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November Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 30/10/2018 22:09

Welcome to all musicians/ parents of musicians, young and 'mature', beginners and advanced, plus everything in between. This is one of the nicest corners of Mumsnet and the music threads were started for my older daughter towards the beginning of her musical journey, 7 years ago. Everybody on the thread was a beginner once!

I have recently seen "we're not a musical family", "I'm not musical" on here quite a lot, and would like to gently challenge that... perhaps you may not have found the right instrument/ teacher yet, or have no desire to play, but I think that everyone is musical. It's not a special something that is limited to certain individuals, although of course everyone's aptitude and natural ceiling varies. I have had the pleasure of teaching almost 1000 people to read and play music now, ranging in age from 3 to 96 and incorporating a range of additional needs, and I think they all got something positive from their lessons! What our young musicians most need from us - whether we play ourselves or not - is lots of encouragement, time and space to practise, and of course the constant taxi service and financial support we give to their lessons and ensembles!

I have two DDs, Goo The Energy Conserver (flute and piano, lapsed recorder and picc player) who is pretty lazy and complacent at the moment and just wants to enjoy her life, and Rara The Awkward (clarinet, cello, recorder) who tries hard... when it suits her! We have nothing special lined up this term, but possibly piano and clarinet exams for next term. Goo claims she wants to dust off her recorders and theory books to get another couple of Grade 8s before she leaves school. I'll believe that when it happens.

Over to you.

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hapsburg · 08/11/2018 11:27

DD may need WineWine later on - I think she is about to annoy the swimming coach massively. She has piano lesson that finishes at 3pm, swimming gala that starts at 3pm (and from experience these always go on forever), rehearsal at 4.15pm (swimming will not be finished) and Italian oral lesson at 5.15pm (so rehearsal can't run late). She has asked, but rehearsals and lessons can't be moved. The only way for this to work is if she doesn't do the gala - which is the least important for her anyway. But - teamwork, blah blah, not letting others down etc etc.... all very important, but she simply can't be in two places at once.

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hapsburg · 08/11/2018 07:54

Just putting this here as a distraction from the hectic schedules, practice battles etc etc! www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZdXoER96is
Fascinating to see these guys working together.

Trumpetboysmum · 08/11/2018 06:31

Raspberry that’s a crazy schedule Shock good luck with the letter !! I’m sure I’ve got a few more of those to write while ds is at school !! At the moment things seem to be very busy but under control here , let’s see how long that lasts Smile

raspberryrippleicecream · 07/11/2018 23:26

I'm late to the thread this month! I mainly have DS2, about to be 16, piano, trombone, organ, singer. Welcome to all the new people.

Grade 8 piano is in 4 weeks, in the middle of 18 GCSE mock exams at school. I am currently drafting the letter in my head telling school he will be missing his mock Chemistry exam.

The Christmas gig madness has already started, DS2 is playing/singing twice a week at a local residential leisure centre as part of their winter programme.

I can thoroughly recommend Knittings t-shirt recommendations, I followed her advice a couple of years ago and it went down very well.

Violinboymum · 07/11/2018 20:51

DS is sitting his grade 3 piano exam soon, but already thinking ahead and is asking how much harder grade 4 piano is? The step up from grade 3 to 4 in violin was not huge, but piano seems a bit harder to learn. Is skipping grade 4 exam and going straight for grade 5 piano a bad idea? He skipped grade 2 piano (he learnt all pieces and scales needed in a few months and moved to grade 3).

Wiifitmama · 07/11/2018 20:16

Well ds3 has come in from ensemble tonight saying his teacher has asked him to do a solo when they perform on stage at the Royal Albert Hall in March (not as impressive as it sounds - the ensemble is part of the Triborough in London which has RAH as part of its area and therefore some sort of deal with them to us it). There is some major concert for all the ensembles and groups there in March (Convo? I think! I don't pay that much attention!). Anyhow, ds3 is over the moon. Ds2 (my real musician in the family) has also been asked to play a solo but is actually considering whether he can be bothered to take his main instrument (not the one he plays in this ensemble but the one they want him to play the solo on) to the concert!!

I do like that my kids are in boroughs that have major venues in them as it does have its bonuses! The borough we live in has Wembly in it so when they do the Young Musician of the Year competition, the winner plays on stage there!

RomanyRoots · 07/11/2018 19:26

if you have the pad or it's half hanging out or split.
You need a bit of oil for the slit, but only little to soften.
Blu tac and tweezers, obviously making sure the tac is under the pad not oozing out on top.

Best I could do, but an advanced player.
Student said obviously get fixed after the concert.
Has also had to do this during a concert, student recommends a basic repair kit for Christmas.

RomanyRoots · 07/11/2018 19:15

Woolley

Can't promise but I'll see if dd friend about, they have to do repairs themselves.
Keep eye on thread will post if I find out.

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woolleybear · 07/11/2018 18:34

Having a bit of a mare here today, pad on bassoon has gone the day before a concert. I'm now going to try and fashion one from God knows what...

catkind · 07/11/2018 17:43

Darn, one week after teacher assuring me she has no intention of starting exam music with DS... he comes home learning exam music. Someone has misunderstood someone there. Really don't think he's ready or prepared to put in the work to get ready in any reasonable time frame.

RomanyRoots · 07/11/2018 16:05

here's another blame. Grin

It's my fault dd is only just doing grade 5 Piano as how could she be expected to learn without a Steinway grand like she has at school Grin

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LooseAtTheSeams · 07/11/2018 09:49

I also hope it went well for the mini theory exam-takers! DS2 has only just started the G5 book so not facing that challenge quite yet!

Doubleup · 07/11/2018 09:18

I'd forgotten that the theory exams were this week. Hope it went well for all the minis.

Trumpetboysmum · 07/11/2018 06:54

Ds said theory was fine !! Here’s hoping Smile 3 days of the school show now followed by his NCO concert on Sunday !! So he’s happy as just doing music is what he lives for and I’ll be pleased when this week is over !!

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TheFirstOHN · 06/11/2018 19:39

Hope today went well for the theory candidates.

catkind · 06/11/2018 18:39

For example he is not good enough violinist because his parents are not a ballerina and a lawyer like David Garrett’s parents.
Bwahahaha, kids really are the gift that keeps on giving. I'm LOL at various of the reasons us parents are to blame but this one particularly takes the biscuit!

Good luck to the theory-ers!

Lotsofmilkonesugar · 06/11/2018 17:30

Yes, fingers crossed for everyone sitting the theory paper today! We have two extremely tired DCs after taking part in the music for youth prom at the Albert Hall yesterday celebrating 125 years of the BSO. There are some lovely photos on the Bournemouth Symphony Orchestra Facebook page if any other Southerly posters had children there and want to have a look 🙂