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November Music Thread

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Wafflenose · 01/11/2016 08:13

Let's have a new thread for November... I'm not sure if the old one will last long enough. This is a place to talk about music lessons, practice, exams and anything to do with learning instruments/ singing. We have beginners and advanced players of all ages.

I am mum to two girls - Goo (newly 11) - Flute, Recorder and Piano, and Rara (8) - Cello, Recorder, and one month of Clarinet so far. She won't put the clarinet down, so I think we've found The One.

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Wafflenose · 20/11/2016 11:36

I used to make a small charge for accompanying, but now just provide it as part of the service, as does Goo's flute teacher. If you had to pay a professional accompanist, I would expect to pay something approaching the exam fee, for a proper rehearsal, a quick run-through on the day, and the exam itself.

It's not going well here - the only thing Goo can play at the moment is the piano (with one hand, so lots of scales), I had a minor car accident on Thursday night and am now poorly too. Rara and DH have colds, but Rara can definitely do some practice... once she finishes her book.

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Fleurdelise · 20/11/2016 10:46

Thank you NeverEver I may get her a special present or make an overpayment, I just fear the overpayment may be taken the wrong way.

And do get yourself a marimba! Grin

NeverEverAnythingEver · 20/11/2016 10:35

I WANT A MARIMBA!!!

NeverEverAnythingEver · 20/11/2016 10:34

Fleur Our accompanist charges between £25-£35 (I can't remember) and he is worth his weight in gold.

I went to the Yamaha shop in central London yesterday to buy some sheet music and had a good ogle at the flutes (at least nobody is doing the French horn here), the electronic violins and cellos (ugly), the clavinova (really not for me) and the marimbas (Envy).

Fleurdelise · 20/11/2016 10:07

Loose great to hear the grade 6 exam went well!

Mending new instrument for Christmas! I bet DD will be excited.

Anybody knows how much a accompanist charges for an exam? DD's piano teacher won't charge us and I wonder how much would somebody charge, I may make an overpayment next time we pay for piano.

Mendingfences · 20/11/2016 06:20

hope injuries and sicknesses continue to mend!

Yesterday we took DD2 to try out flutes at a specialist flute shop, the guy that runs it is a professional flautist with a tiny but impressively stocked flute shop. So she tried a few, and the Christmas present is now purchased Grin

LooseAtTheSeams · 19/11/2016 17:26

Oh poor Fleur and minifleur - you must both be shattered. Stomach bugs can be very scary!
Alexandra - complete and utter respect to you - that is amazingly brave and I could never do it!
Waffle - poor Goo, that sounds very painful. Hope the bruising is getting better - and maybe a little pause in games for a while?
PaulWeller I don't know of jazz drum exams but I will see if DS1 has any vaguely suitable books!
DS1 did his G6 bass exam yesterday and then sauntered off to a birthday party ignoring my texts asking how it went! When I eventually managed to lure him home he said he thought it mostly went well and he didn't have an attack of nerves this time!
DS2 clearly projected his deep loathing of his latest piano piece all too clearly in his last lesson as his teacher breezily said let's put it to one side and do something from the grade 4 book. He can now pretty much play The Happy Farmer hands separately after one lesson and I can tell he's itching to put hands together! He needs to slow down a bit! He's really making me look bad! Smile

Fleurdelise · 19/11/2016 09:57

She's better, much better today but we won't risk it so she won't do her sport today, only music. Smile

Pradaqueen · 18/11/2016 22:35

Gosh fleur - completely forgot to say - how's the patient today?

Paulweller11 · 18/11/2016 21:24

Evening....,
So, I know there's Jazz piano grades, are there any jazz drums graded exams, if not are there any books suitable for a gr2 drummer that are jazz?
Any ideas Loose or Drummersmum, or anyone else?
Thanks Smile

Fleurdelise · 18/11/2016 21:12

Thank you for your kind thoughts ladies!

Alexandra you are so brave! I would never be able to do that!

Trumpetboysmum · 18/11/2016 21:00

Waffle I always think 🍷 is a good gift so will probably stick to that !

Trumpetboysmum · 18/11/2016 20:58

Oh no I hope everyone recovers soon. Ds loves sport too and has recently been playing proper rugby at school I'm quite relieved that they've stoped that for a bit 😀I never know what to get their music teachers for Christmas especially the 30 something male trumpet teacher so will be watching with interest in case anyone has any ideas

Wafflenose · 18/11/2016 20:50

I teach around 80 children, and usually get around half a dozen little gifts, mostly from private pupils, but maybe a couple from school. It's not necessary, but very sweet when people bother. I'd rather have a personal card from the child than anything else, but would probably buy a 50 something male a bottle of wine?

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se22mother · 18/11/2016 20:42

Does anyone give music teachers in school Christmas presents? We have always given the violin teacher (at home) something but I'm wondering if I should get a token of thanks for the clarinet teacher too. He's a 50 something male ?

Pradaqueen · 18/11/2016 19:51

Poor Goo! Miniprada once had a broken wrist that no one took seriously at school even though she had told 4 adults that it was seriously hurting. Shock

Well done Alexandra. Sounds great.

Festival went well today. One more class tomorrow (yay!)

Doubleup · 18/11/2016 19:22

Waffle - ice and arnica. We use arnica cream that you can buy from the supermarket. Brings the bruising out really quickly, but needs to be used fairly soon after the injury. Hope it's better soon.

Fleur - hope minifleur is better soon - and doesn't share it round the family.

se22mother · 18/11/2016 19:03

Poor Goo and minifleur

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Wafflenose · 18/11/2016 18:41

Oh no Fleur, I hope she is completely better soon. I had a minor car accident last night - I am fine and the car has had some work done today, but it hasn't been a good week.

Rara has just got the trumpet out for the first time this term. She has whole class lessons and knows around 8 notes. I'm quite impressed, but won't be paying for lessons on that too.

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Greenleave · 18/11/2016 18:39

Fleur: it must have been stressful for you, hope full rest is on over the weekend, great news that it has gone now.
Waffle: hope Goo's finger heals real soon
Prada: Grin on the shirt and best of luck with the "festival"

Fleurdelise · 18/11/2016 18:31

NeverEver exactly!

Waffle so sorry to hear Goo had another accident!

Well we had some fun too, ended up in A&E last night with DD who was screaming in pain with her stomach. She was going to the toilet a bit often but then the pain must have been really bad so I decided to google it and realised that the symptoms could show appendicitis. Called 111 and we were asked to go to A&E. All ok, apparently it was a stomach bug.

She is much better today thank god but we are exhausted as we barely slept last night.

Icouldbeknitting · 18/11/2016 17:19

Waffle I have frequently been grateful that DS has never been sporty. On the run up to auditions/residentials I have written letters to school asking for him to be kept out of goal and away from hard ball sports. The kit cupboard must be immaculate given the hours that he's spent cleaning it out.

Accidents happen, you don't have to be clumsy to have one. It presumably isn't very painful or has she been soldiering on?

Today's musical news is that DH had his G2 jazz piano today. The centre had jazz exams all morning, we saw two pianists and four saxophonists while we were there (we were waiting to speak to the last candidate of the morning). Just for once the adults had the children outnumbered, I saw two under 16s and the rest were adults.

Wafflenose · 18/11/2016 17:15

Thanks. It's six weeks to the day since her sprained wrist, sustained doing Dodgeball!

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