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Beginner running group - always at the back :-(

29 replies

SatinHeart · 14/03/2022 13:12

I'm normally a card-carrying exercise hater, but I recently joined a beginner walk-to-run programme. We're a few weeks in and I can already run further than I can ever remember being able to run before. Everyone is so nice, the trouble is each week I seem to be more and more at the back of the group and further behind everybody else. I can manage the running intervals, its just I can't really keep pace with the others. If I I try I can sort of keep up with the next slowest people but they keep trying to strike up conversation and I can't really chat at all as I'm having to work on regulating my breathing.

It's kind of taken the shine off the social aspect of the group - one of the reasons I wanted to start running was for the MH improving aspects of exercise, but the moment it's just making me sad that I'm on my own at the back every week. But I'm worried that if I stop the group I won't have the motivation to keep up running on my own.

OP posts:
jowly · 14/03/2022 13:29

OP you're doing a whole lot better than those who don't exercise...

You should be proud of yourself 💪

Hellocatshome · 14/03/2022 13:23

Someone has to be at the back (I should know its normally me) I cant talk and run at the same time either so I found the social side in the before and after bits. I would usually get there about 15 minutes early and chat to people as they arrived and as we finished right next to a cafe it was easy to ask if anyone fancied a drink afterwards.

Neolara · 14/03/2022 13:22

I have been an on / off runner for the last 30 years, always incredibly slow and sometimes, literally in the last 20 people of big races with thousands of entrants. I'm currently back on week 3 of couch to 5 k after recurring injury. Comparing myself to others is a recipe for feeling depressed. I think the key to staying motivated is to focus on your own progress and ignore what others are doing. I can guarantee there are people running sub 25 minute 5ks who are depressed at how slow they are compared to the competition. You will never be the fastest, but you can become a faster, stronger version of yourself.

FurForksSake · 14/03/2022 13:15

You can't compare yourself to others, it isn't fair and will only leave you disheartened. Perhaps once you have finished the course you will find others of a similar pace to run with? Local club here has a Jeff-ing group and a gentle step up group as well as social runs.

Perhaps suggest going for a coffee afterwards to get the social side in?

Remember you are running laps around those on the sofa!

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