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(Mostly) August Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 28/07/2017 14:29

Here's a new thread for August, but we're starting it a few days early, because you lot have managed to be super chatty this month! I wonder if things will slow down in August due to people going away... maybe or maybe not?

I'm Waffle, a teacher of woodwind - mostly recorders and clarinet, but I have a couple of flutes currently, and teach saxophone, piano and theory when required. I am determined that the music threads should be open to ALL, including complete beginners and adult learners. It's a good place to discuss lessons, practice, concerts, exams and our generally hectic lives!

I have a DH who plays the guitar for pleasure (no lessons) and two girls. Goo is 11 and has her Grade 7 Flute (March 2017) and Grade 6 Recorder (December 2015 and now pretty much stopped Sad ). She has been learning the piano for 15 months, is refusing to perform in any way, shape or form, but will probably take Grade 5 next year. Rara is 9 and has Grade 3 Cello (July 2017), Grade 3 Recorder (December 2016 and also ceased) and is working towards her Grade 3 Clarinet... probably next spring. Goo is off to NCO Under 12s on Sunday, and we need to pop out to get her some shoes and general supplies in a bit.

I have just realised that we will probably have Grade 8 Flute and Grade 3 Clarinet going on in the same session, Spring 2018. Oh dear! If Rara bothers with Grade 4 Cello, we'll probably have that at the same time as Grade 5 Piano, next summer. Double oh dear!

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VeryPunny · 01/08/2017 08:49

Can I join in officially? Returning to the piano after some ahem years away. Had my trial lesson last month and am all set up for lessons next term. Currently on the K283 sonata and a few Chopin preludes, although have overdone it somewhat and my wrists are complaining...this never happened when I was young!

You are scaring me a bit as music parents! I should confess that we've already been kicked out of Suzuki Piano for not being committed enough - this was when DD was 2 years old and we were told that we were expected to observe several times a month before we would even be considered for lessons at 4....I didn't think it was the ideal way to foster an interest in music.... DD is now 4 and hopefully she'll start piano in a year or two.

Fleurdelise · 01/08/2017 08:39

Prada that made me laugh. It reminded me of the time when I was in my youth doing a waitressing job at a posh hotel and one day I happen to serve Dennis Hopper. His movies were not to my taste and I had no clue who he was so I was doing small chat. Started with "so what part of America do you live in? What do you do for living?" He looked at me like I am from another planet and replied "acting". We chatted briefly and then my colleagues were shocked when I said I didn't know who he was. He returned a couple of time while he was staying at the hotel telling me he finds our conversations refreshing.

Dd won't get a wooden clarinet for a long time either even if she's doing grade 5/6 clarinet in a couple of years time she's petite and I can't see her able to hold one at 12. Maybe depending on her growth we will get her one before grade 8.

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Pradaqueen · 01/08/2017 07:54

Raspberry - hope all is well and on the mend..

Waffle - that's hilarious. Poor you! If it makes you feel any better, In the 80's the (very posh) Father of a girl in my class at school years ago sat next to Paul McCartney on a plane back from NYC. My friends Dad asked him what he 'did for a living' Grin a bemused P Mc replied 'I'm a musician' my friends dad said 'righto! Had much success?' P Mc replied 'yes. Some' GrinGrin

Minimusiciansmama · 01/08/2017 06:29

thesecond my dd's clarinet teacher says in an ideal world she'd have a new clarinet for grade 6 up (her next exam will prob be G5) but that with perhaps new mouthpiece, ligature & barrel she could perhaps carry on with her b12 through to g8. She'll certainly not have a wooden clarinet for good a while longer as she's only 7

gillybeanz · 31/07/2017 23:40

Hello all, lovely to hear the NCO stories, it helps me to understand why dd is ready to go back to school.
I'm not taking it so personally now.
I think opportunities like this are amazing for the children, something to remember for the rest of their lives. Thanks

We are all festivalled out now, only a couple but full on.
My ears are tired and dd has decided to start classical singing for a comp next year, if school allow.
Heard the most amazing Jazz by the worlds finest, had such a good laugh and got so drunk one night Blush.

They are both off to exchange various woodwind. I have no idea what cunning plan they will come up with.
Once again I looked at my Clarinet in the box, my ears hurt and I've forgotten what I like listening to iyswim, it's not easy being bombarded from all angles Grin

Thanks for the lovely stories.

raspberryrippleicecream · 31/07/2017 23:33

Sorry second Flowers. I guess it was unfair mentioning it on this thread!

Thanks again for the good wishes and also for the teeth stories.

Truffle he is around Grade 4-5 now, so I'll definitely do some investigating, thank you.

raspberryrippleicecream · 31/07/2017 23:24

Trumpetboysmum we had this issue last weekend, DS was doing NYO inspire at Birmingham uni and we had booked the Travelodge at Fort Dunlop as it was so cheap. Probably cos of the closure!

There is lots of signing, but we did need to allow longer. Sunday am through Birmingham was ok. We tended to use DS with Google on his phone as it updated in real time.

drummersmum · 31/07/2017 23:21

Oh no raspberry sending him good vibes Flowers

Trumpetboysmum · 31/07/2017 23:18

Waffle and string ( don't think I've missed any other under 12 nco parents) just trying to sort out stuff for my extended family visit to Birmingham at the weekend to discover that junction 6 of the m6 and the A38 running into Birmingham will be shut all weekend! Guess there will be diversions but we might need to leave extra time for traveling Smile depending on how we are diving into the city

Fleurdelise · 31/07/2017 23:10

Oh no raspberry hoping for the best for raspberryboy!

Waffle that is hilarious! Grin I can actually imagine the scene word by word, you talking with confidence about things on this thread and faketrumpetmum nodding, silently thinking you need professional help. 😂

We got two of our new clarinet books and dd started one piece (with a view in mind of maybe keeping it for NCO audition). Waffle do you happen to have the book called Music Through time (book 3)? If you do what is your opinion of the level of standard and difficulty of the last piece in the book by Paul Harris? I have no clue how it should sound, my plan is to get dd to learn it, dynamics and all, interpret it herself and then when the time comes we'll take it to her piano teacher to see what she thinks (and send it to Waffle also Wink). I just need to know if the piece looks like an acceptable standard.

TheSecondOfHerName · 31/07/2017 22:42

I've dropped off DD's flute and DS2's clarinet to our woodwind repairer so he can give them a check over.

He asked after DS2 as he remembered him trying new mouthpieces last year when he upgraded. I said that DS2 is hoping to do Grade 8 next year. The woodwind repairer (who also plays and teaches clarinet) looked very surprised that DS2 would be doing this on his beginner clarinet.

I'm now wondering whether we need to buy him a better instrument.

TheSecondOfHerName · 31/07/2017 22:37

I'd managed to put AS results to the back of my mind until raspberry mentioned it. It's like that thing my children do, where one of them says "You just lost the game."

troutsprout · 31/07/2017 22:35

Hope your Ds is ok Raspberry
Ds had a rogue canine that never descended and ended up under his left nostril. It was flagged up because he had a baby tooth that was never pushed out.
Exposure, a chain and slowly pulling it into place over 2 years was proposed.
In the end we declined this option. He was put out and it was removed (couldn't be left as could result in a cyst)
He's 20 now.. he still has the baby tooth

Trufflethewuffle · 31/07/2017 22:32

Raspberry various orthodontists thought DD's was going to need removing until she actually got to see the surgeon who took more X-rays from above her head. He could then see how to get to it without too much damage to the lateral incisor. The canine is now in place but the lateral incisors on both sides will one day be replaced by implants. This was always a possibility anyway as one is a baby tooth (opposite side to the impacted canine) with no adult tooth present and the one next to the recovered canine is a peg with a short root even though it is an adult tooth.

For TOSE, the first time DS went he was probably Grade 5 or 6. I think the RCO also do some other courses called something like Set Your Sights. These sort of lead the way into TOSE. I seem to remember DS went off and did one of those first.

Wafflenose · 31/07/2017 22:15

LMAO @ randomtrumpetmum! She did tell me she'd come from a different town to the one I was expecting, but I assumed they'd been away travelling, or stayed overnight for some reason...

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raspberryrippleicecream · 31/07/2017 22:00

Icould it distracts from the AS results next month!

Ah Truffle I remember you telling me about that tooth. A gold chain has been mentioned, but the impression we've been given so far is this tooth is too awkwardly placed and risks the bottom incisors, so may need to be removed.

We will definitely look at TOSE. What grade are they generally at? Assuming Grade 8, so will probably not be next year.

hapsburg · 31/07/2017 21:55

waffle maybe randomtrumpetmum is a lurker on this thread which would explain her lack of surprise at your topics of conversation?

Wafflenose · 31/07/2017 21:45

Oh no, poor Raspberryboy. I hope it's not too painful, but I expect it is! I'm glad my stupidity cheered Raspberrymum up a bit though, and gave the rest of you a good giggle at my expense. I think it's really funny, especially as I am usually very shy.

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Trufflethewuffle · 31/07/2017 21:24

Raspberry hope the orthodontist goes well. DD had this with an upper canine and had an operation to expose it and pull it into place. Not ideal for a clarinetist but has gone really well, excellent results.

TOSE is at Cambridge next year, they have a great time and all the participants are really supportive of each other.

se22mother · 31/07/2017 21:22

Kutik well remembered and yes it was fantastic.

Icouldbeknitting · 31/07/2017 21:15

Raspberry I am sorry that you have a choice of things to worry about there, one would have been enough.

Kutik73 · 31/07/2017 20:57

Just wondering if you have booked Go Ape for your DD's birthday do, se22? Wasn't it you who asked me about it a while ago? DS had a fab party there. Smile

Minimusiciansmama · 31/07/2017 20:14

raspberry hoping for best outcome possible xx
waffle thanks for the giggle!

raspberryrippleicecream · 31/07/2017 20:12

We are back to the hospital in the morning to see the orthodontist. DS has a bottom canine tooth growing diagonally under his from incisors, and this is the appointment to find out what will happen surgery wise. I've been worrying about upcoming concerts and hoping it would fit in ok. Just shows no point in worrying too far ahead!

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