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New Year Music and Musicians Thread

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Wafflenose · 04/01/2016 13:46

Morning all, and Happy New Year. I decided it was time for a new music thread too. I really enjoy hearing about what everyone (and their DCs) are up to each term, and it's great to hear from new posters too.

I have two DDs. Goo (10) - the child previously known as MiniWaffle. She's not very mini any more... she's 4'10" and catching up with me. Anyway, she plays the recorder, flute, piccolo and a bit of piano when it occurs to her. She is doing Grade 5 Theory and possibly Grade 5 Flute (if the new teacher deems her ready) this term. Next recorder exam will be Grade 7, but possibly not for about 18 months! Am hoping the new flute teacher will also do a bit of piano with her... we'll see.

And Rara (7) - previously known as BabyWaffle - plays the recorder and cello. I was thinking of putting her in for Grade 1 Theory, but she's not keen, so we'll wait. She is in the blissfully calm position of no exams this term - yay!

We all have the local music festival next month. I think Goo is doing 11 Classes, and Rara about 7 (plus possibly helping with some percussion parts). I have 27 groups, pairs and individuals entered, so am going to be busy for the next month or so.

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Fleurdelise · 27/01/2016 12:23

The YouTube channels were the only suggestion I had as there is no time to have a proper lesson. I know that YouTube watching takes time also but at least she can do that quickly after dinner or just before bedtime and if she does show a real interest at least we can then discuss giving up another activity in favour of the recorder lessons. At the moment she doesn't want to give up anything (she also does ballroom dancing and started ice skating) and she really enjoys them.

Is there maybe an Internet platform for music lessons online? I'll go and do some research.

LooseAtTheSeams · 27/01/2016 10:01

I should add that I am pretty sure Minifleur is a lot more attentive than DS1 so I imagine she could use the videos more successfully for longer! I think he wanted to go from zero to Guitar hero a little too quickly!😀

LooseAtTheSeams · 27/01/2016 09:56

Ds2 started on piano and got interested in the idea of adding another instrument so he could play in a group. When the cello teacher brought a cello and mini bass to school he trotted off to have a look. He nearly disappeared under the allegedly 'mini' bass so discounted that, but he loved the sound of the cello and hasn't looked back since. He is working on grade 3 in both instruments and playing piano really helped him progress quickly at the beginning with cello. He would probably be further ahead if he only played one but Waffle is absolutely right that the instruments help each other to a certain extent. Now he plays in a string orchestra and the school orchestra.
P.s. Not sure about YouTube. DS1 started on it for bass guitar but didn't pay attention to the fingering and I made him take proper lessons - which he loves. On the other hand, it did get him started and confirmed he wanted to play bass so it was useful.

Fleurdelise · 27/01/2016 08:42

Hello all! Talking of a second instrument got me thinking. DD has a recorder that she is messing about with, she started suggesting she'd like to add recorder lessons to her music studies. Now we literally have no more time to add extra lessons unless they would be in the evenings and even so it would be challenging.

I suggested she starts to teach herself initially by watching YouTube videos at least for a few months. Is this a crazy suggestion?

Also providing she does teach herself and discoveres she enjoys it, how easy is to progress from recorder to flute or clarinet in a couple of years time?

raspberryrippleicecream · 26/01/2016 22:44

Rapidly from your post upthread I am deeply envious of the underfloor heating. I have a full set of thermals specially for Evensong in winter!

raspberryrippleicecream · 26/01/2016 22:42

I think adding an orchestra instrument to piano is a little different. DS2 started piano at 6.5 and a friend started teaching him clarinet at 7.5. He started having a lovely time playing in music service groups and school groups from age 8, opportunities he wouldn't have had with piano. For him his instruments encouraged each other.

Wafflenose · 26/01/2016 21:12

My youngest is 7 and has been playing the cello for something like 20 months. She wanted to try out cello and violin because she couldn't decide. I managed to set up a trial lesson with my cello teaching colleague, and she loved it... but only one of the three violin teachers I contacted returned my call, and wasn't prepared to do a trial. She said to give it a term to see if she liked it. But all I wanted was for DD to see and hear one, and maybe hold it. In the end, I took her to the local music shop, and the Saturday girls there were lovely with her. They fitted her with a 1/10 size violin, showed her how to hold it, let her pluck the strings and helped her to use the bow. This was really helpful, because she ended up saying that she didn't like the feeling of it under her chin, and much preferred the cello. That saved me forking out £200 for a term's worth of lessons!

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NewLife4Me · 26/01/2016 21:11

Hi June.

I played clarinet at age ten and in 6 months took grade 3.
Before this though I played recorder for about 3 years, it was easier as I knew most basics, like reading, aural work, theory terms etc.

My dd started sax at 9 and progressed very well, very quickly. She had played violin from 6.5 and tinkered with piano (no lessons) and then singing lessons.
I think she was about grade 4 before she started her second instrument but honestly, it was worth the wait.

JuneFromBethesda · 26/01/2016 20:48

Thanks NewLife and Waffle Flowers

Maybe waiting a bit would be a good idea. She's currently preparing for her piano prep test. Ironically the flute teacher at the school is her piano teacher so I could ask his opinion - maybe he'll surprise me Grin - and she could have a trial lesson just to see whether she likes it. No hurry to start properly though.

Actually I'd rather she learned the clarinet (also taught by the same teacher!) as I prefer it to the flute, personally, so maybe she could try out both. By chance I've found a children's concert coming up locally which is focusing on wind instruments, and gives children a chance to try a variety, so I'm hoping this will help.

Why didn't think of trying local music shops?? I've actually been working in the music business my entire career but I'm clueless when it comes to children's lessons Blush

Wafflenose · 26/01/2016 19:53

There's something to be said for getting to a reasonable level on the first instrument, and piano is an excellent foundation. Having said that, learning two at a time can mean they kind of help each other along. Do you have a music shop where she can try out different wind instruments? At this age, it's important to have her measured/ assessed properly so she doesn't end up on an instrument that's too big. Unless she's enormous for Year 3, you would probably be looking at flutes with curved head joints. Clarinets come in smaller sizes - I have a smallish Year 3 starting soon on a C clarinet, and she will upgrade to the usual Bb instrument in a couple of years. I'm so pleased you are both enjoying your DD's musical journey.

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NewLife4Me · 26/01/2016 19:44

June

You don't need to take my advice obviously, but we found it far better to get to a decent level before starting another instrument.
Has your dd done any grades yet and studied any theory.
Once she has the basic/intermediate foundations it will be much easier to start another instrument.
As for looking for a teacher I'd firstly ask friends for recommendations, your local music shop will have a list of suitable teachers and may provide lessons in the shop.
Some will give an audition/trial to see if both teacher and pupil will be able to work together.
They'll charge for this lesson of course, but there are no expectanies for you to continue if either aren't happy.

JuneFromBethesda · 26/01/2016 19:26

Hello everyone, I'm after some advice and this seems like the perfect place to ask Smile

My elder daughter is in Yr3 and has been learning the piano for 4 terms. She's getting on well and much to my surprise I'm enjoying helping her with her practice Grin I'd like her to start another instrument, she's interested in the flute - I have awful memories of scraping away at the violin as a child so I'm quite happy she wants to try a wind instrument instead. I just wish there was a way she could take her time deciding and try out several different instruments but music is a bit of an afterthought at her (otherwise good) school and I'm not really sure where to start.

The other thing is her piano teacher - he's perfectly nice and she's getting on fine but I just find him a bit uninspiring Blush I know that sounds awful. But I don't know how to find another teacher - obviously there are plenty of listings online but how do you find a decent one?

Thanks in advance Smile

LooseAtTheSeams · 22/01/2016 12:44

Rapidly that looks great fun! I'm really tempted to get that for DS2 as part of his birthday present next month!
I remember showing a musical friend of my mum's my own 'compositions' for flute when I was about 10. All well and good except I hadn't the remotest clue what I was doing, but she was too nice to say anything!

Fleurdelise · 21/01/2016 22:37

Waffle I am sure Goo will do just fine progressing through the theory path with your support. I wish I could teach DD.

Enb how lovely, I have to say composing is an area I wish to encourage more.

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Enb76 · 21/01/2016 11:42

So... my daughter has composed and written her first piece of music. Frankly, it's both derivative and repetitive but she's 7 so I'll let it go :)

Are there any really good and engaging books out there for aspiring young composers that aren't too sticker and baby picture oriented? I know a lot of it is theory but she just wants to get stuff on paper. The Ng (both of them) are good for theory but all she wants to do is the sticker bits and gets bored of them quite quickly.

LooseAtTheSeams · 21/01/2016 09:41

Waffle I can't imagine how you juggle everything at work and teaching Goo theory as well - my children will let me help them a little bit but not teach them anything! I am exploring theory options and my local music centre said they will look into putting on a theory group class again. The alternative is 1:1 with one of the piano teachers but they would charge the same as a piano lesson, whereas group lessons there are massively cheaper. On the other hand, if both DC could share the lesson they might both make huge progress. I will have to talk to them when they're in a calm mood (I have jam donuts to help things along!)
Green just saw your message, I'm the one learning the G4 piece - I am only one grade ahead of DS2 and he is determined to catch up. He likes to pretend he isn't competitive but he really is! And frankly, he is going to overtake me, it's just a matter of time!

Wafflenose · 21/01/2016 09:10

Festival is in 2 weeks! I have entries in 27 classes and have written a lot of the music - I spend 6 months of the year preparing.

Usually, I go through Goo's errors with her at the end, and look at how she could do better, but she just wasn't in the zone yesterday and wandered off without checking, or wanting to know. I think she's just bored of it now... after 2.5 years or more! Hopefully after this term, she won't have any exams for ages.

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Musicmom1 · 21/01/2016 08:15

Waffle -Goo will ace the exam! well done to both of you - she is getting impressive scores. DD was varying from a fail to a distinction depending on the day/mood! Is it your festivals soon?

Re memorising - DD still does this on cello (her Suzuki heritage showing) and whilst it looks great it can be very risky if they haven't spent enough time with the score. But DD is a performer and likes to take away the music stand when there is an audience.....

motherwithheadache · 20/01/2016 21:19

well, she did scrap a distinction, but either way she woi;d have been ok

Greenleave · 20/01/2016 19:53

Waffle: it might be just a bad day. For the incorrect answer then what do you do? Do you make het to reread theory and reanswer them or you explain to her straight away. Lucky Goo has you as a mommy who teach music. I can play violin but not so good and dont know much in theory, could barely read the note and cant play piano

Wafflenose · 20/01/2016 19:04

Gah, Goo really isn't in the mood tonight. Wednesday night is Theory night (she sits and does some while one of my pupils gets my attention, but at the same table - he is doing Grade 6) but today she rushed through half a Grade 5 paper in 30 minutes, didn't complete questions or finish some of them properly and doesn't care. I gave her 43/50 which is fine, but could easily knock that down to 40 due to presentation etc. Oh well, hopefully she'll get it together when it matters. By the way, that was the easy half!

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Fleurdelise · 20/01/2016 13:14

Hahaha yes, true! I am sure she'll either play fantastically in the exam or all goes pear shaped. DD doesn't seem to have a middle ground.

Last year I was almost convinced the night before that she'll fail the exam, and then she comes out of the exam happy and two weeks later we found out she got a solid distinction.

motherwithheadache · 20/01/2016 12:25

[and when they have mastered the trill,or grace note in dd2's case, they have to play on a different piano (which is much heavier than ours), and it all goes pear shaped....]

Greenleave · 20/01/2016 10:06

Loose: thanks for good tips, I will try it tonight. Can I ask you a question please, why your Ds2 is learning grade 4 pieces, does it help by any chance.

Fleur: memorising is always an issue for us, sight reading then the pieces itself. Scales and arpeggios were learnt but still a hit and miss. Some nights she got them all and some other nights missed most. Well, I am trying to relax about it as I am telling myself we still have 4 more lessons before the exam(holiday for 2.5 weeks and exam is the second week in March, could be earlier as we havent had the date yet)

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