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Gymnastics for 6 and 5 yo DDs - can you offer some advice?

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Boobz · 27/09/2015 14:26

Hello - I was wondering if any of your DC do gymnastics in and around the London area and could offer some advice?

We currently live in Rome and our 2 DDs aged 6 and 5 have been going to a local gymnastics club for 2 years, going twice a week for an hour each time.

This year they are now doing it three times a week for an 75 minutes each time.

We aren't a family with a particular background in competitive sports, but DH and I wanted them to do something they enjoyed and was physical a few times a week after school, and this has been great for them (and their Italian as it's an Italian club). However I can't help but think that after 2 years, I would expect them to be of a higher standard.

So my questions are thus:

  1. Has anyone else's DC started at a very relaxed after school club level, and then suddenly ramped it up to get them to be much better at this sport?
  2. If so, did your DC just happily take on the extra time commitment or did they want to stay at the "fun" level?
  3. We are moving back to London next summer - does anyone know any good clubs either around South Ken (where they will go to school) or SW London (where we will live) which would be a good place to get them going to the next level
  4. I know I keep saying next level, but I'm not exactly sure what I mean by this - I guess I mean doing vaulting, parallel bars, tumbling etc., rather than the more straight forward forward-rolls and cartwheeling they seem to do at the moment.
  5. Sorry - last question - how many hours practice a week should I expect them to do, to get them to be at this higher standard? (How long is a piece of string, I know...)

Thanks for any advice!

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Boobz · 07/12/2015 15:06

Sorry Sanam - just saw your post!

Yes we are putting them into the French Lycee, hoping for a spot at the South Ken site.

Will look into Putney Gymnastics - thanks for the tip.

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sanam2010 · 08/11/2015 11:11

in addition to Richmond Gymnastics, which is hard to get into as others have said, Putney Gymnastics is also excellent and part of the British Gymnastics association ( the club is called South West London Gymnastics club):
www.swlgc.co.uk

Why don't you put your kids to school in Richmond, by the way? Is it the French Lycée or why would you do that commute every day?

Brioche201 · 04/10/2015 07:36

A good large gym club will cater for all levels of ability and commitment.

Boobz · 28/09/2015 15:46

I'm pretty sure they are not in a squad newname - the Italians are all pretty relaxed about this stuff and all the kids are in the same group whether they join half way through the year as a complete beginner etc., and it's all just based on age rather than ability at the moment (which is fine!)

Bertrand yes they are 5 and 6. DS is 3 but hasn't taken a liking to it at all so we are trying to start him on Kung fu as when asked what he would like to do, he said "be a ninja!"...

Jee - yes I agree everyone will push their own sport - and I do think athletics might be interesting to explore, mainly because I am a runner (not competition level or anything, but just recreationally and I have done a few half marathons and so on, so I LOVE running and can see DD1 might love it too) - but I haven't written off gymnastics yet atticus! Not least because they have invested in it for 2 years already...

The time commitment is something we have thought about but I guess until it actually starts, you don't know how it will have an impact... we have a nanny so that does help a bit (DH and I both work full time..)

Lots to think about. Essentially I think I will try and speak to their coach and gauge whether she thinks they have what it takes to be streamlined a bit (which is hard as they don't really talk to the parents and I don't speak Italian, so it's all a bit hand gestures and translated through the DDs!) and then tour a few clubs in and around where we live and ask what their thoughts are with squad etc. I honestly have no idea if they are good enough to do more with the sport than just a couple of hours a week for fun (which is fine if they're not, or don't want to), but it's been really useful to get people's guidance for a clueless mum - so thank you!

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HeadDreamer · 28/09/2015 14:40

BertrandRussell the club DD1 is in select squad from the first primary group too. That's from age 4.

And I agree with newname that maybe it's needed to express an interest in squad too. I won't put DD1 forward for squad at all. We both work full time, no nanny, so it's basically impossible for us to take DD1 to more training outside her one hour in the weekend. We are only doing gymnastics because we believe it's a good foundation of strength, coordination and flexibility training. It's great exercise which hopefully set up her for other sports. And I don't think we are the only parents with this mind set.

ididntsignupforthis1 · 28/09/2015 14:24

The good thing about gymnastics is it is excellent physical preparation for all sports. Ex gymnasts can transition to a lot of other sports with a headstart
When picking for squad coaches aren't interested in skills your child can do
And yours are a good age.
They want a mix of strength speed fearlessness, focus,and coachability in my experience. Don't go to a club that doesn't offer squad if they may be interested and don't expect they will automatically be noticed from recreational classes.
I would be upfront about possibly being interested and ask how it works in that particular gym.

atticusclaw2 · 28/09/2015 13:33

I would however say that gymnasts are very prone to injury (my knees are screwed) and that in order to be really good you have to dedicate an enormous amount of time both in the gym and outside when at home. Think about whether that's even what they/you would want.

When I was training we trained five times a week (generally 3-4 hours a go) including ballet/conditioning etc and then on top of that there were runs, training for stamina etc. Each night it was 100 press ups, 100 sit ups, 100 v-sits, then extended splits (feet up on blocks) and other flexibility exercises.

For now let them enjoy the class and see where they want to take it rather than thinking about whether they will be any good at it.

jeee · 28/09/2015 13:31

OP, I think all the replies have one thing in common - we're trying to push your dc into the sports that our dcs have been involved in. I think the most important thing is that you find a sport that suits your dc and your lifestyle (no point in encouraging serious swimming if you're not prepared to get up at 5 am several mornings every week, or cross country if the thought of standing in a bog muddy field makes you hyperventilate).

You'll find something that's right - and it is easier in London than in the middle of the countryside.

atticusclaw2 · 28/09/2015 13:27

I really don't think you should discount gymnastics. Find some sessions locally. A good gym club is the best thing but even a leisure centre run class will enable them to be assessed for potential. They're still very young. If they show potential then you can always put them on a waiting list for a serious club whilst keeping things going at the same time.

You could also consider trampolining, sports acro, rhythmic gymnastics, circus skills, dance etc

jeee · 28/09/2015 13:24

Our local athletics club (and the next one down, for that matter) allow children to start at 6 or 7) - it's seen as a fairly important source of future athletes for the club.

atticusclaw2 · 28/09/2015 13:24

They're not going to be in a squad doing forward rolls and cartwheels and unable to do the splits.

More likely its a club that just happily takes money for however many sessions you want to put them in for.

Micah · 28/09/2015 13:23

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jeee · 28/09/2015 13:22

Another good point about athletics is the fact you can drop it for a season, and still come back. If you drop out of gymnastics for a year, it would be very difficult to come back again. When various dc have been ill, had a lot on at school, or have just decided that they don't want to do athletics, they've left training for a few weeks (in a couple of cases a few months) and have just joined in again where they left off. Yes, their times have slipped a bit, but not as much as you might expect. And nobody seems to think anything of it (I guess the national runners might not have their absences treated in such a sanguine manner).

BertrandRussell · 28/09/2015 13:22

They are 5 and 6........

newname12 · 28/09/2015 13:21

Athletics tends to be for older children. I think our local athletics club is 12+. Triathlon for juniors is 8+

I do think sometimes you have to express an interest in squad. Squad is a massive commitment, many hours, weekends, competitions. Coaches often take into consideration parents commitment when selecting children, so letting them know you are interested and aware may make them more likely to consider your children.

Some clubs have open trials you can go along to if you want to be considered for squad.

It does sound like your children are squad at your current club. recreational gymnastics is usually one hour a week. Ask your current club what their aims are for your children, and if they'd recommend anywhere in particular. Even if they don't personally contact clubs for you it will give you an idea.

Boobz · 28/09/2015 13:18

Cool. I wonder if DD2 would be better at doing something like that - she is less enamoured by gymnastics but is still strong physically. Thanks for the idea.

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jeee · 28/09/2015 13:15

When they were younger they did jumping, throwing, sprinting, hurdling.... but when they hit the U13 age category (top juniors/bottom secondary) they chose to concentrate on running. Other children may wish to do heptathlon/decathlon, or will be throwers, sprinters or jumpers.

Boobz · 28/09/2015 13:11

Is it just running they do? Not the other athletic disciplines like long jump, high jump etc?

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jeee · 28/09/2015 12:59

My dc are older now (14, 13, 12 and 8). The three eldest train outside all year - they're middle distance runners (county-ish level, so quite good, but not exceptional), and enjoy it. The youngest trains outside in the summer, but in the winter she'll be training inside - largely circuit training.

They've been running on and off (some seasons just don't get off the ground for one reason or another) since they were about 7.

Boobz · 28/09/2015 12:32

Thanks again all for your input. I will google all those clubs newname.

Yes mumoftwokids, I would never ask the girls to be put in the squad - it's just making sure they have a good club to develop them in case they are good enough to be in the squad... I fear they are currently not really learning that much.

Jee - I had thought about athletics but wondered if it was always done outside? I can't imagine the DDs getting excited about going out into the cold London nights after school - they have been spoilt by living in Sudan, Kenya and now Italy, pretty much all their lives, so they go almost blue at cold breeze (I know, I know, they are going to be in for a shock with our first London winter!)

How old are you DC Jee?

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jeee · 28/09/2015 09:32

If your 6 year old likes running, perhaps you could consider switching to athletics. In my (admittedly very area specific) experience, gymnastics clubs are geared up to the elite - although they often have a 'fun' session for the children they don't consider worth training, because it brings in some extra cash.

In contrast, my dc go to an athletics club, and train with athletes who run at international level (and there is no chance that my children would ever be international standard, unless they were running for San Marino) - and are treated as valued members of the club.

Mumoftwoyoungkids · 28/09/2015 09:31

I hate to say it but where we live (not London) the waiting list is 12 - 18 months at the pre-school age and 6 years school age for girls! There is also an internal waiting list for those who were in the pre school and have started school. This varies depending on when your birthday is but was 8 months for dd (who is a mid year March birthday).

It is ridiculously fabulous though!

I have to agree with the pp that they don't seem to have done much in 2 years.

Dd is 5 and has done just over a term of "proper" gymnastics (as opposed to the pre school "play with mummy" class). She is of a similar standard to your dd except she is that level on all four pieces (well 3 if I am really honest - she struggles with vaulting - can't get over the mushroom!) For example she can crawl, skip, run, jump, gallop, do dips and walk backwards on the beam.

That's on one hour a week so maybe 14 hours of training altogether. Obviously she had a bit of an advantage from the pre school class but as it was free play and her favourite thing there were the hula hoops I don't think she learnt that much!

I'd say she is progressing slightly faster than the average but nothing special.

There is no selection in the current class. They are then moved up to higher classes by a combination of age and ability. There are squads but they are selected by the coaches - no parental asking will get your child in a squad.

newname12 · 28/09/2015 09:30

5/6 is still young. I wouldn't worry about getting too serious until 7- and only then if you're talking olympics. The amount they're doing seems fine, and in the beginning strength, flexibility, and solid basics are more important than learning tricks on apparatus.

Richmond I think is an acro club. No bars/beam/floor/vault.

London has many clubs. If you're thinking high level- elite, national/international competition, you need an elite club. Realistically these are Heathrow, East London, Europa, Tolworth might be near you.

Clubs that do 4 piece comps at regional level are more common. If you look at heathrow's website at the competition results for womens artistic regional level 5 and 4 "out of age" ("in age" or compulsory level is the elite clubs) you'll get an idea of who trains at that level.

Finally even more clubs do floor and vault only. This can be much easier to get into, less commitment, but still do lots of competitions.

atticusclaw2 · 28/09/2015 09:20

Re being able to do the splits, it's all dependent on the amount of practice they do at home. They could go for three years and still not be able to do the splits if they are not doing the splits exercises at home every night.

If they do the exercise at home every night they'll be doing the splits within six months (with the possible exception of box splits which some children really struggle with).

Boobz · 28/09/2015 09:08

Thanks Atticus. I totally agree with you - I am surprised the youngest one still can't do the splits properly. I would have thought that 2 years gymnastics would have allowed you to get to the full splits?

To be fair they do do some jumping on the springboard, and standing on the beam (which was in their end of year display) but again it didn't seem that difficult or impressive, but maybe I am being too harsh?

DD1 loves doing handstands at home (she is doing them all the time) and has an extremely athletic body (abs of steel!)l she can do 10 proper press ups (and diamond press ups!) and at the weekend she ran 5km in a race in Siena which she didn't walk any of and is only 6, so I know she has the stamina to be pushed, but I don't know if she has the natural talent?

If I wait until I get back next year though, won't I have missed the boat for the better clubs which have really long waiting lists? Or will it not matter? They will be going to the French Lycee in South Kensington and they don't really have a good reputation for sports (it's very academic) and so I'm not sure they will be able to help recommending good clubs. We will be living in Herne Hill/Brixton area (I hope, if we can afford it!), so still SW but not quite as far SW as Richmond.

Am more than happy to be told that they aren't good enough for squad and will only ever do the more basic gymnastics, but I want to know that they've at least had a shot at it (if they want to do it, of course).

Thanks for all your answers so far - v helpful!

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