Please or to access all these features

Exercise

Chat to other fitness enthusiasts on our Exercise forum.

What if you just don't like strength training??

81 replies

SilkieChick · 16/01/2025 10:09

I’m 47, fairly fit, eat well and aware of how important they say strength training is at this age and stage of life, so I’m making an effort to introduce this to my usual weekly exercise of walking/gardening/yoga.

Tried out Caroline Girvin’s work out for the first time two days ago and my lower body is still aching. I’m going to try and persist and try some of the other workouts, upper body core et cetera, but this is not my usual kind of exercise and I don’t love it. I’ve never been a gym bunny, I don’t love boring, repetitive lifts and I really don’t like that my body is aching so much that I’m not enjoying other forms of exercise/hobbies as much - like gardening which I do regularly and I need my muscles to work so I can bend/lift etc!

So my questions are:

Will it get better?
If so - when??
Are there other forms of exercise I could do (or I’m already doing) which have the same benefits?

Surely if I’m walking pretty much every day with additional sessions of yoga and some physical gardening on top of that that’s enough to keep me fit and healthy both physically and mentally?

I firmly believe you should enjoy exercise and find a form that is that works for you because it makes you feel better, and then you’ll want to keep doing it. I know it’s still very early days but I definitely don’t feel better after doing a strength workout - I feel worse, and older!

I really enjoy walking, yoga, gardening, even running (when I've got my mojo back) and so I’m also not prepared to give up one of these for a super intense workout which makes me feel old and creaky every time at the end of it.

Convince me that this is important and I need to persist, or reassure me that I'm already doing enough to survive midlife/menopause!

OP posts:
Wintersoltice · 16/01/2025 11:34

Maybe try doing it as part of a class? I'm not sure it has to be weightlifting per se (though I'm sure someone will come along and correct me), but bodyweight exercises that you do in HIIT classes etc might be sufficient?

TheOtherAgentJohnson · 16/01/2025 11:33

I don't know, I find all exercise for the sake of it boring, but I do it because I need to, to stay healthy. I like gardening and walking, the yoga, weights and resistance training is a chore. The initial pain goes away once your body adjusts.

Mareleine · 16/01/2025 11:33

I may be wrong but I heard boxing/boxercise was supposed to be good for bone density due to the impact? I tried it out a few weeks ago and then injured my wrist (I am hypermobile) so I haven't been again but it was a fun session.

ForgottenPasswordNewAccount · 16/01/2025 11:31

Join a strenght and conditioning class, it is much more fun.

But i love the ache, it means i have worked hard

SilkieChick · 16/01/2025 11:30

Klovos · 16/01/2025 11:20

Lifting weights is the best way to increase muscle mass, joint strength and help maintain bone density in a safe and controlled manner. Sports have a higher degree of injury and are not as effective and efficient in giving you a well rounded whole body exercise.

I know, that's why I'm trying it out. I keep reading about how important it is for women of my age. However [throws tantrum] it's BORING and it HURTS! Therefore, I don't enjoy it and won't feel motivated to keep it up.

I'm looking for reassurance that it somehow magically gets better OR there's Another Way - another form of exercise which will provide similar benefits.

I suspect the answer is: there's not. Suck it up, grit your teeth and get on with it - or risk your joints/bones crumbling into dust 😩

OP posts:
Klovos · 16/01/2025 11:20

Lifting weights is the best way to increase muscle mass, joint strength and help maintain bone density in a safe and controlled manner. Sports have a higher degree of injury and are not as effective and efficient in giving you a well rounded whole body exercise.