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What to suggest to fill a term of music lessons with no goal?

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DowntonTrout · 13/09/2012 22:20

DD has won a place at a Theatre School and so is moving school after Christmas, shes Y6 anyway so only moving 2 terms early. I've handed in the notice to school and DD will continue her singing, piano and recorder lessons up until then as you have to give a full terms notice to stop.

She took singing and piano grades in the summer and so, I suppose, there isnt time for her to prepare for another grade and I don't particularly want to push for that as I know grades arent the be all and end all.

Her music teacher has asked to speak to me about what I want her to do with DD. tBH I would have cancelled the lessons if I could, it's almost £400 and it feels like she's just going to be marking time. There are no performance opportunities coming up, or music festivals, so nothing to work towards.

I would like to say just have fun with music. Sing some thing that DD wouldn't usually have chance to try, instead of plodding away with folk songs, trad, grade work, but this teacher and I have had run ins before. She is not inspirational, teaches by bullying, has called DD stupid, idiot etc ( its her manner, she's the same with all the pupils). I nearly pulled DD out of her lessons before over it.

I feel a bit like she's thinking DD is leaving so there's not much point bothering with her. I don't know what to suggest and I'm not looking forward to this meeting. She has pooh-poohed songs in the past that DD has learnt at home and asked to sing. She has refused to enter DD into music festivals before claiming DD is not ready ( DD was entered by an out of school choral director and DD won the class and beat much older pupils from school- it didn't go down well.)

Any ideas what I can suggest she does? Surelyif there's no pressure for exams DD could just be doing music she enjoys?

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BreakfastCricket · 13/09/2012 23:08

Can you cut a deal with someone else who wants lessons and sell them on to another family at half price? It would halve your losses... Or can she do aural and theory work ?

DowntonTrout · 13/09/2012 22:53

DD has already done a term of Saturday school at the theatre school. She was awarded top of the class status by the musical director there. She sings outside school with a very well known choir and was concert performer of the year there.she passed a voice test for a choristership at a top music school but we decided against it as DD is also into drama and it was all music.

I think her teacher thinks I'm a pushy mum, but DD has proved herself over and over again and all I do is facilitate what she NEEDS to do. I just feel she should be a bit more pleased with DDs achievements, after all, the teacher has to take some of the credit for her success, instead of asking me what she's supposed to do with her. I mean Y6 is all about prepping for entrance exams but the Maths teacher hasn't come and asked me what to do because DD won't be sitting any.

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FrameyMcFrame · 13/09/2012 22:28

I think you should complain and ask for your money back, sounds like she is an awful teacher!
If your DD has to continue then maybe think about something that will help her at theatre school, could you liaise with them and ask what music they will be studying next year? I'm sure singing and voice will play a big part in her studies.

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