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DD(7) wants to learn an instrument - some advice please

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mayathebee · 18/04/2017 08:57

DD has been asking about learning an instrument recently. I'd like her to enjoy playing music (I started learning the flute a couple of years and it's a brilliant way to relax) but I don't want to waste a lot of money and I'm not sure the best way to go about it. These are my concerns:

She has said that she'd like to learn the keyboards but I'm not sure whether that's just because she knows that they can have keyboard lessons at school rather than really liking the instrument.

She probably can't start lessons at school until September so we'd have to wait or look for a private tutor. The school lessons would be less hassle for us but they are still expensive and are short and in groups. Would they be okay or are private lessons better (value)?

I think you need to play a little every day to improve and enjoy playing but I don't want to splash out a lot of money on a keyboard for her to get bored in a few weeks. It would be good for her to try it out first but is she more likely to lose interest without being able to play at home too?

Thanks for any advice. I want to give her the best chance of getting a good start and really loving playing.

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SmurfPants · 18/04/2017 09:03

She definitely needs to be able to play at home or else she just won't get any better. Do you know anyone who could lend you an instrument?

I think group lessons would be ok to try it out, but I'd prefer to move on to one to one lessons quite quickly so she could be taught at her own pace.

You think she doesn't actually like keyboards, do you have an idea which instrument she would like? From my own experience I would say let her choose as it's rubbish having to do the instrument your mum wants you to! She's more likely to practice if she's chosen it.