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November Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 01/11/2016 08:13

Let's have a new thread for November... I'm not sure if the old one will last long enough. This is a place to talk about music lessons, practice, exams and anything to do with learning instruments/ singing. We have beginners and advanced players of all ages.

I am mum to two girls - Goo (newly 11) - Flute, Recorder and Piano, and Rara (8) - Cello, Recorder, and one month of Clarinet so far. She won't put the clarinet down, so I think we've found The One.

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Fleurdelise · 27/11/2016 10:30

raspberry she accepts the teacher's decision (with piano she did 1, 3 and now she'll do 5 next) but if I suggest it i get a big fat "NO". Bribing sounds like a good idea, I think I'll suggest that but obviously I need to talk to the clarinet teacher to ensure she doesn't suggest taking them in order otherwise she trumps me, DD will always take their word as "law".

raspberryrippleicecream · 27/11/2016 10:21

What about a bribe Fleur? Exams are so expensive, especially as you go up. Cash/ some nice music/a clarinet T-shirt when teacher says they are at that grade!

It's not a problem I've had, mine have been happy to skip, but I think I would have resorted to that if necessary.

Fleurdelise · 27/11/2016 09:53

raspberry good luck to your DS on Tuesday. I quite like this exam session as it gets it out of the way and you don't have time to stress as Christmas is just around the corner.

I was trying to tell DD it would be a good idea to skip some grades on clarinet now and she is adamant she wants to do all of them in order. Hopefully her teacher will convince her otherwise.

stringchild · 27/11/2016 08:34

Drummers - brilliant!

raspberryrippleicecream · 27/11/2016 00:33

Well done Drummersboy.

Another one out the way Fleur.

DS2's exam is Tuesday. Pieces sounding lovely. He just scraped a Distinction on his mock, but we will see. It was his birthday today, but he has had his usual lesson and also practised.

It will be just nice timing to be out of the way before the Christmas concert madness begins!

Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 18:35

Yes it was drummers!

Waffle DDs BFF is a bit competitive as she does piano also so I am dreading it, hopefully all will be fine, I told DD not to engage in conversations about music. She said something really mean to DD the other day and I am still considering if to pick it up with her mum.

Pradaqueen · 26/11/2016 17:56

Well done drummerson! What a fab mark!!

drummersmum · 26/11/2016 16:43

Fleur was that clarinet exam?

Wafflenose · 26/11/2016 16:35

It sounds like that set of results wasn't moderated properly then - the idea is to weed out examiners marking too harshly or too leniently, or to provide them with extra training!

Too early to say about Rara, as she's only been learning for about five minutes (well, a couple of months) - she is a very long way from Grade 2 though. She's too small to cover the thumb hole and register key (for the high notes) at the same time, and we're not in any rush. All is well with her and BFF right now - friend has been learning for nine months, the girls are pretty much on a par with each other, but we're pretending Rara is still quite a beginner. They are competing against each other in the festival (and some of my other pupils) but they both think it's just a bit of fun. Friend will do better, as she's so technically perfect... although rather slow to pick things up. Neither of them will win. They're also playing in a Duet class together, and we'll make sure that the friend gets to play the tune, or Clarinet 1 part. I don't foresee any issues for a while unless Rara does better in Grade 1, but then she can use me as an excuse! Friend begged Rara to learn for months and months, so I'm sure the benefits will outweigh any problems. I hope that both will audition for South West Music School next year - Rara would have to go in as a cellist/ recorder player, friend would be recorder and clarinet.

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Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 16:27

skip to grade 2 I meant Waffle*

Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 16:26

Thank you ladies!

Green good luck for next week I am sure mini will do amazing.

Waffle are you not tempted to skip straight to grade 1? How is Rara dealing with her and her BFF doing the same instrument? DD's BFF will start clarinet and I am worried about negative competition.

Good to hear your feedback Waffle and Radio, somebody once stated her DD got lower than expected marks because her DD's exam was moderated and it got stuck in my head that this is the case.

Radiodependent · 26/11/2016 16:21

Yes I totally second Waffle's comment - moderation is about checking the marking scheme is being followed, nothing to do with meanness or otherwise with marks. Haven't managed to check in here much but have been following. We have turned a corner with ds1 and his bass as he now not only can play his orchestra parts for his Saturday orchestra but actually is starting to enjoy it and not be terrified. Hoping we get to the concert without him getting ill and he gets to enjoy the fruits of his labours. Sadly he currently seems to have given up the recorder though, as he's been having singing lessons and hasn't been able to keep up with practicing. Congratulations on the fab exam results I have read about on here from drummersmum and others.

Wafflenose · 26/11/2016 16:01

Well done, Mini Fleur! Maybe that will be us next term - Rara and her BFF are currently learning their scales. Rara is nearly there! From experience, they don't seem to be mean with marks when moderating - they are more likely to be absolutely spot on, especially as there will be two of them. They will be checking that the examiner's average marks tie in with the national average and so on, so they absolutely HAVE to do it by the book. The marking criteria are published for all to see, and they must be seen to be following them. So I expect the teacher could mark it accurately herself, and it shouldn't be far wrong!

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Greenleave · 26/11/2016 16:01

Best of luck Fleur, we are next week. The exam taker is down with a cold so in bed for a blessed mid day nap now, I am trying (very hard) not to think about it.
Stringchild and all nco(s): we know our fate so luckily both of us dont think about it at all. She completely forgot that she hasnt got a result. We will try again next year though, will work for it properly. I am so looking forward to the piano exam to be over so I could start with violin again, we have been switching teachers, taking time off for the last 4 months

Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 15:50

Done, thanks drummers!

Her piano teacher came out very pleased after the two piece, she said she did great. The exam was moderated though so from what I understand they are a bit mean with the marks when moderation is going on. Her teacher did s mock this morning and said she was expecting distinction but we'll see.

drummersmum · 26/11/2016 15:33

Good luck fleur!

Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 15:18

We're at the exam centre now waiting for DD to enter Confused

Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 12:38

Drummers please add me to the always subscriber to your PMs with your DS playing. Also the other DCs, I'd love to see them perform so if not happy to post here please PM me links.

ealingwestmum · 26/11/2016 12:14

Star Star to your son drummers!

Mistigri · 26/11/2016 10:34

drummersmum I just played her that Kaski piece and she loves it! Thank you! The other piece got a less good reception - "I'll never be able to play that" Grin.

She will see what her teacher thinks. She has literally not a hope of winning anything, it's just for the experience, so I'm not sure that having a varied programme is especially important. More important that she enjoys playing especially this year when she is so busy. The Schubert impromptu (which she does not especially like) has been a bit of an uphill drag - it sounds amazing but she will never love playing it.

drummersmum · 26/11/2016 10:12

mistigiri the URL to Kavalevsky didn't work at time so you need to forward to 1:55.

drummersmum · 26/11/2016 10:10

Mistigiri what a great opportunity for your DD! They must've heard her play somewhere?
Re her third piano piece, DS is now playing a XX century piece by Finnish composer Heino Kaski called "Nacht am Seestrand": It's very lirical and gives a lot of opportunity for expression. The only thing is that it may not be very contrasted with the other two if she wishes to add contrast.
Kavalvesky's Prelude op38 n.2 would be a huge contrast and a showy pieces for a finale, it's considered Grade7 (this link will take you straight to min 1:55 when the n.2 prelude starts:

Ah Fleur and mistigiri thank you guys, drummer boy allows filming but probably not hanging the film on a public forum where his mum has said all sort of things about him without him knowing Grin So if I get to steal some footage I may just pm it if people don't mind. I also love seeing all the DC in this forum play and don't mind if someone pm's me a link by the way!!!

Icouldbeknitting · 26/11/2016 10:08

Congratulations drummers, great result.

Fleurdelise · 26/11/2016 09:57

Wow drummers congrats! I want to see the drummer boy, would he allow you to film him? He must be amazing!

Misti good luck with the concert!

Mistigri · 26/11/2016 09:09

Thinking about it maybe she could do Joplin's Bethena waltz which she half-learnt as a beginner. She should find that easy now. But I would be hugely grateful for any other ideas.