How to get a bigger bum

Again for those in the back, no one is talking about a 'very big' arse.
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Fat arses is not what anyone is talking about 🤦🏻‍♀️^

@size4feet I care about being strong in my 50s but not about the roundness of my backside in any other way than keeping my weight healthy and my strength maintained. If my bum gets very big it’s because I’ve put on weight which would lead me to keep that down to healthy bmi.

I think there is probably a correlation between porn and the doggy style position being easiest to film (🤮) leading to a focus on the arse. No one cared until they were being compared to porn stars!

Do women not want to look cuter and younger and sexier for themselves? Muscle mass is lost at an alarming rate after about the age of 40. Both for aesthetic reasons and for health and safety, many women work hard to maintain or build up their muscle mass.

Many women enjoy making themselves look good for themselves. Yes maybe on a biological level, everything we do is to appear attractive to the opposite sex but if it were just that, all of us menopausal women would just revert to wearing loose sacks and never wear makeup or do our hair.

@SAMKIING

I’m so sorry about your son. To get answers you need to start your own thread - https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/childrens_health might be a good place, or if you report your post MNHQ will help you move it to a new thread.

You can have mine!

Sorry OP, growing your glute muscles (muscles people!!!!) takes a lot of graft. Squats, rdls, hip thrusts, lunges etc. done close to failure 2-3 times a week. Plus eating enough to send the signal for the muscle to grow. It’s very rewarding though, I encourage you to lift weights regularly anyway as it’s so good for you! Building muscle is one of the very best things you can do for your overall health. Strong glutes don’t just look good, they help with your body’s overall function, esp as you age.

Ps. The racism on this thread is pretty gross. Calling big bums “soft porn tropes” and “hideous”?! Many women with heritage other than white European naturally have bigger bums.

You say it’s not for men, but you have referred to having a large butt as ‘cuter, younger and sexier’ several times now.
You can sort of understand why people might think you are doing it for the male gaze.

@RaraRachael @greengreyblue

I don't understand why you are so determined to believe no woman wants a bigger butt it that it's only for men. Do you honestly think everything women do is for men? You may believe we wear makeup, think about how to dress, go to the gym etc for men but that's just a reflection of your motivations or reasons for doing things. Not ours.

Of course some women want a bigger butt. Otherwise what possible reason would the poster start the thread. You don't like bigger butts. You like small butts. Good for you but this isn't about what you want.

Do you always think it's all about you?

That's some level of delusion.

Except for the OP? And all the women in the gym training hard to build their glutes.

You may not know them but we exist

Just eat loads of cake 😀

I'm with you @greengreyblue I don't know any woman who's interested jn having a bigger bum

Well they’re just daft! All for the male gaze.

Oh stop it. Most of the white women with rounded bums have not had implants ffs. That is possible the most asinine thing I have read on MN.
Go down to a gym and you'll see women busting a gut working their quads and hamstrings and glutes to build a desirable butt for themselves.

Before this trend the only women that had bums that were rounded to the back were of Afro Caribbean heritage. There were big buns but not that shape all pert and full. Most of the white women with rounded behinds are either wearing implant underwear or they’ve had work done.

Tbh if I judge somebody's attractiveness, I look at their face not their arse 😂

Ok that's fine. You don't think Jennifer Lopez, Hillary Dugg or Jessica Biel look attractive in the pictures I posted. That's not really something they are likely to concerned about because they^^ like their butts. Presumably as they work really hard to have them.

And as the OP wants a bigger butt too. So there you go! IRS bit about other people's views on butts. It's about what the owner of the butt wants 😂

@size4feet no I don't think having a big bum is attractive

@MsLuxLisbon

OP said that her bottom wasn't flat, though. I love my pert, small bottom. A Kardashian style rump is quite hideous IMO.
😂there is a massive spectrum of buttage between the average woman's butt and the Kardashian's.
Ain't no one here promoting that

@Notcontent
The. Why haven't you seen any beautiful round developed gluted butts?? 😂

I don't, plus a bottom like the first one would make finding clothes a nightmare.

OP said that her bottom wasn't flat, though. I love my pert, small bottom. A Kardashian style rump is quite hideous IMO.

You are quite wrong - I go to the gym in London, have been to lots of beaches in glamorous places - I have seen lots of young women with amazing figures (including my own dd).

I just want one to balance my boobs out
Genetics was like "here have big feet to balance out the ridiculous size boobs. Oh but you don't need an arse so tough"

If it wasn't for the feet I would just topple over forwards