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Dd is destined to fail music theory exam

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LettyAshton · 01/10/2012 11:13

Dd, aged just 9, is learning the piano and her teacher has entered her for a music theory exam in November. Now I thought this was Grade 2, but it turns out it is Grade 3.

Now, frankly, she is nowhere near the standard required for this. She is within hailing distance of Grade 2, but she is going to crash and burn badly - she just can't get a handle on compound time among other things.

Ds sailed through his music theory exams at the same age as dd so I suppose the teacher assumes that dd is a carbon copy.

The teacher and dh are both saying "Oh, she'll be all right" but I don't think she will.

Is it a) possible to change the grade of exam at this stage and b) should I insist she is pulled altogether? It seems a bit defeatist but I don't think failure will teach her much of a lesson.

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PropositionJoe · 01/10/2012 19:40

How can he insist? Surely you're in charge?

LettyAshton · 01/10/2012 19:37

I tackled the piano teacher and he insists dd takes the exam. Looks like we'll have to suffer beaming exercises every night...

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picturesinthefirelight · 01/10/2012 17:14

A friends dd who is at a private school on a music scholarship is 11 almost 12 and just took her grade 5 theory in order to take her grade 6 violin.

Dd is 10 and is probably around Grade 1-2 standard.

flussymummy · 01/10/2012 16:36

I never quite understand why children are entered for any theory exams other than grade 5. They are quite dull and unnecessary (in my opinion!). I'd suggest working through all of the workbooks gradually, or waiting until practical standard is grade 4/5 and then doing a crash course on grade 5 theory at that stage. Much less arduous!

LettyAshton · 01/10/2012 13:37

Mmmmm. I will speak to her piano teacher this evening. He has rather high expectations and whilst ds (generally!) meets them dd is much less confident and, I must admit, less diligent.

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picturesinthefirelight · 01/10/2012 13:31

Pull her.

I pulled dd from her grade 1 piano when it became apparent she was nowhere near ready. I didn't want her first experience to be a fail/scraped pass. It was a good decision. She got a merit 3 months later.

Why on earth is she taking grade 3 at 9 anyway?

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