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November Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 01/11/2017 21:58

New month, new thread! This is a place for musicians and parents of musicians, from complete beginners to experienced and everything in between, to talk about everything to do with music! Previous threads have covered exams, practice, scales, instrument hire and purchase, theory, composition, aural woes, auditions, scholarship preparation and much more.

I started these threads when my 12 year old daughter Goo was 6 and preparing for Grade 1. I never thought we'd still be going, 6 years later! I appreciated all the advice I was given back then, and try to repay that when I can.

Goo plays the flute and piano (she has been learning the piano for 18 months but has yet to perform - ever) and has no exams lined up at the moment. I also have Rara who is 9, and working towards her third Grade 3, on the clarinet. The other two were on the cello and recorder. She's more interested in art and reading, and currently swims five times a week.

I am a teacher of woodwind, and Wednesday is my day from you-know-where... full-on from 6.30 am until 10 pm, and about to get worse!!

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Minimusiciansmama · 05/11/2017 21:53

waffle we don't have tv either. We have dvds for occasional screen time but we don't have tv.

Wafflenose · 05/11/2017 21:33

Mini mine don't have tablets or i-anythings and we don't own a TV. Goo just got a smart phone aged 12, and I bitterly regret it. Rara doesn't have a phone because she is 9!

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CharisInAlexandria · 05/11/2017 21:22

I was just really impressed by the quality of the music.

I have never stayed for a rehearsal due to my two younger ones. One of whom fell asleep in the concert. Quite how he managed to do that I don’t know!

Anyway it has been a lovely experience for her. If she doesn’t get back in then I will have to look for another good orchestra for her.

What I love about the regionals is that you only have to go once a month. Otherwise with three kids and a job it’s a big commitment to go to a weekly orchestra.

I also hope she can go to a secondary school next year where they have a decent orchestra. But who knows where she will end up.

Doubleup · 05/11/2017 21:12

I think miniKutik was sitting with another boy almost in the viola section Charis. As always, sooo many violins, but I think the bassoons were holding their own with 6. Five of those have the same teacher and from talking to the mother of the other one at one of the rehearsals, the sixth one used to be taught by the same teacher until they moved a couple of years ago.

CharisInAlexandria · 05/11/2017 21:04

It’s odd reading this thread we are all leading parallel lives. My DD was at south easterlies today and had a desk partner who was a boy. I am now wondering if it could have been Kutik’s DS as there seemed to be very few boys playing the violin.

Great concert though. Would be lovely if she could do it again next year.

Minimusiciansmama · 05/11/2017 20:50

My deprived 8 year old doesn't know what a hashtag is! She isn't in the realms of having a mobile phone yet and is genuinely the single only kid in her class who hasn't got their own iPad.

Kutik73 · 05/11/2017 20:39

Double, I looked out for you but couldn’t see you. I saw your mini though. Wink The boys who we were taking photos together were not DS’s desk partner. There were friends before NCO. They are all different age so even if they manage to get in again they won’t be together (unless they choose to go to the same regional). So we were feeling a bit sentimental.

I also felt quite emotional by seeing DS playing in the concert. The NCO challenge really opened up doors to DS. Before then violin was something he was doing at school, nothing more. He took the challenge, and everything just happened after that. So the NCO challenge was the beginning of DS’s musical journey and I felt the first chapter of the journey came to the end.

I remember his very first rehearsal last January. He looked tiny surrounded by talented young musicians. He’s come very far since then. Can’t believe it’s less than a year ago.

Doubleup · 05/11/2017 19:10

Just got back from the NCO South Easterlies concert. Opened with The Big Country and closed with Star Wars: The Force Awakens; a very enjoyable end to the weekend and our NCO year. Did your DH enjoy it Kutik? I did see you briefly about to take a photo of minikutik and his desk partner, but had to go in search of a bassoonist.

LooseAtTheSeams · 05/11/2017 15:39

Waffle you are cool - we’ve seen the pic of your musical trainers! Coolest shoes, no contest!Smile

drummersmum · 05/11/2017 14:15

waffle you are cool. Yes you are.

drummersmum · 05/11/2017 14:14

Omg ealing. Somehow one never forgets these moments. London traffic is so insane.
mending Grin

Kutik73 · 05/11/2017 14:10

Oh and, happy birthday day to your 16 + a day boy, Loose!

Kutik73 · 05/11/2017 14:09

My mad DH is also scorpion... Grin

LooseAtTheSeams · 05/11/2017 13:32

drummers good description! Grin

ealingwestmum · 05/11/2017 13:23

Drummers; we had exactly the same scenario with DD's G5 theory when she was 10....abandoned the car in some random road in Isleworth, ran to this catholic massive school that was like Fort Knox to get into (no signs, not one) and got there with a minute to spare with her being led to a desk with massive kids in a room of 200+. A teacher then approached me in corridor to say DD was in the toilet throwing up "worrying about your car"?. Was allowed to wave at her from a window...big smile and all was good. These mad moments hey, but they do get the adrenaline running!

Wafflenose · 05/11/2017 13:21

Ha ha! When my Year 4-5 children miss one of their sharps (usually when playing in D or A major) I do get them to "look at the hashtags and which notes they belong to" - just to get it in there before they do. I'm so cool! Not.

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Mendingfences · 05/11/2017 13:18

I thought i should share this mornings amusing moment. Ds (7) has drums as his first instrument but has also started piano. Today he was looking at some Christmas piano music and it sounded 'wrong' - it was i g major and this f Sharp so i explained about the key signature. Oh said ds, so thats what the hashtag does 😂

Wafflenose · 05/11/2017 12:57

I applied to Bristol, Cardiff, Royal Holloway, Exeter, Surrey and Southampton. All of them wanted Grade 5 piano by the time I got there (tall order, as I started at 15) and Exeter wanted Grade 6 piano. They don't run undergraduate music any more though, as far as I'm aware.

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drummersmum · 05/11/2017 11:36

Kutik when DS was sitting the 11plus, we were late for the only grammar exam he took because it was really far. The traffic was dead still. We had to jump from the car and run several blocks. When we got there the exam was about to start. DS was breathless and needed the toilet. This was the most difficult exam he sat, as there were over 1600 applicants for 120 places and in case of a tie they then factored in distance which in our case was huge. He got a place. Up to this day I know it was the run. I just know it. It was the rush of oxygen into his brain, early morning, that made the difference. Your DH is absolutely on the right track.

drummersmum · 05/11/2017 11:24

Loose Happy Bday to DS1... Both our boys are Scorpios!! Strong willed and mysterious Wink

LooseAtTheSeams · 05/11/2017 08:14

Thanks ealing! Yes he did and the brownies were definitely appreciated!

ealingwestmum · 05/11/2017 07:37

loosehappy belated 16th to your boy for yesterday! Hope he had a great day and appreciated your brownies Cake (I know, not quite right)

Kutik73 · 04/11/2017 22:00

Double, yes, DH offered a lift, so assume he is coming! See you there?

Doubleup · 04/11/2017 18:41

Kutik, is your DH going to the concert tomorrow? You weren't entirely sure a few weeks ago.

Kutik73 · 04/11/2017 17:10

And I start to realise that musicians need a strong body with good stamina. Wink

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