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Elderly parents

Knee replacement at 85

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Barney16 · 22/08/2025 00:26

Has anyone's parent had a knee replacement? And could you tell me what their recovery was like? My mum is determined to investigate whether a knee replacement would help her, admittedly shocking, mobility. She has a consultant appointment next week. I'm completely baffled by how her recovery could be managed. I have asked her about how we would manage and she just says she doesn't know. I suspect she thinks that I and my children would rally round. I am an only child, I work full time and live three hours away. My dad is alive but very frail. Literally every time I try to discuss it she just says she doesn't know and changes the subject.

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Barney16 · 22/08/2025 00:36

Ellmau · 22/08/2025 00:29

Could she afford a nursing home for the recovery period? My DM's friend who has no family did that after an operation. It was vastly expensive though.

Thank you for replying, I hadn't even thought of that but I will do some investigation. They could probably afford it but I suspect she will think her family should do the looking after. But I'm going to check out anywhere local to her that may offer short term stays.

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Ellmau · 22/08/2025 00:29

Could she afford a nursing home for the recovery period? My DM's friend who has no family did that after an operation. It was vastly expensive though.