Hi! Sorry to just jump in, but I need to canvas opinions. I am a DC and run a Brownie unit. I have two girls who are frenemies. They are constantly causing a disruption of some description, are often rude and answer back, and annoy the other girls. Whilst they were Rainbows, they were at different units. One of them was fine at Rainbows, the other was a nightmare, swearing and shouting at other girls.
Both have supportive parents but nothing is changing and my leaders are losing the will. I don't want to kick them out, but it's getting to that point.
Do you think I should suggest a "managed move" to another unit? But who moves? The one in second is actually far less harmful than the one who started first, so seems unreasonable to kick her out, but I don't really want to inflict the first one on another guider (as I am still a bit miffed I wasn't warned by her rainbow leaders!).
Help! What would you do? They really need a one to one adult to stop them ruining it for everyone else and I can't really spare the leaders.