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May Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 01/05/2017 15:59

Hello, and welcome to the May thread. It's a public holiday in the UK, but my school is open and I had to work today, which is why I've only just got round to it! This is a place for parents of musicians of ALL levels, and adult learners, to chat about lessons, practice, scales, concerts, exams, and whatever else they'd like to! We have lots of regulars, some occasional posters, and sometimes people who just pop in to ask a question. It's a friendly place.

I have two daughters. Goo is 11 and in her last term at primary school. She's working towards her Grade 8 Flute (some time next year) and playing from the Grade 4 Piano book (currently refusing to take any exams, and putting off the first proper performance!). Rara is 8, may or may not be doing Grade 3 Cello this term, and is approaching Grade 2 Clarinet.

Both of them played the recorder for years, starting as preschoolers. They reached Grades 7 and 3 respectively, but sadly neither has really played since the music festival a few months ago. They are obsessed with their Flute and Clarinet, and really enjoy Piano and Cello. There won't be many opportunities to play the recorder at the secondary school they will attend, so much as I love it, it's probably a good time to quietly drop it. Recorder has given them both lots of opportunities, confidence, reading skills... and festival prizes!

Goo does NCO and South West Music School. Rara isn't that level at all when it comes to music, but is gifted with her hands. Instead of practising the cello and doing her school spellings today, she completed a lovely sewing kit without bothering to look at the instructions, and also made a lovely crafty construction from card and coloured paper. Both girls are keen on drawing and playing computer games. Rara swims and Goo plays sodding netball and dodgeball, which have both been responsible for multiple injuries over the past few months!

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ealingwestmum · 08/05/2017 23:38

£75

woolleybear · 08/05/2017 23:10

Doubleup, dd may not continue with bassoon in the new academic year as she had a year of free lessons. She is currently desperate too so we shall see if we can make it work. We will definitely look out for that day later in the year.

It's still very much second to the clarinet, she is a lot less "natural" on it than the clarinet though maybe it is good to have something that is a little bit harder for her, plus she still prefers the clarinet for group playing.

She has started on a full size bassoon, we also hire ours though when we picked it up and they told me how much to insure it for I nearly handed it back!

Kutik, dd is by far the youngest in the band she plays clarinet in though she only stays for the first hour at the moment as she plays the bassoon in the junior band immediately before.

Fleurdelise · 08/05/2017 23:00

£75 here

drummersmum · 08/05/2017 22:32

£70

Kutik73 · 08/05/2017 20:09

Double, another option for you may be to approach a charity body such as Future Talent or Benslow where you can loan quality instruments? G7 bassoonist at 10 must be qualified easily?

DS's 3/4 violin is a lovely old french yet it cost us only 1/10 of our piano. Well, it's almost 1/5 by adding the bow and other accessories. Anyway. it's still much cheaper. But while our piano needs to be tuned once or twice a year, violin needs re-haired and re-stringed more than a couple of times a year.... I feel it will cost more than piano for a long run. Oh and, we need to prepare for a full sized one. I am hoping DS won't grow too fast! Or at least won't grow at a wrong time (when we need money elsewhere)!

By the way, how much do you guys pay for piano tuning? Our guy charges us £60. Mine is coming this week, so just wonder....

Trumpetboysmum · 08/05/2017 19:05

Fleur that's great news good luck to himSmile

Doubleup · 08/05/2017 18:56

I know Kutik, bassoons are ridiculously expensive! That's why we rent one through the music centre at the moment - only £20 a term. Teacher is telling us to budget to buy one in a year's time so that we can get the VAT off while she is still at a state school. All depends on whether she has grown enough that she doesn't have to have a short reach one with the keys closer together as she has now. We are saving - and it will be that instead of any help with a deposit for a house when she is older. We though DD1's oboe was expensive 2 years ago; double it and add some.... Shock

Kutik73 · 08/05/2017 16:06

Fleur, great news. Good luck to him!

string, DS is the youngest in his youth orchestra as it's more for secondary DCs. They have a 10-15 mins break during the two hours rehearsal. I saw DS playing 'IT' with some older boys last week. They don't chat but play. Grin I suppose girls are more grownup!

drummersmum · 08/05/2017 15:33

fleur that's super. Good luck to him x

Fleurdelise · 08/05/2017 15:25

Thank you ladies! I guess my stress is coming form having a child who is very capable (we've been told in the past he's Oxbridge material) but doesn't put any effort to study. He's so used to get by with minimal work that it is/was so frustrating to see the exams looming and him being out with friends or playing on his console all day.

But I feel better seeing that he is pulling his weight even if it is last minute and the results hopefully will come

LooseAtTheSeams · 08/05/2017 15:10

Fleur well done to him! And best of luck for the exams - there is light at the end of the tunnel!

callmeadoctor · 08/05/2017 14:57

"Where", that is a pretty piece. Will get Dd to have a look! Thanks x

Icouldbeknitting · 08/05/2017 14:46

That's good news Fleur, I think a large part of exam technique (like performance) comes down to confidence. If you think there's no point trying then you're setting yourself up to fail and if you get overconfident and don't put enough preparation in it can go horribly wrong too.

That is a reminder that I must buy some sausages, the GCSE rule was that it was sausage sandwiches for breakfast on exam days (it made it special) and DS has AS exams starting next week.

Fleurdelise · 08/05/2017 14:38

I've got some good non musical news from DS today and I wanted to share, he got A* in his last physics mock (taken two weeks ago) and an A in his geography course work. We're counting down to the exams starting on the 16th (next week) and I have to say I feel for him, he seems to be stuck to his books. I assume he would have been more relaxed if he would have actually started revising earlier but nevertheless I can see he's been heavily revising for the last 3 weeks on top of his school revision sessions. Fingers crossed 🤞

WhereShallWeGo · 08/05/2017 14:20

Callme - If your DD is keen on not-strictly- classical, how about "River Flows in You"?

m.youtube.com/watch?v=1p_ebSseEq8

LooseAtTheSeams · 08/05/2017 14:19

Thanks for all the good wishes - dcs have come back for food, getting changed, more food etc. They are in a very good mood so it must be going well or they're making the most of time off school!Grin
Have just explained that some of us are actually trying to get some work done!Smile

stringchild · 08/05/2017 13:39

Loose - i was tempted to go along to that tonight but alas cannot; enjoy - what a great venue to raise their spirits/music!

Drummers - we love specialist days, although not sure the handy tips always go in here

well done to all the results!

Gilly/Kutik - DD absolutely loves playing in ensembles with teenagers as long as there is lots of chance for them to chat so she can pick up some handy hints for later year

ealingwestmum · 08/05/2017 12:15

callme, I was just looking at the same thing for you before you posted, but can't find a G4 level piano arrangement yet like we had for violin...

callmeadoctor · 08/05/2017 11:40

Looking at maybe the Harry Potter theme? Anybody know a grade 4 standard music score (thank you) xx

callmeadoctor · 08/05/2017 11:09

Thanks Drummers x

drummersmum · 08/05/2017 10:58

loose enjoy tonight ! What a great opportunity.
callme IMSLP has lots of music, printable and free and it's legal and used by professional musicians.

Kutik73 · 08/05/2017 10:35

gilly, so envious that your DD studies both classical and jazz! She sounds like she has good voice too. It's so nice to be invited but I do understand the impact of the social side. DS doesn't mind being the youngest at all. He actually enjoys the diversity saying it's much more fun than being chained up to the age category. Perhaps boys are easier to be mixed than girls, I don't know.

foundoutyet, good luck with two exams this term!

drummers and hertsandessex, love to hear more about the festival and also the practice tips!

Double, I am so shocked how expensive bassoon is. Sorry off-topic, but couldn't resist mentioning.

Loose, how exciting! Enjoy tonight!

callme, I also think Burgmuller's arabesque is a good choice for school performance. Everybody love the piece and certainly almost always a good hit among children. A girl who played at our school became a big star after the performance even though she was not the most advanced player (she was g3 ish, beating G6 pianist!).

callmeadoctor · 08/05/2017 10:16

A couple of months to learn the piece. I will go and have a listen Fleure, thank you. She is a big fan of modern music to and is learning Adeles Skyfall at the moment, but worries school will make someone sing with her if she plays that (too much pressure!!!!)

Fleurdelise · 08/05/2017 10:03

How long has she got to learn it? I always thought that Burgmuller's arabesque is a good piece to impress, grade 3ish I'd say, easy to learn as there are a lot of scales passages but harder to master at the required speed. Once learnt at that speed I'd be well impressed to see a child playing that. It is relatively well known also.

Go on YouTube and have a listen if you want Smile

If not what you had in mind I am a big fan of Satie, Gnossienne no 1 (I believe) is just amazing and around grade 4.

callmeadoctor · 08/05/2017 09:48

I need help you lovely lot!!! My dd needs a piano piece for school awards evening. She is grade 4 standard (played full version of Fur Elise last year). It needs to be well known to the public, sound like its a hard piece (but hopefully not too difficult to play). And where to get a copy of the music from!!! Over to you lot (I am not musical at all, so is difficult for me!!!!) She has also played Einaudi in the past so possibly one of his I suppose (although she has played him before). BIG THANKS xx

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