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What is the process for determining that a nursing home v. residential home required,?

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limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 12:03

Are there different assessments?
One for applying for funding and another by the nursing home itself?
Who conducts them, how are they made?
Sorry if this is silly question, I have no knowledge in this area.

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AubergineParm · 18/09/2025 11:23

When we needed a care home for my parent not that long ago, the explanation I was given by the homes we spoke to was the level of medical nurse care needed. My recollection was that the nursing floors had a nurse there at all times, residential floors did not.

My parent was on various tablets, has some dementia, had a catheter but otherwise care needs were really personal care so residential was fine.

We were arranging and funding ourselves so I was keen to pick somewhere that also had a nursing wing should the situation change, to minimise impact on parent of having to move homes.

limetrees32 · 18/09/2025 09:52

I don't have the full picture but she was collapsed on the floor and very confused .
Paramedics said very low blood pressure .

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vdbfamily · 17/09/2025 23:15

Just out of interest, what was the reason for her readmission to hospital?

PinkJ · 17/09/2025 21:47

Hoists are NOT a nursing needs!

PinkJ · 17/09/2025 21:47

This is literally my job, I'm a nurse working within a hospital discharge team, I work along side a social worker. The social worker will decide if the patient can safely go home, if not I assess the patients and decide if they need resi or nursing level care, social workers aren't trained to assess for nursing needs.

We then use the 'discharge to assess process' usually 28 days placement in appropriate facility, then patients are reassessed to determine longer term needs. If they have improved they can sometimes be discharged home. Fundingbis decided then asset depending.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 17/09/2025 21:23

After a failed discharge, the hospital may want - or could be persuaded - to go for an intermediate care/discharge to assess care home placement rather than discharging straight home again.

This would mean 4-6 weeks NHS-funded stay in a care home (from the hospital's standard list) so a more detailed assessment of her needs is made. This would give time to look around for a permanent placement.

If she's self funding, there's no benefit to going for a nursing home if she only needs residential. The FNC funding (even if she gets it) won't bring the fees down between those of a residential home. Although as others have said if she's likely to progress to nursing needs in time, it's useful to have a home able to offer both in the same.site to minimise the disruption of a move.

A PP mentioned hoists as one of the reason for needing nursing rather than residential. That's not been my experience. Many, if not all, residential homes have a variety of stand assists and hoists available and staff trained to use them.

FiniteSagacity · 17/09/2025 21:06

@limetrees32 I’d add that diabetes can be what means nursing level care is needed. For example, if nurses need to monitor blood sugar readings and adjust injectable insulin, if regular wound care is needed. Carers couldn’t do this for DF who was having nurse visits to home - he didn’t qualify for CHC, he did qualify for FNC (funded nursing care) - because registered nurses working in the nursing home could take over what the community nurses were doing.

limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 20:57

Thank you all so much .
I don't understand what is staying the relatives hand(s).
I feel better prepared to talk to them now.

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SoloSofa24 · 17/09/2025 20:15

I think a lot of moves to care homes and nursing homes are initially on a respite/trial basis and then become long-term.

FirstdatesFred · 17/09/2025 20:15

If your relative is self funding then it's between you and the care home and they will assess and say if they can meet needs or feel that nursing care is needed.

If social services are funding or it's a hospital discharge it will be up to the funding body who will determine the right level of care.

There isn't a separate assessment for the funded nursing element really.

SoloSofa24 · 17/09/2025 20:14

After one failed discharge, they should be reassessing capacity and may refuse to discharge her home again (you or the other relatives should definitely be making a fuss about unsafe discharges), which would mean finding a nursing or residential home.

Even if they decide she needs nursing care, that doesn't mean she would qualify for CHC funding - as others have said, you have to be extremely ill and incapacitated to qualify, hardly anyone gets it until they are at end-of-life stage - so she would still be self-funding. That means it will probably be up to the relatives who have PoA to find a suitable home, whether it is near them or near where she is now.

But if she still thinks she has capacity, actually getting her into a home may be quite a delicate operation. With my DF, who had fluctuating capacity, and really, really wanted to go home, but could not be safely looked after there, I made a point of having a conversation with him while a nurse was in the room, and got him to agree to go into a care home to recuperate after hospital, until he was well enough to go home. Of course he was never well enough to go home again, and bounced back and forth between care home and hospital until he died a few months later.

Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould · 17/09/2025 20:02

limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 19:31

@Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould but can they do this if the person is said to have capacity and is sometimes ambivalent about the move?

Capacity is very tricky. It can fluctuate so it depends who assesses it and when. With most care homes, you move in on a month's trial (check, of course, when you speak to them) so perhaps that would be an approach you could use with her. She could go in and see how she fares.
The care home will still assess her needs and decide what level of care they think she needs. Whatever you do, it isn't cast in stone. One of my relatives started on residential but they realised very quickly that she needed more support and moved her to a higher level of care, where she did very well.
I will say that I've been lucky and I've had only positive experiences with care homes. Some of them are amazing - warm, loving and full of laughter.

limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 19:44

Thank you Justbecause .
She lacks the understanding to process things and she often thinks she's at home when she's in hospital.

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Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould · 17/09/2025 19:35

limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 19:27

@wobbegong I think she feels she needs to be in a home with the security of some care on hand ( as said imo nursing care is not needed) but equally wants to go home.
Understandable , but really not practical and not working.
I think the relatives are reluctant to act .

I've learned that "I want to go home" is often their way of expressing that they feel uncertain/worried/anxious. "Home" is a feeling, not necessarily a place. It's very hard to hear them saying it but I wouldn't give it too much weight. My relative used to say it while they were at home.

limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 19:31

@Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould but can they do this if the person is said to have capacity and is sometimes ambivalent about the move?

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limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 19:27

@wobbegong I think she feels she needs to be in a home with the security of some care on hand ( as said imo nursing care is not needed) but equally wants to go home.
Understandable , but really not practical and not working.
I think the relatives are reluctant to act .

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Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould · 17/09/2025 19:26

I've done this a few times...
The only difference is the level of care that is needed. The care home will assess your relative to determine the level of care they need. As your relative will be self-funding, you don't need social services and they probably won't help anyway. All you want from them is a list of care homes in your area that accept LA funded residents, just in case funds run out. Find a care home that offers residential, dementia and nursing care so your relative can simply move within the home as their needs evolve.
As for NHS CHC funding - this is almost impossible to secure. There needs to be a very real clinical need for care that can only be provided by nurses/doctors. It's often only awarded for the last few weeks of life.
Join Safeguarding Futures, a Facebook group. Excellent info there. Age Uk are great, too.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 17/09/2025 19:15

Will the person need the sort of regular care/treatment that must be carried out by a qualified nurse? If so, they need a nursing home.

If they only need what is called ‘social’ care - help with washing dressing, ‘toileting’ as they like to call it, maybe help with eating and drinking, then a residential home is called for.

People often refer to any residential care home as a ‘nursing’ home, which can often cause confusion.

wobbegong · 17/09/2025 18:52

If she is self-funding, your relatives can just ask a care home near them if they have spaces, arrange an assessment (ours was over Zoom, followed by a trial period), prove she has access to the necessary money (eg two years worth) then move her in. It is easier if she agrees to it, then you don't have to get into the capacity/ no capacity issue. Has she expressed any wishes, however muddled?

limetrees32 · 17/09/2025 18:39

This is all very helpful.
I don't want to give too many details but I'm rather piggy in the middle between the person in hospital and some relatives who do have H&W
poa .
I see from the replies here that the relatives are hoping for a nursing home because of the financial implications .
She would be self funding.
I don't think she needs nursing care.
The hospital SW thinks there is capacity but the answer to
Can they understand information about why being at home isn't safe?
Can they retain that information?
Can they weigh that information up?
is a resounding no.
The relatives don't think she has capacity . They are reluctant to act ( move her into a home) until there is an assessment confirming lack of capacity .
I assumed they can't " move her" anyway if she is deemed to have capacity.
They live some 200 miles away and hope that she can have a place near them.
Sounds as though this might complicate things.
Thank you , such helpful input from you all .

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ThePure · 17/09/2025 18:02

Iloveeverycat · 17/09/2025 18:00

My mum is in a residential unit of the care home and they still have a nurse on 24 hours. The carers don't give medication the nurses do. We were recomend that as mum was deteriorating she may benefit from going to the nursing unit but they think as she is settled there and the staff know her well they think that moving her would be too much of an upheaval for her so she is staying there.

That is presumably possible because there is a nursing unit on the same site (often care homes have a residential and a nursing wing). If they don’t have nursing (many dont as it’s expensive to employ nurses) then she would have had to move.

ThePure · 17/09/2025 18:01
  1. The discharge planning team makes an assessment of need and of finances (or determine if self funding)
  2. Care homes with vacancies then make their own assessments of whether they can meet the assessed needs before offering care. The care homes usually have their vacancies on a system (brokerage) that discharge planning can access to match vacancies to patients. Patient will not be allowed to wait in hospital for a specific care home to come up. They will have to take whatever comes up to a large degree especially if LA funded.
Iloveeverycat · 17/09/2025 18:00

ThePure · 17/09/2025 17:53

The distinction is whether a nurse is required to be on duty at all times rather than just care staff. Care staff can give meds, assist with personal care and do most stuff. Nursing needs are usually things like catheters, feeding tubes, needing hoisting, having medical needs like having seizures. Some temporary nursing needs like a wound dressing can be managed by district nurses coming into the home.

If in hospital the discharge planning team will assess with input from the ward nursing/ medical team

Were you hoping for a particular outcome?

My mum is in a residential unit of the care home and they still have a nurse on 24 hours. The carers don't give medication the nurses do. We were recomend that as mum was deteriorating she may benefit from going to the nursing unit but they think as she is settled there and the staff know her well they think that moving her would be too much of an upheaval for her so she is staying there.

ThePure · 17/09/2025 17:57

NHS continuing care funding is a whole separate issue from whether the person has nursing needs and is very rarely awarded. It will be screened for but hardly anyone gets it.

If the person has nursing needs they get a nursing contribution (FNC) but still have to pay the rest of the fees if self funding or the council pay if not self funding. The NHS would very rarely continue to pay only for terminal illness or a very high level of need much more than this sounds.

ThePure · 17/09/2025 17:53

The distinction is whether a nurse is required to be on duty at all times rather than just care staff. Care staff can give meds, assist with personal care and do most stuff. Nursing needs are usually things like catheters, feeding tubes, needing hoisting, having medical needs like having seizures. Some temporary nursing needs like a wound dressing can be managed by district nurses coming into the home.

If in hospital the discharge planning team will assess with input from the ward nursing/ medical team

Were you hoping for a particular outcome?

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