Please or to access all these features

Elderly parents

Is applying for a blue badge really that difficult??

81 replies

AuntieBiotics · 23/09/2026 16:06

Inlaws are being very very difficult and intransigent about applying for a Blue Badge. Both are 82. MIL has osteoporosis, fell last year and broke her hip. Very little vision in one eye and lacking in confidence when walking. FIL the same age and has COPD.

We suggested they apply for a blue badge - they don't go anywhere much other than the supermarket and the doctor/hospital but it would make things so much easier parking at the door and FIL not having to leave MIL while he parks. My mum is younger (by a year) and has a blue badge - she was awarded it while waiting for a hip replacement but it was not me who did the application, it was my brother.

Inlaws say it's too hard, too many questions, have to be on benefits (I know this is rubbish), have to provide medical notes, get a letter from the GP. And besides, Marjory next door / the hairdresser's cousin / some man in the GP's waiting room applied and was turned down as not eligible and are far more disabled.

OP posts:
LIZS · 23/09/2026 16:13

It is much simpler than it once was. With a severe visual impairment and mobility limitations it should be relatively straightforward. Any consultant and diagnosis letters can be used as evidence. Do either get Attendance Allowance?

Thewaterboys · 23/09/2026 16:11

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

Thewaterboys · 23/09/2026 16:10

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

macaroon8 · 23/09/2026 16:09

Think it depends where they are as it's down to individual councils. My experience of north Yorkshire is straightforward and quick.

AbzMoz · 23/09/2026 16:09

Next time your partner visits, can they go through the form and just get it done? They’ve probably spent longer debating and dallying than just getting an application in. If it’s rejected it’s an hour and a stamp wasted.. hardly major stakes.

Wolfiefan · 23/09/2026 16:08

I’m guessing either they don’t want to have to admit their disabilities or the idea of form filling seems overwhelming for them.