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October Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 01/10/2017 01:18

Hello, I just fell asleep in front of a very long film that DH wanted to watch, and woke up in October! I couldn't resist starting the new thread before going to sleep properly.

The monthly music threads are welcome to ALL, and we really like hearing from new contributors and beginner musicians. We have all levels on here. It's a good place to discuss instruments, lessons, practice, exams, auditions and anything else that you want to.

I am a teacher of recorder, clarinet, saxophone and flute, and have two daughters. Goo is 11 and plays the flute and piano. She is planning to do exams on both next year, but none just now because she's just started at the secondary school 2 miles down the road, which has a great reputation for music and sport, and is extremely academic. They study four languages in Year 7 - Goo has just finished her unit on German (by the end of three weeks, they could write three substantial paragraphs - I couldn't believe it!) and is now embarking on Mandarin.
She's thrown herself into choir, orchestra, steel band, flute group and the gym. Rara is 9 and has been playing the cello since the age of 5, and clarinet for a year. She enjoys both, but is happiest when she's reading or cutting up paper/ making things out of paper! Rara has plenty of free time because she attends the village school five minutes away, and hardly gets any homework.

Goo attends South West Music School, which is the nearest thing we have to a JD in the south west. Rara is just about to join! Not too much on musically this term (and not a lot of practice taking place, quite honestly) apart from auditioning for the NCO. Goo has been in it for the past three years, and is hoping for Under 12s. After a wobble about even auditioning, she seems quietly confident now.

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Pradaqueen · 01/10/2017 18:39

Hello everyone! Thank you waffle for the new thread! Lovely to hear about Goo's school, it sounds fab!

Miniprada is 11 and just started y7 as a music scholar in a girls London day school. She is just starting her G8 violin syllabus and G7 piano. She's already had so many music opportunities in school - choir, chamber music, orchestras and lately a trio ensemble with two other classmates. She's loving it but I think realistically she is going to have to give up her out of school orchestra commitments as there will literally be no time for homework or dancing (which she loves).

I hope minimusician is ok!

Kutik73 · 01/10/2017 16:56

We had a family outing to New Scientist Live at ExCel today - lots fun things to see and do! One of the highlights for DS was to meet and chat with Lucy Hawking. He read all her George books and of course has all the series at home, but bought another copy of the first edition being sold there today with his pocket money to get her signature. She was so lovely and told him a little secret of her next book publishing next spring, shock hand, and let us take a photo together. The book with her signature will be his treasure for sure.

Now DH and DS are off to a quick swim (we live in front of a gym so we regard it's our personal gym Grin). DS said he would do some music later, but not sure if he has any energy left after all this. It was fun, but as it was such a big event, we were all quite exhausted at the end!

Wafflenose · 01/10/2017 16:43

If she has finished book 3, I reckon she could take Grade 4+, so please don't worry. Half the marks for sight reading are for rhythm alone (if it's ABRSM) so she could play the correct rhythm on one open string and get about 10/21.

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Trumpetboysmum · 01/10/2017 16:42

Lurky your post made me smile I am exactly the same with ds and have to give myself a stern talking to from time to time !! He is always fine but also switch between oh isn't that great and definitely only hearing the bits that aren't quite right !!

LurkyMcLurcker · 01/10/2017 16:30

Hope your DD is ok Mini.

I've no excuse for flapping over G3 violin, I took my G8 violin about 100yrs ago (okay, 20yrs) and studied music at Uni. I've played in orchestras all my life...

But I only ever took G5 and G8 and I'm struggling to reassure myself that she's at the correct standard to be a good mark. I flirt between thinking 'oh my wonderful DD, she is so talented and marvellous(!)" and "oh my god, that intonation is a bit rocky and, ooo, the bow hold isn't perfect and, hmmm, the sound quality could of be richer and, whoops, I'm not mad on that vibrato...". Grin

Her teacher assures me she is above standard so I think I need to chill out. I just need to get her to understand the importance of KEY SIGNATURES in the sight reading!

CharisInAlexandria · 01/10/2017 15:51

I mainly read these threads as I find it hard to make enough time to contribute.

I have DD who is 10. Does violin and piano. Did Grade 5 violin in the summer and got a good merit, 127. No piano grades yet has been learning for about a year. Does NCO regionals and is reauditioning in a couple of weeks. Going to apply for some music scholarships for secondary school but it's very competitive here, South West London, so I don't know if she will get to audition or not.

I have DS1 aged 7. He is at a school where he has a place as a chorister though he isn't in the choir yet. He is learning violin and piano and doing loads of singing at school. No grades taken yet.

I also have DS2 aged 4. He hasn't started anything yet.

Doubleup · 01/10/2017 15:11

Mini, I hope it's nothing that rest and an ice pack won't sort.

Waffle, glad to hear that Goo has decided to do the NCO audition.

I have DD1 (14) who plays oboe (Grade 6 +) and sax (about to take Grade 6). She's a music scholar at her school with her scholar's concert coming up next week. She plays in 4 orchestras/ensembles at school, and a double reed ensemble, concert band and swing band with the local music hub.

DD2 (10) plays bassoon (Grade 7) and guitar (Grade 3ish). She has been in NCO for the last two years and plays in the double reed ensemble with her sister, plus wind band. She is on the music hub's gifted and talented programme and is currently spending the day doing a chamber ensemble day, one to a part. We get to go and listen to the results of that in about an hour.

Trumpetboysmum · 01/10/2017 14:31

Mini hope your dd is fine . Ds took part in a dalcroze class the other week and really enjoyed it though I think they took part barefoot

Greenleave · 01/10/2017 14:27

Just read other posts, mini sorry to hear! Hope it isnt too bad! Its dangerous everywhere!
Mine is 9 yrs old, playing violin and piano. We are struggling with finding a violin teacher the last 1.5 yrs. Progress since has been very slow. Its very frustrated. Our aim now is only finding a good, permanent teacher. We will have to start with 11+ prep. We have a test with a tutor next week with hope she is offered a place at the tutor, then the lesson will start from end of Oct. My aim this school year is trying to balance all her activities with her academic side with hope she wont fail 11+ and still keeps up with her interests.

Wafflenose · 01/10/2017 14:23

Eek, Mini. I hope it's nothing much and that she'll be OK by the time she gets home.

I am trying to get Goo to clear her homework list at the weekends. She has a big bit of science left (60-90 mins worth) and I suggested she got it done. "It's not due until FRIDAY!" she yelled, and I could hear the implied "D'uh!" at the end of the sentence. She's now pratting about in Rara's room.

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drummersmum · 01/10/2017 14:15

mini wishing her a speedy recovery.
Quick recap for new thread:
I have a percussionist (15) and pianist, finished all grades last year so this year is all about getting better. He is continuing lessons on drum kit, orchestral percussion, classical piano and jazz piano. He has joined jd and it's their requisite he takes Theory gr6 in the summer. He's a music scholar at his school where he plays and sings in 6 weekly ensembles plus a multitude of events because percussion is always needed. All this doesn't leave a lot of time for academic work, therefore our Sundays are now 10 hour long marathons of homework. I think that when he leaves home in 3 years I will have to be hospitalized for adrenaline withdrawal syndrome.

Greenleave · 01/10/2017 14:13

Mini: your young musician is very advanced! I wish her all the best with her audition!

LooseAtTheSeams · 01/10/2017 13:59

minimusician oh no! Hope your little one is ok!

Kutik73 · 01/10/2017 13:54

Cross posted, minimusician. Sorry to hear the accident. Hope she is alright. Flowers

Kutik73 · 01/10/2017 13:52

It's so nice that so many opportunities are out there for young talents. I can see a bright future for minimusician's little girl! Smile

DS (10) plays violin and piano. He also does lots of sports, is a maths/science kid and loves reading and writing. So basically he has lots interests and passions in life! Currently in the first round of the secondary school selection process. Applied for 3 music places and 1 science place at state secondaries. One was done last week and two aptitude tests to be done this coming week. All will be finished before half term, then will be quiet until the second round of the process kicks in in January.

Minimusiciansmama · 01/10/2017 13:41

Argghhh you don't expect JD to be a danger zone.... I've just had a call from the centre manager that she's slipped and twisted her knee in the dalcroze class. I don't mind, accidents happen, but he said "she really do with something for her feet so she doesn't slip".... dalcroze isn't on her timetable! She mentioned a bit of movement to music in her musicianship class so took grip socks to wear for it. But she's a dancer, we've every variety of dance shoes at home she could wear.... if they'd told me!
Rant over.

Wafflenose · 01/10/2017 11:38

I imagine she will be principal! Or principal 2nd if they feel she's lacks experience.

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stringchild · 01/10/2017 11:34

Hi Mini - I forgot how young/advanced your dd is! My clarinettist was yr 4 when she first got into nco clarinet (u10s) and was around g2 level. how would you feel if she got into u10s? She must def benofnstandard tonso so 😀

Minimusiciansmama · 01/10/2017 10:50

Wow October already... thanks waffle. Mama to a little 7yr old clarinetist/pianist/wannabe bassoonist. She is as I type at our Northern answer to JD, where she spends her Sundays as of last week. She played her first "proper" concert last night and was beautiful, totally unphased by being the youngest by a long shot. Also, unphased by having to be put on a box to announce herself and an extra platform to play on and didn't bat an eye lid at her first experience playing with a totally unknown accompanist.
No exams this term but she's looking ahead to G5 clarinet and either 3 or 4 piano- she's fully prepared for G3 but they don't do them in their first term so she might just wait til 4.
Two weeks until her first NCO audition. Extremely excited for it!

catkind · 01/10/2017 10:31

Microjazz any good? I got DH a complete beginner book once, iirc it came with duet parts too.

LooseAtTheSeams · 01/10/2017 10:31

Hello all, I'm glad Waffle reminded me it's October - I had a gin tasting party last night/this morning and have only just got up!
Anyway to music - DS1 is 15, doing GCSEs and plays bass guitar, drums and tuned percussion, although I think he loves the snare drum much more than xylophone!
DS2 is 12 and plays piano and cello at grade 5 and has started learning electric guitar. Misti he's using Rockschool grade books and the corresponding Hot Rock books with his teacher. I think the latter go up to grade 5 so your DS could look at that one and see what he thinks. The grade books are good for technique. DS2 will take grade 3 some time this academic year.
I'm working on grade 5 piano. I think I have reached my limit although I probably said that about grade 3!

Mistigri · 01/10/2017 09:55

Thanks cat. DS is very much a self-starter, so ideally I'd like to find a method for older beginners, and then I might download him the rockschool grade materials as IIRC they are available via a very good app. I will probably book him a few lessons with my teacher to avoid bad habits getting ingrained.

catkind · 01/10/2017 09:48

Hi all, signing on to try to stay in touch with music threads!
I'm a good amateur string player myself, kids are still in early stages - DS (8) on piano thinking about grade 1, DD (5) on violin and as of recently piano. I'm looking for a horn teacher for DS second instrument. Still somewhat dithery as to whether he's ready to practice two - DD got her second early because she enthusiastically practiced both all summer, including the boring bits; DS is still reluctant to do more than minimum, he'd rather play through his favourite pieces with the same mistakes every time than learn new things or try to improve. He says he wants to though, so think we'll give it a go.

Hi Lurky, DD is doing Suzuki books too, though her teacher is not actually Suzuki. Just towards end of book 1 though the pieces are taking a while at the moment. I learned with Suzuki too! Sight reading was always my weakest area when it came to exams, but really good pieces will help make up.

Misti, I'm sure jazz/contemporary style for beginners is a thing, perhaps your teacher will be able to recommend someone who can teach that way.

Mistigri · 01/10/2017 09:20

Didn't mean to post so soon!

Anyway, so DS14 now a better guitarist than me (6 weeks vs 3 years, grr). He wants to learn piano now, but for rock/ contemporary music not classical. Any advice? I can ask my new teacher but she is very classically oriented. Is there such a thing as a contemporary-music oriented method for near-beginners?

DD16 has less time for music this year due to ridiculous and partly self-imposed timetable at school where she sits her baccalauréat this year and has added optional music studies and Latin to her already heavy workload. Her piano teacher is making her work on Bach which she hates Wink.

Mistigri · 01/10/2017 09:14

I am horribly behind with the threads as usual - sorry :(

I now officially have TWO musical kids as DS is still making phenomenal progress on guitar - he is better than me now Angry