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I fell over and couldn't get up - what exercise do I need?

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Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 07:35

Basically that.

I fell over twice yesyerday. I wasnt hurt but couldn't get myself back up from kneeling/proposal style and had to ask strangers for help. I'm 46.

When I got home I tried again and on one side I can just about do it with a lot of effort but on the other I can't. I dont know why, I just cant.

Is it yoga/pilates or something else that will help?

I already walk/swim/strength train several times each week. I'm overweight (working on it).

Dont be concerned about me falling over btw. They were both my own stupidity. One was a slipping on wet paving and the other was treading on my trouser hem.

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EmeraldRoulette · 02/02/2026 21:39

@IceBrownie I do those - they seem to be more about range of motion?

But still found myself on the slope having to kind of flip over and use my hands. Well, one hand. Couldn't just stand straight up.

so I can squat that far back, but not that far forward.

I am trying to think about this more and see how I can fix it. I initially wasn't too concerned because I injured my spine quite badly in an accident so there's bound to be some weakness in my core. I might need to address lower body strength as well.

@HArderthan1thought yes, I think some individual attention from a Pilates instructor might be a good idea. I have already been recommended one to avoid in the local area. Maybe I should see a physiotherapist or something instead.

@Frenchcremefraiche I hope everything's alright. I think it's very easy to find ourselves in these situations. And it may well be something to do with accessory muscles and nothing to worry about. 💐

IceBrownie · 02/02/2026 21:13

You need mobility exercises.

Short and consistent. 10ms a day. Loads on YouTube

Choux · 02/02/2026 20:54

Re the 6 flights of stairs, last year I was borderline anemic. Not massively - haemaglobin was 124 - but the breathlessness after 3 flights of stairs was dreadful. I was properly gasping. Some high strength iron tablets, multivitamins and a bit more focus on nutrition and I don’t even notice the 3 flights now.

So OP if you find stairs make you overly breathless you may need a bit more iron, Vit B12 or folate to make more haemaglobin.

cestlavielife · 02/02/2026 19:50

Self refer to muskuloskeletal service
Check hips and knees

sqwer · 02/02/2026 19:45

When you see the GP focus on the fact that you have fallen twice and were unable to get up unaided. Let the GP know what exercise you do and ask if it’s possible you have an underlying medical issue.

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 19:21

Ah bugger. I've just looked up my knees and it seems I should have pushed a bit harder about being taken seriously. I've always had it and was told that if I wasn't getting pain (I dont) it wasnt anything to worry about. Seems that with it getting noisier and not being able to get up, it might actually be an issue.

Oh well. I wont be googling anymore but will make a GP appointment and be a bit more forceful.

Thanks everyone.

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Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 19:10

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 02/02/2026 18:42

It could be nothing or it could be a whole host of things both neurological and musculoskeletal, or even potentially an endocrine issue as a previous poster pointed out. Have you noticed any other issues with balance or any other weakness, joint pain or anything else out of the ordinary?

a fairly active person aged 46 should be able to get up off the floor without too much difficulty even if over weight. The fact you fell over twice in one day and couldn’t get up is a bit of a worry if I’m honest. I would get it checked out properly and then if it turns out to be nothing to worry about act on all the strengthening advice on this thread.

Not particularly. Just general minor aches and pains that a fat 40+ woman would expect. 🤣
I get a lot if what I think is gall bladder pain. I've had an MRI that showed nothing but I need to follow that up.
I've always had noisy knees (going up stairs sounds like I'm walking on bubble wrap) but it's never caused pain so I was told to ignore it. It's getting worse so I probably should het that checked again.
Double doctors appointment then. I'll have to take a list.

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packratandproud · 02/02/2026 19:08

I would prioritise getting a rehab PT who is good with specifics like this

BitOutOfPractice · 02/02/2026 19:07

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 16:18

I think we'll have to disagree with that one then. https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/4902846-how-would-you-feel-after-climbing-six-flights-of-stairs

By "cant" I mean, I could but Id be slow and out of breath and my heart would be going. By the end of this week Ill be doing 3 without any issue so half way there

But getting your heart rate up and breathing heavily is the whole point of cardio vascular exercise. You shouldn’t be avoiding that, you should be embracing it. Do you get out of breath in your gym sessions?

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 19:03

queenrollo · 02/02/2026 18:48

I’m 50 and over the last 6 years my hips and lower back were causing issues. My GP kept brushing it off as perimenopausal symptoms, even though I was on HRT.
My personal trainer was adjusting my exercises but I was getting weaker. Eventually I was struggling to get up off the floor at all, no strength in my legs.
My GP referred me to physiotherapy, they assessed me and sent me for an MRI as there was clearly an issue affecting me.
I have a large non cancerous tumour (schwannoma) compromising my cauda equine nerve root and spinal cord. I have major surgery in a few weeks to remove it.

Please ask your GP for a physio referral and get checked out.

I hope everything goes well. X

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queenrollo · 02/02/2026 18:48

I’m 50 and over the last 6 years my hips and lower back were causing issues. My GP kept brushing it off as perimenopausal symptoms, even though I was on HRT.
My personal trainer was adjusting my exercises but I was getting weaker. Eventually I was struggling to get up off the floor at all, no strength in my legs.
My GP referred me to physiotherapy, they assessed me and sent me for an MRI as there was clearly an issue affecting me.
I have a large non cancerous tumour (schwannoma) compromising my cauda equine nerve root and spinal cord. I have major surgery in a few weeks to remove it.

Please ask your GP for a physio referral and get checked out.

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 02/02/2026 18:42

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 16:50

Thanm you for this. What are you thinking might be the issue? I know you cant diagnose and you wont panic or upset me. It would just be helpful if I could go to the GP and say "Ive been told to ask about x" rather than "I cant stand up from sitting" and be told "it's just hecause you are fat".

It could be nothing or it could be a whole host of things both neurological and musculoskeletal, or even potentially an endocrine issue as a previous poster pointed out. Have you noticed any other issues with balance or any other weakness, joint pain or anything else out of the ordinary?

a fairly active person aged 46 should be able to get up off the floor without too much difficulty even if over weight. The fact you fell over twice in one day and couldn’t get up is a bit of a worry if I’m honest. I would get it checked out properly and then if it turns out to be nothing to worry about act on all the strengthening advice on this thread.

Notmymarmosets · 02/02/2026 18:38

Just to say if it happens again and there is no one to help, you should crawl to a tree, bollard, gate etc for balance. Don't panic. It is very rare there is nothing around that might help.

ThatLilacTiger · 02/02/2026 18:37

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 16:43

I used to run half marathons. Not fast but without stopping. I was training for a marathon and fractured my foot putting it down wrong during a run. I had to stop obviously and never got back to it. It sounds stupid but I'm scared to start running again because I wouldnt be able to run to the end of the street now. I know about couch 25k. My foot healed fine. Plus I dont fit in my running kit now! 🤣

It's so funny because everytime I post on here about exercise (under various names) I get told I'm not doing enough cardio or I'm doing too much cardio or I'm not doing the right type of cardio. 🤣

Honestly my concern is less about the type of exercise you're doing and more about the possibility of MS or something unrelated to exercise, causing profound weakness that shouldn't be there. You're deflecting and avoiding confronting the issue here, which is that if you can't stand up on your own at 46 and you're not morbidly obese, then there's something wrong with you. Please do see a doctor.

Edit: apologies I can see you've acknowledged the recommendations to see the GP now. I hope it's just muscle weakness.

HArderthan1thought · 02/02/2026 18:28

EmeraldRoulette · 02/02/2026 17:05

@HArderthan1thought i'm not clear from your post
Are you doing reformer Pilates? I've only done mat Pilates. Maybe I should give reformer a try.

I started with 1:1 Pilates sessions with a mixture of mat and reformer - the reformer helped me in doing mat work, which I still do. Either is good - my main point, which could have been clearer, sorry, is to do it with individual attention from a trained pilates instructor. They really know what they're looking for.

Petrine · 02/02/2026 18:17

Could it be down to reduced movement in your thighs because of your weight distribution.

You say you’re 5ft tall and 3 stone overweight, with that weight being carried in your thighs and bum. It could be down to your thighs being physically unable to swing forward to propel you upwards due to weight distribution.

Jaffalemons · 02/02/2026 18:06

ConstanzeMozart · 02/02/2026 14:30

I don't think getting up from legs crossed or without using your hands particularly matters, you just need to be able to get up, with your hands, easily.

Yeah, I don't think it matters as such, I just know some people can and I wonder why I can't! I'm quite fit (I think), not overweight, fairly strong, do yoga, ballet fit, Zumba...

I think the ‘get up from cross legged’ has been doing the round on the socials as a ‘test of fitness’. Getting up easily is what matter.

OP you are lucky you’ve had this experience as now you can work on it, but I really would go to your GP, that is quite a worrying situation.

ehb102 · 02/02/2026 18:03

Look up inchworms and walk outs for the names of the exercises.

unsync · 02/02/2026 17:59

Mat Pilates. It will balance out both sides, give you flexibility and mobility in your joints and strengthen your core. It goes really well with lifting weights too. It is challenging both physically and mentally, but the benefits are worth it.

ehb102 · 02/02/2026 17:54

If you are properly fat you can work on starting on your knees in press up position, lifting your bum up (and head down) and then walking your hands to where they need to be until you can push yourself off the floor. I thanked the deities for CrossFit when I fell over post surgery. It would have been ambulance job if I couldn't have done it myself as I am huge.

Deanefan · 02/02/2026 17:44

Just a bit of a left field view, shoulder and hip weakness along with weight gain can be signs of an under active thyroid. Do you have any other symptoms like cold hands and feet, thinning of eyebrows and hair?

In reality like me you are probably just out of practice!

cantankerousoldcrone · 02/02/2026 17:38

Maybe a physiotherapist would know what you need for that exact movement?

BecauseofyouIlearntnottotrust · 02/02/2026 17:28

Apart from the getting up issue I am wondering about your falls. I know you said they weren’t an issue but I fell a couple of times a few years ago. I’ve been trying to strengthen my ankles, practicing balancing for extended periods of time as well as running and yoga and I haven’t fallen over in a couple of years. If I wobble I can catch myself.

ShadesmarBead · 02/02/2026 17:25

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 16:53

Would you be able to tell me what to ask the GP about?
I know if I go and say "I cant get up off the floor" he would just tell me to lose weight. Which is a valid point but not helpful if there are actual red flags.
I know you cant diagnose and I wont go and google whatever you say and scare myself!
Thank you.

Just start by saying exactly what you’ve said here. That you fell twice and couldn’t get up. You’d like to start doing some specific exercises to help, but you want to make sure that there’s nothing else going on before you start.

Any GP worth their salt will raise a curious eyebrow and clock that you’re worried.

Your GP will take a more detailed history in addition to having access to your past medical history and medications all of which are essential in a falls assessment.

Try not to worry, Dr Google is definitely not your friend here x

StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 02/02/2026 17:20

Frenchcremefraiche · 02/02/2026 13:21

Do physios do that then? If I went and said, I couldnt get up, they would look at why? I thought they were only for injury/recovery.

Are they expensive?

A Physio would be far more use than a PT. Assessing mobility issues and helping you fix them is part of their job! They can find out exactly why you couldn’t get up saving you time and effort if it’s muscular.

Yes also see the Gp and say you couldn’t get off the floor and you don’t think it’s due to weight.