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Musical toddler - what next?

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Indecision2020 · 13/07/2020 10:45

Hello, I’ve name changed for this as some details quite identifying.

DS is 27 months old and extremely musical. This isn’t surprising as DH is a classical musician (performer) and I used to be, so DS has been exposed to lots of music at home since birth (from DH practising and rehearsing several hours every day, to lots of singing and dancing with DS). I can set out some of the stuff he can do if anyone is interested.

Obviously DH and I are really well placed to help him develop in some ways, but we both started our instruments aged 9/10 and came from non-musical families who weren’t well off. We were picked up by chance through free school lessons, so have no experience of early music making. By contrast we are in a position to recognise DS’s interest and get lessons for him at a much earlier stage and don’t have a clue what to do (if anything). He’s obviously much too young to learn an instrument now. I don’t want to push him in any way at all, and would hate him to feel pressure or be put off something that has given DH and I so much joy.

Does anyone have any experience/advice? Or could recommend good teachers/groups for encouraging musicianship for preschoolers?

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Murmurur · 13/07/2020 11:08

This may sound a bit bonkers but I think youngsters' tap dance is great for children who are musical but too young for an instrument. Lots of clapping & tapping rhythms, gives them great experience of focussing on, feeling & responding to the beat.

I've come 360 degrees on this - I used to think it was pointless until they had the coordination to do a shuffle.

Familyband · 13/07/2020 11:00

Hi OP. I have two sons (17 and 19 now) who are both very musical and were pretty musical as toddlers. The oldest is studying for a music degree, plays drums and makes a lot of electronic music. The younger is a sax player and (in normal times!), plays in several different bands. Currently trying to decide if he does a music degree. The oldest, particularly, showed an aptitude for drumming from a very early age. He spent a lot of time wrecking furniture by drumming on it (mostly perfectly in time) and then moved onto toy drum kits and various pots and pans. He and my other son had every kind of toy instrument imaginable and loved music. I did a few musical baby groups with them and always had lots of music on at home like you do. Both played recorder and ocarina at school and then did individual instrument lessons as soon as they were available at school (year 4 I think), and did choir in primary school and another one outside of school. We've just basically encouraged them as much as we can, letting them try everything, doing all the driving, etc, going to all the concerts, but I did make school band compulsory for them, even when it wasn't that great as I think playing in a group is really important. I think if you carry on the way you are, ds will be fine.

Indecision2020 · 13/07/2020 10:48

Sorry should have said we are in London.

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