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Autumn 21 music thread

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thirdfiddle · 18/09/2021 11:44

Well, we started the summer thread on a rainy day so how about an autumn thread on a sunny day?
Welcome all parents of musical young people, from total beginners to total professionals. Please come and chat in one of the friendliest and most helpful corners of MN.
What's new this term?

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ninavd · 09/12/2021 21:28

Lovely to find this thread. I'm Nina a mum to DS aged 17 who has been musical from very young. He started off in primary school with recorder, followed by clarinet and then added saxophone. Aged 10 he joined the RCM Junior Department. Loved it there! Later aged 14 joined a specialist music school whilst still attending music college on Saturdays. Anyway, roll the clock forwards and we are now in final year of A Levels and he's applying to Conservatoires. Specifically the London 3 for Jazz Saxophone. Two auditions down, and one more tomorrow at the Guildhall.

ninavd · 09/12/2021 21:25

@lulukentgirl Hi there just seen your message from 27 September about your DSs just having started at London Music School on Saturdays. My DS is now in his 7th year studying at the RCMJD every Saturday. It's been a truly brilliant experience. He loved every moment and Saturdays most definitely were his favourite day of the week. It's a hard balancing act between demands from the JD and school! But I'm sure you'll get there. I hope your DSs enjoy it as much as my DS did. He entered with 1st study Clarinet and 2nd study Saxophone, to emerge this last year playing Jazz Sax - so a complete overall of his studies during our time there.

northerngoldilocks · 07/12/2021 19:32

There used to be options to play in school but they seem to have gone with Covid. They only have whole school assemblies and it seems to be full of rules! She did play in assembly at the infants, but not since moving to juniors!

Thanks for the theory recommendations, she's doing grade 3 at Saturday music so will just take a while to get to it! I'm not in any rush for her to take grade 6 though, she can spend some time working on wider repertoire, developing technique etc

londonmummy1966 · 07/12/2021 17:00

For those facing Grade 5 theory I can recommend "Take Five and Pass First Time" by Christopher Dunn. He wrote it for his 4 children when they were battling through it. You can usually buy a secondhand copy very cheaply on ebay.

horseymum · 07/12/2021 12:03

We have done that in the past, they get to play their piano pieces as people are filing into the assembly hall and then maybe at the end as well. I should have got her to play in class, forgot we used to do that.

HappySM1 · 07/12/2021 09:25

My DD is still primary age, so not sure about secondary arrangements. I ask her class teacher if she can play her exam pieces to the class or in assembly a couple of weeks ahead of the exam. She always says yes and it's a great performance opportunity.

Other mums are doing the same now, so they have regular little performances and it seems normal to them now.

horseymum · 07/12/2021 08:58

I feel your pain with grade 5 theory. Youngest dd deliberately not doing it as she thinks grade 6 is too hard so won't need the theory yet. She doesn't know she's already played grade 6 pieces fine. She'll get around to it at some point.

northerngoldilocks · 06/12/2021 22:19

@horseymum

Can you get some friends or neighbours round to have a wee recital? That would help create the performance butterflies. Then she could learn to control them to create the adrenaline needed for a good performance.
i think this is a good idea - probably should have done it as she does get really nervous if there is anyone different. One to think about before grade 6. Though that will be a while because she hasn't done grade 5 theory!
horseymum · 06/12/2021 20:54

That's great she played her best, that's all you can ask for. My friend is a teacher and had pupils on Friday get their results today so it really is quite quick.

thirdfiddle · 06/12/2021 17:46

DD actually wasn't particularly nervous and played at her best. Was a bit weird as they only had one waiting room and weren't allowed to have two groups in it, so we had to cart all our stuff into the exam room (I was piano-bashing). Hope her wait is as short as you guys! Sometimes it feels like being a music parent is a constant state of waiting for results of things.

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horseymum · 06/12/2021 11:14

Can you get some friends or neighbours round to have a wee recital? That would help create the performance butterflies. Then she could learn to control them to create the adrenaline needed for a good performance.

northerngoldilocks · 06/12/2021 10:05

That is a massive issue - something i need to think about for DD too. Piano is difficult to have regular performance opportunities really in general. She has way more opportunity to play violin in front of others just through playing in ensembles / orchestras.

horseymum · 04/12/2021 15:43

I think it's so hard doing exams just now as they've had no chances to perform or get that nervous feeling and conquer it. My dd was really nervous and it showed in the singing but pieces were fine.

thirdfiddle · 04/12/2021 11:24

Ah congratulations ilovesushi DD, horsey DD and northern DD!
Exam coming up this week for my DD's g5 violin. I think I'm more nervous than she is which is /probably/ a good thing. Not least that I don't screw up the logistics of warming up at home but allowing enough time to find parking.

She's currently saying she doesn't want to do any more exams ever. Would save a lot of effort...

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northerngoldilocks · 04/12/2021 11:11

We got ours this morning too- not sure if they send out on a Sat or if the piano teacher was just out yesterday and checked today. Either way, really quick and delighted that she's passed. She's at strings ensemble now so doesn't know yet!

horseymum · 04/12/2021 07:40

Results through this morning, happy girl. That's day three so super quick. I enter them so get the results first.

northerngoldilocks · 03/12/2021 20:02

Am trying to resist the urge to message the piano teacher to see if he's checked emails... basically will be Monday at the earliest now.

I checked back and when she sat last it was 3 days and when my son sat it was 5. That's much faster than the 'satellite offices' though

horseymum · 03/12/2021 18:46

We're waiting for results too, exam sat on Wednesday, hopefully Monday will bring good news!

HappySM1 · 02/12/2021 21:54

Our grade exam results came out 3 days later, both this time and last time. Good luck!

northerngoldilocks · 02/12/2021 13:32

amazing - well done to her. We are waiting for results from G5 piano here - sat on Tuesday and trying not to keep thinking about how last time she sat at head office that results were out 3 days later!

minisnowballs · 02/12/2021 10:28

That's fabulous news! Well done to her

ilovesushi · 02/12/2021 10:21

I posted a couple of weeks back for advice on helping DD with scales for her G4 woodwind exam. She went in as prepared as she could be though still struggling to remember all her scales. In the exam, she was asked every last scale and arpeggio and duffed some of them up terribly, BUT she passed her scales and got a distinction (in the 90s) overall. We both completely shocked and delighted! Thanks for the great advice. It was very reassuring and helpful!

londonmummy1966 · 27/11/2021 23:17

I've just dug out some Christmas music books that have simple piano arrangements of carols - good for your grade 3+ pianists or for a couple of others to play together with a pianistic parent.

Let me know if you want any...

Also have some basic harp music but guess that is a bit more esoteric.

HappySM1 · 23/11/2021 21:50

The Christmas Fiddler - Christmas... www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00006LTTZ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share&tag=mumsnetforu03-21

Also enjoying this book, although they are not duets as such. There is a harder part (the tune) and an "easy part" plus piano accompaniment. I think they work well as trios, but not sure it sounds up to much without the piano.

HappySM1 · 23/11/2021 21:47

Family Fun Violin Duets for Christmas: with Sing-Along Lyrics and Guitar/Piano Chords (Good Old Tunes Violin Music) www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1706957408/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_Y97JY5FJB6TCGVCTJRR3?psc=1&_encoding=UTF8&tag=mumsnetforu03-21

These are quite good. Otherwise just go for any flute duet book.

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