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The Dark Side of Ballet Schools - Panorama investigation

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taxi4ballet · 11/09/2023 16:17

Panorama programme on BBC1 this evening at 8pm, also available on i-player. An investigation into eating disorders and mental health issues suffered by young dancers in full-time ballet training, including the Royal Ballet School.

This really is required watching for anyone whose dc is interested in becoming a professional dancer - and not just ballet either. This sort of thing happens in other performing arts establishments too, although those are not covered by this programme.

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taxi4ballet · 18/09/2023 21:27

SilverGlitterBaubles · 18/09/2023 13:05

I agree that parents should be able to rely on what the schools say and yes other parents send their DCs to boarding schools at that age. However the combination of moving away from home and undertaking elite training in a competitive environment at such a crucial age when entering puberty with all that brings is a huge thing for a child. They are still so young and personally it would not be an environment that I would be comfortable with sending my DCs to live in.

Easy to say, but on the other hand, is your dc one of the most talented ballet dancers of their age in the country, who lives and breathes dance, and says they will never forgive you if you don't let them go?

Until you personally are on the horns of that dilemma, you can't really know what you might decide to do.

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balloni · 18/09/2023 13:15

Yes @SilverGlitterBaubles I went to boarding school for a time (non vocational) and it was really great. I can see, however, that in combination with this sort of training (some of the local dance schools can be bad enough - I'm sure we all know of someone, who knows someone, who has had a bad experience there), and the parents unable to monitor as they might if they were a day pupil somewhere, that it's not the ideal environment.

SilverGlitterBaubles · 18/09/2023 13:05

I agree that parents should be able to rely on what the schools say and yes other parents send their DCs to boarding schools at that age. However the combination of moving away from home and undertaking elite training in a competitive environment at such a crucial age when entering puberty with all that brings is a huge thing for a child. They are still so young and personally it would not be an environment that I would be comfortable with sending my DCs to live in.

dodobookends · 18/09/2023 09:07

... focus on elite training... ...high expectations...

That's what they go there for in the first place, and what the students are naturally entitled to receive. And anyone training somewhere like that would know that there are high expectations. Of course there are. What they don't expect is to be demoralised and belittled, and made to feel useless.

taxi4ballet · 18/09/2023 00:53

That's just it @SilverGlitterBaubles until this documentary people wouldn't have used the word 'notoriety' and if you look at all the info on the schools' websites, there are pages and pages of stuff about health, wellbeing and pastoral care, so what are people supposed to believe? Tens of thousands of people send their kids to other academic private schools from an early age anyway, and many of them aren't exactly known for their lack of discipline.

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SilverGlitterBaubles · 17/09/2023 23:29

Even if you had no idea about the dark side of ballet schools, the idea of sending a 11/12 year old far away from home to boarding school with such focus on elite training and notoriety for strict teaching and high expectations would certainly be reason for serious concerns as a parent.

balloni · 17/09/2023 15:39

Though of course Ballet West has gone now, but I knew two families whose daughters had to find alternative places (to the BW places they had gained) when it suddenly closed that year. They had no idea what had been going on.

balloni · 17/09/2023 15:35

Oh yes, I said the caution was understandable.

Ballet West and BTUK of course.

taxi4ballet · 17/09/2023 15:19

balloni · 17/09/2023 11:06

I would say parents are very informed of the dark side of voc training, especially the chance of staying on at on the school post year 9. The ballet world is small and we knew pretty much all the other children auditioning. Conversations were had.

We considered full time vocational training at 11 for my child. We visited one of the schools and were given a tour prior to, and during, an audition. I can honestly say I had no hint of a dark side. I've only since heard whispers (where they're not removed) from the various dance forums where discussion is heavily and cautiously moderated, possibly with good reason.

I don't think the people who featured on the programme had been aware of the problems until they occurred.

The strongly negative and highly critical posts about certain schools have to be removed from forums because the people running the forums cannot afford to be personally sued by the schools concerned.

There is a UK dance forum that I know of which is run and moderated by volunteers. They are ultimately personally liable for the content on that forum, have been threatened with legal action on more than one occasion, and been forced to take threads down.

That is why there is no mention anywhere on that forum of one particular school, and parents thinking about sending their dc there would find very little information anywhere, other than the school's own publicity.

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ElectiveAffinities · 17/09/2023 11:39

@LHayday indeed. And just look at photos of the dancers in eg the Ballets Russes - they wouldn’t even get a second look at any schools now, they’d be laughed out of the place. Yet they premiered some of the greatest 20thc ballets in the repertoire.

I’m sure I’m saying what many people on here know - plenty of you may have been on the threads - but there was a long-running and very informative, though shocking, thread about all this on MN a few years ago, iirc. It disappeared and I couldn’t find it again. But it was eye-opening.

balloni · 17/09/2023 11:06

I would say parents are very informed of the dark side of voc training, especially the chance of staying on at on the school post year 9. The ballet world is small and we knew pretty much all the other children auditioning. Conversations were had.

We considered full time vocational training at 11 for my child. We visited one of the schools and were given a tour prior to, and during, an audition. I can honestly say I had no hint of a dark side. I've only since heard whispers (where they're not removed) from the various dance forums where discussion is heavily and cautiously moderated, possibly with good reason.

I don't think the people who featured on the programme had been aware of the problems until they occurred.

taxi4ballet · 17/09/2023 10:58

@Northernmumma I hope your dd is successful in her ambitions, going away at 11 is definitely not the only option.

I'm looking at things from the perspective of being the parent of someone who went into vocational ballet training and was chewed up and spat out the other side, physically and emotionally scarred at 18, and I know things now that I definitely didn't know beforehand. Some of the things that we learned via the grapevine would make your hair curl.

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taxi4ballet · 15/09/2023 19:08

The majority of parents of 11-year-old sending their children to these places will not have had any access to information or anyone who can tell them about the dark side until now. Some schools routinely threaten legal action against forums which allow critical posts. It isn't quite so easy for them to gag the BBC.

There are government-funded places available for qualifying UK students, however costs now outstrip funding by some margin. There have also always been scholarships and bursaries funded by wealthy patrons, often used to pay for the training of international students. Very few of the students at RBS actually pay to train there. Other schools have their own funding arrangements.

My DD got to the final 30 for a year 7 place at RBS a couple of years ago (thankfully she didn't get in and turned down places at other schools).

I would say parents are very informed of the dark side of voc training, especially the chance of staying on at on the school post year 9. The ballet world is small and we knew pretty much all the other children auditioning. Conversations were had.

There are very few options for children serious about a career in ballet (appreciate it is mad they have to decide at such a young age at all) which is why sadly so many are willing to take the chance, even knowing the risks.

We have a friend offered a WL place this year and hasn't taken it up (and apparently by no means not the only one) so maybe things are changing.

SilverGlitterBaubles · 16/09/2023 15:49

The other atrocity the programme failed to cover was how dancers are being pushed physically to further and further extremes with many now having to be on a par with gymnasts. The long-term effects on the bodies of these young people should be of great concern.

Agreed, the trend for insane numbers of hours of practice each week, with pressure to keep going through illness and injury or threats of losing their place or coveted solo spot. Also the trend for acro and gymnastics tricks especially in the dance competition world, has anyone looked at the long term effects of this kind of training has on young growing bodies?

LHayday · 16/09/2023 15:27

Yes. She allegedly also said if people knew how physically cruel ballet was, no one would watch, only those who enjoy bullfighting . I don’t know if that’s true but it’s from a reliable source.

balloni · 16/09/2023 11:44

Prior to this, dancers like Moira Shearer, Pamela May and even the young Margot Fonteyn were never expected to hide or starve away their female bodies.

Didn't Margot Fonteyn once say something about how she wouldn't have made it beyond the corps de ballet today (today being late 80s possibly). Though she may have been talking of technique mainly.

LHayday · 16/09/2023 10:23

Following on from the Panorama documentary on The Dark Side of Ballet Schools on Monday 11th September and its exposé of eating disorders and mental health issues prevalent among female ballet dancers, one can’t help but question why the industry has found itself in such a damning position.

Ballet dancers were not always thin. The fashion for stick thin ballerinas began in the Balanchine era in the 1960s and as the fashion industry became obsessed with Twiggy and models became thinner and thinner (with similar repercussions) so too did choreographers favour
leggy, androgynous dancers.

Prior to this, dancers like Moira Shearer, Pamela May and even the young Margot Fonteyn were never expected to hide or starve away their female bodies. One dreads to think what Lynn Seymour – possibly the only ballerina who made it to the top of her profession despite having a curvaceous body – went through in the ‘60s. It is worth noting no male dancers had a problem lifting any of these women, showing that this fashion for thin was a purely aesthetic preference, not a practical requirement.

Sixty years on, this trend for thin – oftendangerously thin – female ballet dancers –continues. It is debatable whether a young woman without “the correct physique” would be accepted into the Royal Ballet School today.

The other atrocity the programme failed to cover was how dancers are being pushed physically to further and further extremes with many now having to be on a par with gymnasts. The long-term effects on the bodies of these young people should be of great concern.

Ballet is about so much more than who can get their legs the highest and have the most pronounced arch and be the thinnest. Where is the choreographer brave enough to buck the trend and choose strong female dancers with female curves as the norm? Matthew Bourne can’t do it all.

And lastly, please can it be mandatory to educate parents about the dark side of these elite establishments before they send their children there? So many parents are ill informed and gullible. They need to be equipped with the correct information to prepare their offspring for the dangers and pitfalls alongside the joys and fulfilment of training.

taxi4ballet · 15/09/2023 19:08

LHayday · 15/09/2023 18:17

Call me cynical but it could be about filling places. They recently held a fund raising event.

The majority of parents of 11-year-old sending their children to these places will not have had any access to information or anyone who can tell them about the dark side until now. Some schools routinely threaten legal action against forums which allow critical posts. It isn't quite so easy for them to gag the BBC.

There are government-funded places available for qualifying UK students, however costs now outstrip funding by some margin. There have also always been scholarships and bursaries funded by wealthy patrons, often used to pay for the training of international students. Very few of the students at RBS actually pay to train there. Other schools have their own funding arrangements.

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LHayday · 15/09/2023 18:17

Call me cynical but it could be about filling places. They recently held a fund raising event.

LHayday · 15/09/2023 18:09

I think it should be mandatory to educate parents about the dark side of these elite establishments before they send their children there. So many parents are ill informed and gullible, possible swept along by the teacher’s understandable enthusiasm ,as it will bring prestige to their dance school if they have a child accepted into the Royal Ballet School. They need to be equipped with the correct information to prepare their offspring for the dangers and pitfalls alongside the joys and fulfilment of training.

taxi4ballet · 14/09/2023 23:46

Comefromaway · 14/09/2023 19:35

Full CDMT accreditation is for 16 plus schools only and involves a 2 day accreditation visit plus submission of paperwork.

As much as that? 🙄🤔

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Luno · 14/09/2023 21:36

Bunnycat101 · 14/09/2023 20:45

What I don’t understand about RBS though is why so few make it into the upper school and the company. It suggests either they’ve picked the wrong girls or the training isn’t good enough. It seems like SAB send much more of their teens at the school into the company. I can’t imagine how distressing it must be to have worked so hard from 11 to 14 and then be asked to leave for y10 when places at good schools must be hard to come by.

If they are picking girls in Y7 according to "RBS body type" over other abilities then it would make sense that, once those girls get to Y10 and their bodies have changed, some of them are no longer "RBS body type" so get shown the door.

I was talking to my neighbour about this as her DD is very serious about ballet and knows some of the kids who have just started at vocational schools in Y7. I don't know if this is true but she said that most of the schools recruit (or whatever the word is) based on dance ability whereas RBS recruits based on body type and potential dance ability. So maybe there's more chance of them getting it wrong if they are basing decisions on estimated potential rather than current ability.

17CherryTreeLane · 14/09/2023 21:11

When I was young, I trained with RBS and yes, we were weighed every day. Anyone who gained weight, was not allowed potatoes with dinner. I really hoped things had improved, however there does need to be some control over fitness and the ability to dance on pointe and be lifted. There is no need to be cruel about it under any circumstance.

I will say though, the incredible discipline involved in ballet has served me well in life.

Bunnycat101 · 14/09/2023 20:45

What I don’t understand about RBS though is why so few make it into the upper school and the company. It suggests either they’ve picked the wrong girls or the training isn’t good enough. It seems like SAB send much more of their teens at the school into the company. I can’t imagine how distressing it must be to have worked so hard from 11 to 14 and then be asked to leave for y10 when places at good schools must be hard to come by.

Comefromaway · 14/09/2023 19:35

Full CDMT accreditation is for 16 plus schools only and involves a 2 day accreditation visit plus submission of paperwork.