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Elderly parents

Physio after broken hip

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OMFGSOB · 16/10/2025 13:02

Mum is 78, very frail, has heart failure and dementia (such a cheery start to a thread 🙃)

About a month ago she fell and broke her hip. She's out of hospital now, with two carers coming 4 x day. She has improved a bit since the op, but can still only lie in bed or sit in a chair, and my dad is not supposed to move her when the carers aren't here.

She was having physio in hospital but apparently it will be several weeks until the community physios are able to come out, so she'll be pretty much completely immobile until then... My dad feels like they've given up on her 😔

To the question: would it be worth getting a private physio to fill in for the weeks before the NHS physio starts? Do private physios do this sort of thing? Or do they not like passing back and forth with NHS care?

Tbh I don't think she'll walk again, but even a small improvement in mobility would improve her life a lot!

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ReignOfError · 16/10/2025 13:20

I’m assuming she had a hip replacement? If so, the physios will have given her exercises to continue at home. Ring the physio department at the hospital and ask. Four weeks after a hip replacement she should be mobile, but there are exercises she can do sitting and lying down.

When is her follow up appointment with the consultant/surgeon?

OMFGSOB · 16/10/2025 13:11

Autisticburnouthell · 16/10/2025 13:04

How was her walking before she broke her hip?

Until recently it was ok, but became much slower in the past 6 months (I think because of the heart issue). Just before she went into hospital she could walk around the house and down the road for about 50m (usually holding my dad's arm).

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NoBinturongsHereMate · 16/10/2025 13:09

Definitely get a private physio if she can afford one.

Autisticburnouthell · 16/10/2025 13:04

How was her walking before she broke her hip?

OMFGSOB · 16/10/2025 13:04

Also, if anyone is able to suggest other forums for discussing elderly parent issues (maybe more active than Mumsnet?) I'd be very grateful!

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