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I fell over and couldn't get up - what exercise do I need?

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Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 07:35

Basically that.

I fell over twice yesyerday. I wasnt hurt but couldn't get myself back up from kneeling/proposal style and had to ask strangers for help. I'm 46.

When I got home I tried again and on one side I can just about do it with a lot of effort but on the other I can't. I dont know why, I just cant.

Is it yoga/pilates or something else that will help?

I already walk/swim/strength train several times each week. I'm overweight (working on it).

Dont be concerned about me falling over btw. They were both my own stupidity. One was a slipping on wet paving and the other was treading on my trouser hem.

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ConstanzeMozart · 02/02/2026 13:49

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:16

I'm 3st over weight. But I'm only 5ft so it means I'm carrying a higher percentage if that makes sense? It's not muscle and it's due to my diet. It's on my thighs and bum mainly. My tummy isnt big enough to be blocker. This has upset enough to take that seriously now.

I'm in one of the flatest places you can imagine so all walking is flat and there's not much I can do about that. I do 1hr most days, generally lugging a heavy bag.

I work on 6th floor though and a few weeks back I did start taking the stairs. 6 floors is too much so I've been getting off the lift early and building it up. I currently get off at floor 3 and walk the last 3. Next week I'll start getting off at floor 2 so I walk 4 flights. I always walk down the stairs.

I realised that I have very little mobility in my hips eg I struggle to make big steps (although I do have tiny legs) or lift my leg high so I definately need to work on that. One of the reasons I hate burpees is that I physically struggle with them, again mobility I guess. Lunges will help that so I'll look into how best to do them.

I have already started practicing getting up but I didnt think to look up senior citizen videos so that's a good idea. I cant believe I need to do that.

Funnily enough, my gym sent an email this morning about a discount with a new PT. I cant afford a PT and swimming so maybe I need to stop the swimming for a little while and get personalised PT training?

I loved reformer. Not sure it did much but maybe I was going enough (too expensive).

I didnt think to look up senior citizen videos so that's a good idea. I cant believe I need to do that.

I know what you mean, but if you search on Instagram for the kind of sequences I mentioned, there are lots that don't say they're for senior citizens – they come from the point of view of making sure you're fit/strong/flexible enough now and getting into the habit of doing them, so that when you do get older you'll find getting up easier. I find that makes it easier for me to psychologically accept!

CreedMungbean · 02/02/2026 13:49

Hey OP - I recently decided I wanted to work on a specific strength issue - I told ChatGPT what my goal was and it devised me a 12 week weight training plan! I’m two weeks in and I’m impressed how targeted it is. You can also tell it whether you want to do this at home or at the gym as it will devise your plan around what equipment is available to you.

Poemsandthesands · 02/02/2026 13:43

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:25

You've verbalised what I mean.

I dont know why I couldnt get up. Lack of strength? Weak joints? Hip mobility? Poor core? Something else? I couldn't seem to get the knee I was kneeling up forward and up but I dont know what was stopping me.

I'm concerned that I might put all my effort into say core strength but it's actually stiff hips or whatever that I need to address.

Pilates will strengthen core, hips, glutes, back and legs so you'll get everything - and probably a holistic approach is best as you want all your muscles working together.

When I get up from proposal position, I drive off the front heel - the movement isn't coming from the kneeling leg. So when you say you can't get the kneeling leg up and forward, what about if you focus on the front leg driving the movement instead?

CoffeeBeansGalore · 02/02/2026 13:35

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:21

Do physios do that then? If I went and said, I couldnt get up, they would look at why? I thought they were only for injury/recovery.

Are they expensive?

I was the other way round. I had a diagnosis & GP recommended physio. The NHS one (during covid) was a phone call & useless.
I found a private one who was brilliant. Recommended by a friend. She was £70 ph but worth it. First appt was longer as she did a full assessment. No extra charge.
We then went through exercises to do daily. She also emailed written descriptions so I could refer back.
Charges will depend on your area. Your gym might have recommendations?

FlorenceBlack · 02/02/2026 13:34

My friend has recently seen a sports physiotherapist and paid around £40-£45 for the first session just to give you an idea.

BitOutOfPractice · 02/02/2026 13:29

Hello op. Sorry to hear you’ve had a couple of tumbles. Hope you’re not hurt.

I would really recommend a pt - look for someone with lots of experience of dealing with women I’d say, not someone who specialises in building muscle on young lads but someone who really understands how your body works. Explain to them your problem and tell them, clearly, what your objective is. They should do an assessment with you and put together a programme that is specifically tailored to you and your body.

you might even find you enjoy it.

good luck op.

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:28

evilharpy · 02/02/2026 13:23

They will absolutely do this - not sure of cost though, I've been lucky enough to get my physio sessions through work/BUPA for yesrs so very out of touch. GPs are generally a bit shit for anything musculoskeletal unfortunately.

I will look online. Thank you.

Someone up thread suggested looking at older people exercises so I'll add physio to that search

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Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:25

MyThreeWords · 02/02/2026 13:01

I'd recommend yoga because it encourages you to be very aware of how you are using each part of your body as you transition into positions or hold them. This will help you to learn where the problem is - which parts of your body are failing you.

Having cultivated that awareness, you can ask the instructor to recommend specific poses/sequences that may help. And even before you get to this stage, the classes should be providing an overall, balanced workout that will be of help.

You've verbalised what I mean.

I dont know why I couldnt get up. Lack of strength? Weak joints? Hip mobility? Poor core? Something else? I couldn't seem to get the knee I was kneeling up forward and up but I dont know what was stopping me.

I'm concerned that I might put all my effort into say core strength but it's actually stiff hips or whatever that I need to address.

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evilharpy · 02/02/2026 13:23

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:21

Do physios do that then? If I went and said, I couldnt get up, they would look at why? I thought they were only for injury/recovery.

Are they expensive?

They will absolutely do this - not sure of cost though, I've been lucky enough to get my physio sessions through work/BUPA for yesrs so very out of touch. GPs are generally a bit shit for anything musculoskeletal unfortunately.

BillieWiper · 02/02/2026 13:21

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:17

I'm sorry to hear that.

No I dont have an ED but I have a sweet tooth and am greedy (hence my weight). I'm taking it seriously though.

Thank you. I just said that as ED can damage bones and reduce muscle strength. I guess it's bad for very under or overweight.

I am sure the exercises pp suggest will help. You could ask for a physio referral from GP but you'd need to be in pain I think. Private physio is really expensive but the exercises they offer can be found online.

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:21

CoffeeBeansGalore · 02/02/2026 13:01

Might be worth seeing a private physio for an assessment. They can do various strength tests & can then recommend suitable specific exercises. If they think there's an underlying problem they will recommend you see your GP. Tell GP what physio has recommended so they don't fob you off.

Do physios do that then? If I went and said, I couldnt get up, they would look at why? I thought they were only for injury/recovery.

Are they expensive?

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Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:17

BillieWiper · 02/02/2026 13:15

This happened to me in that I couldn't lift myself off the floor using my legs and only one arm. It was when I was life threateningly anorexic.
I hope you don't have ED do you OP?

I'm sorry to hear that.

No I dont have an ED but I have a sweet tooth and am greedy (hence my weight). I'm taking it seriously though.

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Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:16

I'm 3st over weight. But I'm only 5ft so it means I'm carrying a higher percentage if that makes sense? It's not muscle and it's due to my diet. It's on my thighs and bum mainly. My tummy isnt big enough to be blocker. This has upset enough to take that seriously now.

I'm in one of the flatest places you can imagine so all walking is flat and there's not much I can do about that. I do 1hr most days, generally lugging a heavy bag.

I work on 6th floor though and a few weeks back I did start taking the stairs. 6 floors is too much so I've been getting off the lift early and building it up. I currently get off at floor 3 and walk the last 3. Next week I'll start getting off at floor 2 so I walk 4 flights. I always walk down the stairs.

I realised that I have very little mobility in my hips eg I struggle to make big steps (although I do have tiny legs) or lift my leg high so I definately need to work on that. One of the reasons I hate burpees is that I physically struggle with them, again mobility I guess. Lunges will help that so I'll look into how best to do them.

I have already started practicing getting up but I didnt think to look up senior citizen videos so that's a good idea. I cant believe I need to do that.

Funnily enough, my gym sent an email this morning about a discount with a new PT. I cant afford a PT and swimming so maybe I need to stop the swimming for a little while and get personalised PT training?

I loved reformer. Not sure it did much but maybe I was going enough (too expensive).

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BillieWiper · 02/02/2026 13:15

This happened to me in that I couldn't lift myself off the floor using my legs and only one arm. It was when I was life threateningly anorexic.
I hope you don't have ED do you OP?

evilharpy · 02/02/2026 13:12

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 02/02/2026 08:08

Not to try and read too much into your post but I am a bit concerned that a 46 year old who walks, swims and strength trains regularly has a hard time getting up from
the floor.

have you been checked out at the doctors? I wouldn’t say that’s typical even if a bit over weight.

I really agree with this - meant kindly.

We are a similar age. I have always been very fit and healthy (used to teach yoga/pilates/fitness) but had a major long covid related blip where I gained a hell of a lot of weight (well into obesity) and had breathing issues, and was physically very weak. I could barely walk up the stairs without hyperventilating. Even then I had no difficulty getting up from the floor.

I would honestly go and see a physiotherapist and let them assess where you have a weakness or imbalance and recommend next steps. My first thought would have been strength training but if you're doing that already then either your programme is not effective or there's another issue - flexibility, core strength, something else.

CoffeeBeansGalore · 02/02/2026 13:01

Might be worth seeing a private physio for an assessment. They can do various strength tests & can then recommend suitable specific exercises. If they think there's an underlying problem they will recommend you see your GP. Tell GP what physio has recommended so they don't fob you off.

MyThreeWords · 02/02/2026 13:01

I'd recommend yoga because it encourages you to be very aware of how you are using each part of your body as you transition into positions or hold them. This will help you to learn where the problem is - which parts of your body are failing you.

Having cultivated that awareness, you can ask the instructor to recommend specific poses/sequences that may help. And even before you get to this stage, the classes should be providing an overall, balanced workout that will be of help.

crackofdoom · 02/02/2026 12:51

Is your walking on the flat or uphill? My thigh muscles and glutes are pretty good, and I'm sure it's from hauling myself up the insane inclines on the South West Coast Path on.a regular basis.

HessianSack · 02/02/2026 12:47

This is concerning - are you very overweight? Look up functional fitness classes.

HopSpringsEternal · 02/02/2026 09:54

Get a bean bag and sit on it, make sure you get up and dow lots of times. Within a month you will have cracked it.

StripedPillowcase · 02/02/2026 09:52

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 02/02/2026 08:08

Not to try and read too much into your post but I am a bit concerned that a 46 year old who walks, swims and strength trains regularly has a hard time getting up from
the floor.

have you been checked out at the doctors? I wouldn’t say that’s typical even if a bit over weight.

Agree with PP, this sounds a bit worrying. In the moment, shaken up from falling, possibly cold and wet from the conditions, embarrassed as well, might mean the OP struggled.
But if she still struggled when trying it at home, calm and not hurt, especially given the amount of exercise she does, that's a bit concerning.
I'm 50, overweight and do a lot less exercise than OP, but I just got up from the floor 3 times in a row (different methods) without any difficulty, and I wasn't holding on to anything.

ShadesmarBead · 02/02/2026 09:32

Falls physio here. The technique you need to work on is called backward chaining.

https://www.physio-pedia.com/Backward-chaining

Increasing evidence that using your body to do functional activities and using your own weight as resistance against gravity is a very effective exercise, more so than doing open-chain weights in a single plane (such as you would do weights at the gym).
pilates also excellent for strength and balance.

I echo a pp who recommended you see your GP about this. Given your age you should be able to get up from the floor.

TalulahJP · 02/02/2026 09:21

sounds like your thighs are weak. if you were in the “proposal” position on one knee and couldn’t stand from that. going up lots of stairs multiple times a day would help.

OxyGon · 02/02/2026 09:13

If you roll onto your hands and knees can you get up. It does sound worrying though.

ConstanzeMozart · 02/02/2026 09:03

GoldbergVariations · 02/02/2026 08:19

Look on youtube for videos showing senior citizens how to get up from the floor without assistance. Useful to know, whatever your age.

I've also recently seen some Instagram posts/reels about exercises for mobility/getting up from the floor. I can't find any just now, or remember any of the posters' names, but they should be easy enough to find.