grade 8 next term she reckons) but mostly an instrumentalist so I suspect it might not be enough.

She can however, hold a soprano or alto line with confidence and switch between the two and knows a lot more choral music than she used to after two years of chapel choir on top of NYCGB. We will see.

She had a heavy day yesterday - has been doing South London Youth Orchestra, but there was a three hour break between rehearsal and concert so we picked her up, popped her behind a microphone and she did the tenor lines for various carols on bassoon, the soprano lines on others on flute, and the descants on voice where the singers weren't quite confident on them. Then nipped back for a full orchestral concert, which was awesome.

I have no idea how she managed it. Perhaps unsurprising she's still in bed this am.

Compsearch · 21/12/2025 09:29

@QueenMabby it’s probably worth some informal trials before choosing where to apply. If you have a choral scholarship you will normally attend the relevant college, so it may impact where she applies (at Cambridge the best mixed choirs are Trinity and Clare). If she doesn’t have a choral scholarship though then she can apply to any college choir with spaces once she is there (likely that the top ones will be full up with choral scholars, not always though). Also the subject you study isn’t relevant but obviously the ones with heavy lecture requirements (sciences, medicine) can be difficult to manage with the rehearsals.

QueenMabby · 20/12/2025 23:17

Thanks for all the advice on the Cambridge choral opportunities and @Londonmummy66 I may well be picking your contact’s brains next year to help narrow down the colleges!

chickentikkasalad · 20/12/2025 17:27

Thank you @Ubertomusic, good idea to check before I book it 👍

thirdfiddle · 20/12/2025 17:19

She would definitely be able to sing in /a/ chapel choir queenmabby. As others have said, in the first place apply to a college with a mixed or women's choir that she likes the sound of. Honestly, with her experience, it's very likely she will get in. But also you can apply to a different college's choir once there if your own doesn't work out. If you search cambridge college chapel choir vacancies you will see there are still opportunities available for the current academic year.

Ubertomusic · 20/12/2025 12:38

chickentikkasalad · 20/12/2025 11:51

Thank you @herbaceous, thats what I was hoping too. I think he’ll just love the music and won’t even get the plot. It seems a rare opportunity to miss as it’s coming to us. Normally we’d have to travel to see any good shows.

My DD was once refused admission to ENO at Coliseum, iirc it was because of swearing in the production or maybe there were some explicit scenes too, I can't quite remember what the production was.

A Ukrainian production is likely to be classical but I'd double check with the venue.

Londonmummy66 · 20/12/2025 12:02

herbaceous · 20/12/2025 12:01

I may be picking your brains too!

Feel free to.

herbaceous · 20/12/2025 12:01

Londonmummy66 · 20/12/2025 11:38

@QueenMabby - a friend of mine is a Cambridge Dom and ran the choral scholar application process for a while. If she wanted a chat with him I'm sure he'd be up for a zoom to explain the process. DM me if that would be helpful.

I may be picking your brains too!

chickentikkasalad · 20/12/2025 11:51

Thank you @herbaceous, thats what I was hoping too. I think he’ll just love the music and won’t even get the plot. It seems a rare opportunity to miss as it’s coming to us. Normally we’d have to travel to see any good shows.

Londonmummy66 · 20/12/2025 11:38

@QueenMabby - a friend of mine is a Cambridge Dom and ran the choral scholar application process for a while. If she wanted a chat with him I'm sure he'd be up for a zoom to explain the process. DM me if that would be helpful.

herbaceous · 20/12/2025 11:29

chickentikkasalad · 20/12/2025 10:02

DS’s state school has now finally finished. His orchestra performance was done and brilliant! It was their debut as it was a new orchestra and everyone was so excited and did excellently.
now I do have a question. Our local theatre has carmen in Feb. It’s by the Ukrainian national opera. I assume it’ll be very good and want to take DS to it. He’s been obsessed with Carmen music recently. However I’ve not seen it myself and not sure whether it’s suitable for a 9 years old or not? What do others think?
thank you.

It would be a marvellous 'starter' opera. Great music, lots of drama, and any sauciness in the plot will go right over his head!

herbaceous · 20/12/2025 11:28

@QueenMabby It is all slightly opaque. At Cambridge you apply for the course, find out whether you're in, then apply for choral scholarship afterwards. Different colleges/chapels have different requirements for number of services per week, whether they have boy choristers or adult women, etc. So you partly have to choose your college depending on those factors, I presume.

At Oxford you apply for choral scholarships before you know whether you've got in. Which seems mad.

DS is mainly intereted in Oxbridge for the singing opportunities, so has been recommended by his HoM to informally meet the DoMs at various colleges to assess his chances, to see if it's worth applying to Kings/St John/Trinity etc.

All a bit too complicated for my liking!

Other universities with choral scholarships are of course also in the extensive spreadsheet!

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