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Spring/ Summer Music and Musicians Thread

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Wafflenose · 10/04/2016 11:25

My children go back to school tomorrow, and it's my birthday this week, so it must be properly spring in the UK now, and time for a new thread! Please jump right in by telling us about your DCs' learning (or your own), or by asking any music/ music exam related questions you like. We have lots of experienced music parents and teachers on here, as well as lots of new ones.

I am a music teacher, and mum to Goo (10) and Rara (7). Goo started the recorder and flute when she was tiny (age 3 and 6 respectively), has recently added piccolo, but not very well yet, and is starting piano lessons in a couple of weeks. She has no exams this term, but will probably do Grade 6 Flute in the Autumn and Grade 8 Recorder next Spring. She plays in her school orchestra and recorder groups, South West Music School and NCO, and has her first concert with County Wind Band tonight, after a trial course. She hasn't auditioned to become a member yet, and might not for a few years yet, due to age and time factors.

Rara isn't so musically inclined - she prefers to read and draw, and is also very physically active. However, she is due to take her Grade 2 Cello exam this term, and Grade 3 Recorder in the Autumn - she's currently getting to grips with the treble and loving it!

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Fleurdelise · 23/05/2016 23:21

Very good first clarinet lesson, DD came out beaming. We now have the instructions for which book to buy and DD asked for a clarinet strap as her thumb hurts a bit. Any recommendations?

Greenleave · 23/05/2016 22:35

Exampanic, haha, good luck!!!No news def better!

exampanic · 23/05/2016 22:22

well, dd1 has her date for exam; in 2 weeks' time. How many times have I heard her practice in the last 2 weeks. Hm, once I think, last night....
No date for dd2's recorder exam yet. At least gives me more time to practise the accompanying piano bit....

Greenleave · 23/05/2016 22:07

We have a "real" pianist, singer in our house tonight who plays piano, flute, sing in Gloucester Cathederal since he was a child and all to a high standard(he doesnt do music for living, only as a hobby). My 8 years old was blowned away with so much singing and piano(we had to miss a lesson today as guests came at 4)

Regarding to exam, it does get easier when they are older, even only half a year older. I was really worried last year when she had her g1 violin and grade 2 piano. This year the dates are not ideal but hey ho, I dont feel as panicky!

onlymusic · 23/05/2016 21:55

It is I who have perseverance to carry on with violin Mistigri, not my children Grin. If it were up to them they would would stop lessons after two months :)

Mistigri · 23/05/2016 21:32

My experience has been similar to waffle's in terms of the speed of older learners. DD started teaching herself piano about two years ago (third instrument), and has been having regular lessons for about a year now. She is tackling grade 7-ish pieces and she's certainly not murdering them. I'm not sure that she has the dexterity or accuracy of younger starters but maybe that will come.

The way that drummersmum's son has progressed seems ideal to me, and shows the benefits of taking it gradually.

Wafflenose · 23/05/2016 21:19

We are definitely a recordering family too. Goo started at 3.5 and Rara late 4s, due to being much smaller. We literally only did it when they asked to (including months of nothing at times!) but both became mad keen once they hit 5.

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Mistigri · 23/05/2016 21:14

I'm inclined to agree with routenationale that recorder is a good choice for very young children. It's easier in the initial stages than most instruments, it requires little strength and not too much coordination. It's possible even for not especially focussed or hardworking students (like my DD) to make decent progress. I'm sure violin is good too, but I suspect that young children who succeed at violin have a bit more focus and perseverance than either of my kids did at that age.

Starting piano young may have some advantages but older students can often catch up quite quickly especially if they have other instrumental experience.

Wafflenose · 23/05/2016 20:56

It's a bit different because she is already relatively proficient on two other instruments, but my daughter Goo is 10, and after five weeks of learning the piano is playing Grade 2ish pieces pretty well. I'm amazed - she could already read music fluently, has Grade 5 Theory etc and is putting in 4-5 hours a week, but it's still astonishing to see. I'll make another video when she lets me.

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onlymusic · 23/05/2016 20:30

Talking about other instruments, I asked dd's violin teacher about the best age to start violin. He was quite firm that 4-5yo would be an ideal age.

Routenationale · 23/05/2016 20:19

I think that it's good to start fairly young (age 5 or 6) on recorder. Plus plenty of singing. Then swop to an orchestral instrument or piano at around 7. Dd1 actually started recorder at age 4 and did quite well. But 1) she's v musical, 2) it was hard work (mind you it's hard work getting her to practice her instruments now, so that may not have been age related).

onlymusic · 23/05/2016 19:51

lucysnowe, my dd started piano at 4 and though she progressed very quickly, her brother is not starting it (if at all) till 6yo+ - this my conclusion from this experience. Even though he also asked for piano lessons. He also was asking for violin lessons for about two years but guess what? once the real thing started he lost interest very quickly. Because it looks effortless when his sister is playing but it is a VERY hard work!
Same with piano.
I can also see from numerous examples that the same can be achieved in a much shorter time if lessons are started at 6-7yo. Saves time and money.
If anything, I would start with another instrument, not piano.

Fleurdelise · 23/05/2016 18:47

janinlondon is it worth contacting abrsm to check if they can reschedule for another day? I know one of Dd's teacher's students had hers another day than most of them as she couldn't make it on the original allocated slot. Not sure what had to happen but I think it is worth trying.

Green good luck with the exams, I guess it will feel like a massive relaxing break straight after which is always good.

Routenationale · 23/05/2016 18:25

My dd has done 3 exams one after the other, a couple of times I think. Probably doesn't lead to the best possible results, but so much less hassle than doing them all separately.
I am very much in favour of skipping ABRSM exams. So we say no exams until grade 3 (except for piano, which is different). And since then dd has skipped quite a few exams. In one of her instruments I think she's about grade 6 level, but she has done no exams at all on that one. The hassle and the money and the playing the same pieces for months - there are lots of reasons not to do all exams from gr 1 to 8 (let alone pre grade 1!)

raspberryrippleicecream · 23/05/2016 18:20

Jan no help this time but maybe Trinity exams might be better? Certainly in my area the weeks are set way in advance.

Loose DD plays alto and bari, but she had friends who started on tenor at secondary. I think it is the same fingering on all of them

LooseAtTheSeams · 23/05/2016 17:25

Jan I did get s refund but only because it was the music centre who withdrew the date after offering it if you see what I mean. I think if the fee had already got to ABRSM I'd have lost the money.
Waffle I can see his logic, actually! It's less fun to go on three different occasions. I hope he does well! DS2 wants to add saxophone as a third instrument but I am in no rush - he can only start once he gets to secondary school and only if he gets through his grade 3 exams on the other two instruments. Also, I need to think about practice time and homework. And he's determined to play tenor whereas I think kids generally start on alto, though he's as tall as I am so maybe that isn't an issue.

Wafflenose · 23/05/2016 16:55

I know a boy who did 3 music exams within two hours recently. We offered him Thurs am, Thurs pm, Fri am, but no, he said he'd rather stay there and get them all done! I think it was Grade 4 piano, Grade 3 Guitar and Grade 2 Saxophone. He also plays the violin and recorder, and sings!

As for piano lessons - some early years specialists will take them from age 4 or 5. Many teachers prefer them to be 7 - I prefer 8, but mainly on the grounds that by age 10, the late starters will generally have caught up with the early ones. I'm by no means a piano specialist though - just occasionally get arm-twisted into giving lessons to friends' children!

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Greenleave · 23/05/2016 16:51

We won't have refund if the date isn't suitable, only if the child is sick on the day with an evidence and can't be able to make it.

Well, it's part of a fun game( in a sarcastic way) to play along. We used to be able to reschedule for 2 days last November so we didn't have piano and violin on the same day(2 hours apart, no idea what they were thinking)

janinlondon · 23/05/2016 16:45

Loose - did you get a refund on that? We have been told no refund is possible.....so I am not cancelling her slot......just in case a flood of biblical proportions hits the DofE expedition site.......

LooseAtTheSeams · 23/05/2016 16:43

Greenleave - oh goodness, that's a lot of prep in one go! On the other hand, think how happy you will both be afterwards! Good luck with both. I am definitely not worrying about results for my two. Ds2 trotted off to piano as normal this morning and has come back with lots of holiday practise for piano! That's OK because he has his own portable keyboard and is going to take it on holiday at half term.
He has his cello lesson tomorrow, they can do the post mortem then!
janinlondon I sympathize about scheduling. I had to cancel an exam last year because the one date we were offered clashed with a school trip I'd already paid for! Our music centre offered two dates originally but cancelled the one I'd chosen due to lack of demand!

janinlondon · 23/05/2016 16:40

Thanks Greenleave. I guess we just pay up again for next term and cross our fingers. Its an expensive game......I'm not enjoying it.

Greenleave · 23/05/2016 16:38

I called them and asked for any further date, no centre is available within 30 miles, we did specify the preferable date( never had it allocated I the past either). I have no idea about their allocation methodology, it's def not first comes first serve as we registered on the firs available date when we were allowed

janinlondon · 23/05/2016 16:28

Predictably DD is unable to make the date they have allocated for her grade 7 singing exam. Are we just destined to have to throw good money after bad repeatedly until a date actually suits....? Can they not schedule them a little bit further in advance....? Has anyone else had this repeatedly......?

Greenleave · 23/05/2016 16:13

I have just found out that the violin test date is 2 days after theory date. Oh well, at least they are not on the same date. No party for 3 weeks from now then will be a long long long break...

Fleurdelise · 23/05/2016 15:18

Had one little girl literally jumping up with joy hearing about the clarinet lesson tonight. Smile

lucy if he wants to do it I would say yes. My friend's DD started at 5 on an hour lesson (Russian piano teacher who didn't take kids on less than an hour) and has been with her for an year and progressed nicely. Dd's teacher also takes little ones from 5 (she's English if it matters and does 30 min lessons) but after a quick assesment to check they can focus for the lesson. She is also adapting her teaching to be more interactive, such as more clapping rythms and counting, it depends of how ready she sees them.

I would give it a try if I were you providing the little one is interested. DD wasn't at 5 when I mentioned it, she started at 6 after she has seen her friend progressing and playing nice pieces.

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