My DM seems to have a lot of signs that she is approaching end of life from decompensated heart failure - lack of appetite, sleeping a lot, reduced body temperature, v low blood pressure, incontinence, dry mouth, milky eyes, I could go on. She is currently in hospital with flu and pneumonia but she also has acute kidney injury, anaemia, low minerals of various kinds a broken arm, osteoporosis. In short she's in a bad way. But mentally she is still pretty well when not asleep, and getting really fed up with them keeping finding new things wrong and treating one thing that makes another thing worse. My head is all over the place. I feel like she's in the final days of life if I'm honest, but no doctors have said this, they're treating her with antibiotics, infusions of various kinds, a bear hug blanket thing filled with air, and talking about intensive physio at a rehab hospital.
Can someone help me understand what to expect? I'm currently with her but don't know whether to go home to London (2 hours away on train) and come back next weekend, or if we really are at the end stage. I've posted similar threads before and got helpful advice but things have moved on a bit so thought I'd start a new one.