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The Dark Side of Ballet Schools - Panorama investigation

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taxi4ballet · 11/09/2023 16:17

Panorama programme on BBC1 this evening at 8pm, also available on i-player. An investigation into eating disorders and mental health issues suffered by young dancers in full-time ballet training, including the Royal Ballet School.

This really is required watching for anyone whose dc is interested in becoming a professional dancer - and not just ballet either. This sort of thing happens in other performing arts establishments too, although those are not covered by this programme.

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Mrburnshound · 12/09/2023 20:31

All of the above was seen as normal as my ballet teacher had been on a diet since age 7 so at 18 we had gotten away with it for ages apparently. And the deputy principal bemoaned that we couldn't all just survive off a single piece of unbuttered toast like she did!

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/09/2023 20:30

Why would anyone be surprised about this?

Mrburnshound · 12/09/2023 20:29

I attended one of the "big" MT schools and danced professionally in the 00s/10s. Obvs in the 00s being thin was a thing just in generally so that may have exacerbated it but i experienced a lot of those things

  1. Literally everyone I knew had some level of ED, realistically I had it a bit as well and im a natural size 6/8 even now im in my 30s (i was probably a 4 then). I actually still find it hard to accept that this was not good as it was so normalised. I eat very normally now though!
  1. Had ballet teachers humiliate me about my "love handles", jazz teachers would also openly talk about how untoned our bellies were and how we should always wear crop tops for inspiration (😬)
  1. During a dance job I and others were given laxatives at rehearsals and told to lose weight before opening night. Size 8 me eventually got fired for being "fat". Cruise ships were the worst for putting people on suspension for weight gain ime. Lots had "weigh ins".
  1. Rapid weight loss really highly praised at college. And those people being held as an example for the class. Saying you had an ED was a sign of weakness. Same for contract work, i walked into a casting once and the casting director kept saying how amazing my body looked, which in itself is a bit weird.

I eventually pivoted to acting which is still similar looks based but WAAAAAY less toxic.

dd does do ballet but i am highly encouraging her to become an engineer!

ThisThreadCouldOutMe · 12/09/2023 20:08

Mum was told when I was 4 years old that I showed "early talent" but that if she didn't control my diet I'd end up too large. She didn't. As a teen I was furious that she'd (in my view) destroyed my chances.

As an adult I'm so so fucking pleased she's just let me be a 4 year old. Although I was 'good' if never have been good enough. Or tall enough.

I have a love/hate relationship with dance now.

Peacendkindness · 12/09/2023 20:05

user9630721458 · 12/09/2023 00:04

Ballet is all about appearance and how the body looks. It's never going to be healthy to focus so much on appearance and a narrow idea of perfection. The standards required are now extreme, Margot Fonteyn would probably have been rejected these days, on account of her feet or extensions. Ballet seems like a toxic environment to me, at least in these elite schools.

This. A friend’s daughter left at state school after 16 with straight level 9 to go to ballet school in Russia in Moscow (mum was Russian). Dad was British and married Mum at a British university. She was already extremely thin but became more so after heading to Russia with Mum during term time - like a lollipop - she was an amazing dancer but accepted her career was ‘short’ with Mum’s encouragement (!)she dated many rich older men eventually marrying at 20 a 45 year old Russian businessman. It was a very odd world and situation.

bellac11 · 12/09/2023 20:01

How does she keep her muscle mass with that sort of diet I wonder?

Hardly any protein and extremely low cals

3 bananas in one day! Potassium overload!

WinniePig · 12/09/2023 19:57

With regards to the weight issue, what are schools supposed to do? If you want to be a professional ballet dancer with a top tier company, you have to be thin. Post puberty, the only way to achieve this type of body is to follow a restrictive diet. Look at the diet of Deborah Bull when she was a principal dancer with the Royal Ballet Company. This is the reality of ballet. Schools can’t address this directly / honestly with pupils and parents because there would be an uproar and so pupils are left to figure it out for themselves (with disastrous results in some cases).

https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/food-drink-daily-bread-what-the-royal-ballet-principal-dancer-ate-one-day-last-week-1504338.html

Re bullying, absolutely no excuse for that in any school.

FOOD & DRINK / Daily Bread: What the Royal Ballet Principal Dancer ate

I always have breakfast. Yesterday was plain, live, low-fat yoghurt - bio-yoghurt, I don't know who makes it - with unsweetened muesli without any nuts, a chopped banana, and tea with milk. I had a class from 10.30 to 11.45, and I always keep still wat...

https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/food-drink-daily-bread-what-the-royal-ballet-principal-dancer-ate-one-day-last-week-1504338.html

bellac11 · 12/09/2023 19:53

DewinDwl · 12/09/2023 08:18

Several issues here:

Today's beauty standards are not the same as those of the clasic ballet of 100 years ago. Many famous ballerinas of that time don't look slim or toned on pictures. They still danced beautifully.

Women and girls are taller now. For a male partner to safely lift a female partner, the taller the girl, the lower the bmi she has to be IYSWIM. There are several ways to solve this problem (change techniques, training males to have more upper body strength, accept bulkier male dancers). It seems that ballet has chosen the option of asking women to slim down - you must weigh under 50 kgs, whether you are 1.50 m tall or 1.75.

I personally don't think that extreme thinness equates beauty or that beauty is always very thin. I also don't think there's such a thing as perfection, and even if there was, it wouldn't be desirable or attractive.

I would like to hear more about / from the reinforcers. What on earth goes through the mind of someone who says such vile things to children and young people? They must know they are breaking these children. Why do they do it? They aren't isolated oddballs, this is systematic.

I dont know about ballet from 100 years ago but I know from older family members who were chorus girls from the 40s and onward, there was no room for any weight at all. They were encouraged to drink cabbage water,, apples and not much more, lots of smoking. Weight and appearance was virtually the same as now in terms of expectations and pressure.

None of this is new or 'modern'

Comefromaway · 12/09/2023 16:08

My child knew him. After he was "assessed out" of that school he went to another, more supportive ballet school but the damage was done. She met him when she was on a summer school there as he was one of the helpers. Lovely lad, lovely dancer, it's tragic.

BBno4 · 12/09/2023 16:05

Gosh, watching it now. That poor boy.

taxi4ballet · 12/09/2023 15:59

Fizbosshoes · 12/09/2023 15:30

This sounds like half of MN tbh. (Not trying to normalise it by the way)
There's currently a thread with people advocating fasting for over a week at a time for alleged health benefits.

Those people are not children in a boarding school though, are they?

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Fizbosshoes · 12/09/2023 15:30

Gjendefloooo · 12/09/2023 10:09

I have a friend who studied contemporary dance at one of the schools of contemporary dance in the uk.
She said they had lectures every week about food and nutrition - basically all about losing weight. The mantra was "you're not hungry, you're thirsty".
Weight loss was a constant topic in all of the classes.
She is healthy now - as in, a healthy weight - but she still suffers from disordered eating from time to time and regularly goes all day with nothing to eat. If we are out with her for the day she doesn't want to stop to eat and just tells us to drink water as we are "thirsty not hungry".

This sounds like half of MN tbh. (Not trying to normalise it by the way)
There's currently a thread with people advocating fasting for over a week at a time for alleged health benefits.

Comefromaway · 12/09/2023 15:28

I do think though that one big difference I have noticed between drama schools and the conservatoire my son currently attends (who also run acting and MT degrees) is the hold the student union has. There seems to often be a degree of separation between the drama school and the validating university. The SU appears not to care if they ruffle feathers and will use social media to shout loudly and publicly about any issues and management then address/attempt to placate them. The students at drama school tend not to get involved in the SU and may not even be properly aware of it existence.

Comefromaway · 12/09/2023 15:24

If they offer degrees they are regulated in the same way as universities are as to offer a degree they have to be affilliated with a university. But all the regulation in the world does not stop these "unsafe" practices.

After she attended vocational dance school and college dd went to drama school for a year. My dh also teaches in that sector. There needs to be a massive shake-up in not only the performing arts sector but higher education as well.

FANTINE2 · 12/09/2023 15:18

Comefromaway · 12/09/2023 13:12

Most of ones I know of are. They have to be if they accept Dada or Student Finance or if they provide full time education for children of compulsory school age.

There were a few that were not such as The MTA who only offered their own internal diploma, not an external qualification.

I’m talking about the drama schools post 18 that offer degrees.
Huge amount of unsafe practises go on. My daughter has experience of 3 of them( long story). All well known schools. In each one some of the things that went on were highly disturbing. Some of the teachers, and I use the word loosely should never have been around young people. Yet, they are all still in post, despite complaints being made.

DanceMumTaxi · 12/09/2023 14:16

Which is why nothing will change if people continue to have that sort attitude.

taxi4ballet · 12/09/2023 13:59

DanceMumTaxi · 12/09/2023 07:29

”A programme like this could be the catalyst that we need to start the process to bring an end to these utterly dysfunctional and emotionally destructive teaching methods once and for all.”

@taxi4ballet I would really hope so, but I’ve just seen an instagram post from a local dance school all about ‘the bright side of ballet’, saying let’s change the narrative and then stating loads of good things. I don’t think anyone would deny there is good, but it just seemed so dismissive. Almost like - let’s not think about all that nasty stuff, just focus on the good and ignore it. The worst thing is, this school send children to associate classes and places like The Hammond and Elmhurst. Things will sadly never change while dance teachers feel like this. This isn’t my dd dance school btw, just another local one.

Why does that not surprise me?

'Lets change the narrative'... and pretend it doesn't happen, presumably. Lets sweep it all under the carpet and tell those who are broken by the system that they weren't cut out for it, they weren't good enough, they lost interest, whatever. After my dd's traumatic experience at the hands of a vocational upper school, I bumped into someone in the dance teaching profession some months later and I told her what had happened. "Oh well," she said, with a casual shrug. "Some of them do just give up." She basically couldn't have cared less. And this was someone who I thought would actually care about the treatment dd had suffered, but no.

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Comefromaway · 12/09/2023 13:12

Most of ones I know of are. They have to be if they accept Dada or Student Finance or if they provide full time education for children of compulsory school age.

There were a few that were not such as The MTA who only offered their own internal diploma, not an external qualification.

FANTINE2 · 12/09/2023 12:59

Ah ok.
“I’m pretty sure that Drama Schools are not though.

Comefromaway · 12/09/2023 12:53

They are regulated (well most of them) and are overseen by OFSTED for boarding & DaDa funding and ISI for independent schooling.

But it is very easy to manipulate things. OFSTED look primarily at paperwork and policies, not necessarily whether policies are followed.

FANTINE2 · 12/09/2023 12:47

Well done to the BBC , and the young women who agreed to speak out about this issue.
I think that part of the problem isthat none of these institutions (and I include Musical Theatre schools) are regulated. There is no Ofsted like body that governs them. Consequently they can do what ever they want.
May I also add that abusive and toxic teaching methods also exist in drama schools under the guise of “stripping you back”and trauma digging. This can lead to young people developing eating disorders and other mental health issues.
The whole training industry regarding performing arts in this country needs to be looked at.

Georgiepud · 12/09/2023 12:41

gogomoto · 12/09/2023 08:44

Unfortunately this isn't new knowledge, I remember the Diet Coke and and apple diet being discussed in the 90's. Unfortunately ballet demands (rightly or wrongly) a certain shape that most cannot achieve without dietary restrictions, in fact it would be better if local and regional ballet schools were honest with their students that they simply should do ballet for fun - even my size 6 dd would be considered fat!

I agree.

user9630721458 · 12/09/2023 11:04

@DewinDwl I know beauty standards have changed, but I sometimes feel if I wanted to watch a contortionist I would go to the circus, and that the art of ballet is somewhat lost amongst the punishing physical requirements.

user9630721458 · 12/09/2023 11:00

I trained with ex dancers in related physical therapy, one of them ex RB. One thing I thought strange was that the RB one thought breasts were disgusting, and would wrinkle her nose up at my very average c cup when we were getting changed. I was definitely not fat by normal standards, she just had a very ingrained idea that an almost childlike, undeveloped body was attractive. She wasn't dancing by that point either. The others were very food conscious and would have a smoothie for lunch, but nothing else. They seemed to still carry a distaste for anything that might be considered fat.