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Music lessons in school or out when starting new senior school?

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boredorboard · 26/03/2019 18:40

Would really appreciate some wisdom. DD is starting a new senior school Yr7 in September. At the moment she has music lessons in school and so will need a new teacher regardless.

I don't know whether to organise lessons in school or outside? The pro of in school is that she will be involved in the music dept activity and more likely to get involved in orchestras and bands. She is quite shy so may be reluctant to do this otherwise although obviously she will be allowed to.

The con is that she will miss academic lessons (although the actual lesson missed will vary each week) and I don't want her to fall behind, miss homework being set, etc. I think she will also find it hard to walk out of a lesson midway to go to the music lesson.

What has worked for your DC? I don't know what to do for the best.

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Hertsessex · 26/03/2019 20:55

We have generally gone for the school option although at times went outside (multiple kids and multiple instruments). If school has good teachers and active music department I would go for school option. Much easier to get involved in school activities as you say, quite possibly cheaper and much less hassle. I wouldn't worry about missing the odd lesson. My DD was up to missing three lessons a week at one point which was too much but 1 or 2 fine.

sleepismysuperpower1 · 26/03/2019 19:23

where are you based (if you dont mind saying) OP? we might be able to recommend a music teacher near you x

ChicCroissant · 26/03/2019 19:11

Much cheaper in school! We tried to sign DD up for lesson in secondary but there wasn't enough interest in her instrument so she missed out for a whole term until we found a teacher outside school at twice the price!

KneelJustKneel · 26/03/2019 19:07

We were planning in school as it will mean its contained in the day and wont add to the list of out of school commitments. Its often slightly cheaper. Also means she'll get to know other music students in other years and be in and out of the department etc. Admitedly im not musical.

Advantage/disadvantage of out of school is usually its weekly so more lessons/but more costly.

boredorboard · 26/03/2019 19:04

Thank you. I think you are right. Need to find a teacher now!!

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sleepismysuperpower1 · 26/03/2019 18:44

i think i would organize it out of school, because I wouldn't want her to miss homework etc (and being new she may not know who to ask; new friends and all). Also, my dd would find it daunting to leave midway through a lesson. however, i would strongly encourage her to join the music clubs at the start of the new term when everyone is new, so she can meet people in her year. all the best x

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