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What support with transport?

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Truetoself · 21/08/2025 16:22

My elderly 86 year old frail relative (spinster) lives with my equally frail 80 year old mum. My mum is is the only one that drives but I am unsure how much longer she will be able to drive for.
Are there any funded transport options for them to get to appointments with the GP? Taxis are unfortunately too costly for them and I live too far away for short notice appointments that they usually have with the GP.

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Truetoself · 22/08/2025 09:39

Thanks for the further information

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AnnaMagnani · 22/08/2025 09:27

Giving up the car frees up a lot of money for taxis.
One or both of them may be eligible for Attendance Allowance and a Disabled Badge.
Finally most places have some form of community transport or volunteer driver scheme.

My DM gets to all her appointments with a mixture of the volunteer scheme and people from church (church has proved wonderful, almost worth all those dull Sunday mornings)

P00hsticks · 22/08/2025 09:21

Truetoself · 21/08/2025 16:29

Yes I am aware of hospital transport - hopefully it is reliable. I know on the way back from hospital you need to wait until they collect everyone but if you need to get to a specific appointment i am unsure how reliable it is

Obviously it will depend on the particular NHS trust, but both I and my DH each had to have hospital transport every weekday for over a month earlier this year to have radiotherapy treatment - we were told we shouldn't drive or use public transport as it was over a hour journey.

The service was very reliable - mostly a taxi firm and occasionally a transport ambulance or volunteer driver in their own car. Sometimes we shared with one or more other patients but often were by ourselves. We were rung either the night before or early in the morning to confirm that we still needed transport and when to expect it, and then had to report to the hospital reception when our treatment had finished and they'd arrange a return, which usually involved a wait of 1-2 hours.

OutsideInfluence · 21/08/2025 19:25

You can pre book free hospital transport
However the patient will be asked various questions to find out if they meet the eligible criteria.

The patient will also have to wait to be taken home after their appointment, which could be a wait of a few hours.

This is why getting a lift or taxi is sometimes easier for some people.

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 21/08/2025 18:56

Good advice from @Musicaltheatremum
Also my understanding is that hospital transport is more like a mini bus, they come early, pick you and many others up for first clinic, then you would have to wait till the clinics end, and everyone gets dropped off one at a time, so can be a long day!

Musicaltheatremum · 21/08/2025 18:40

Truetoself · 21/08/2025 16:29

Yes I am aware of hospital transport - hopefully it is reliable. I know on the way back from hospital you need to wait until they collect everyone but if you need to get to a specific appointment i am unsure how reliable it is

Hospital transport will usually only take you if you can't get in a normal car. They even were difficult with my 97 year old partially sighted and deaf father in law who had heart failure and couldn't walk far. If they can get in and out of a normal car then they expect someone else to take them

Running a car is expensive. Taking the odd taxi probably works out less over a year. Certainly did for my FIL and dad.

FIL set up an account with the taxi firm. Got set prices for journeys and just had a monthly bill sent to my husband who paid from his dad's account as POA.

My dad's insurance was £900 latterly.

Truetoself · 21/08/2025 18:31

Thanks all!

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OutsideInfluence · 21/08/2025 18:29

I agree with other poster
Add up cost of running a car

Insurance (will increase after age 80)
Tax
Service
MOT
Fuel
Consumerbles like new tyres, brakes
Emergency break down cover

Versus

Cost of taxis

PermanentTemporary · 21/08/2025 18:27

I agree about thinking how much they are currently spending on maintaining a car before being sure they can’t afford taxis. But I hope they will find volunteers to help.

OutsideInfluence · 21/08/2025 18:26

How far is the doctors, what about an electric mobility scooter ?

OutsideInfluence · 21/08/2025 18:21

Where I live there is a community friends & neighbours phone number that is advertised locally which people use for

Lifts to hospital or doctors
Pet sitting
Recommended action for Trades people
Local groups to join
Help with anything

Londonnight · 21/08/2025 17:54

I volunteer with a community transport in my area. We take patients to and from appointments, and that will include GP's and hospitals. We are a very reliable service.

In my parents area [ 150 miles from me ] their patient transport is nowhere near as good . They seem to be on time with collecting so the patient gets to their appointment on time, but my mum has had to wait hours to be picked up once her appointment has finished.

It very much seem to vary area by area.

Lightuptheroom · 21/08/2025 17:47

There's normally a voluntary transport scheme or a local authority transport scheme. Google their area or contact their local voluntary services

EmotionalBlackmail · 21/08/2025 17:37

There’s a community transport organisation in my area, they seem to provide transport (either minibus or in a volunteer’s car) for hospital or GP appointments or shopping trips to the local shopping centre or out of town supermarket.

mumonthehill · 21/08/2025 17:32

Go on to the community transport association website, they have a map with community transport groups you can search. Or google community transport in your area and you will find options. Most have a small fee to pay per trip. It may not meet all needs but could help.

Truetoself · 21/08/2025 17:30

taxis are OK for an occasional trip but it wouldn’t be sustainable for regular visits between them. I think they both have chronic health conditions that would be considered disabilities so I will look into attendance allowance. Thanks for that suggestion.

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DiscoBob · 21/08/2025 17:23

AnotherVice · 21/08/2025 17:00

@DiscoBob There are many truly housebound people who can’t get the doctor out to them, there just isn’t the capacity. Don’t you realise how overstretched the NHS is?!

Yeah I know. I just can't think how else to get her there. Taxi it is then I suppose.

AnotherVice · 21/08/2025 17:00

@DiscoBob There are many truly housebound people who can’t get the doctor out to them, there just isn’t the capacity. Don’t you realise how overstretched the NHS is?!

bestbefore · 21/08/2025 16:57

Agree with comments about cost of running a car vs taxis. Road tax and MOT must account for a fair few taxis!

DemonsandMosquitoes · 21/08/2025 16:55

Is it that taxis are too expensive compared to running a car, or they just don’t want to pay for them?
FIL wouldn’t have ever paid for taxis. He trawled up and down the street trying to cadge lifts off neighbours. When he passed he had over £1m assets.

Flossflower · 21/08/2025 16:49

DiscoBob · 21/08/2025 16:44

I guess you just have to say she's house bound then. It doesn't have to be permanently house bound does it? They can't call the GP's office and say she can't come in because a taxi is too expensive. So they'll have to give a medical reason else they won't get the support they need.

I think it would be very wrong to say you are housebound when you are not.
GPs can see many people in the time it takes them to travel back and forwards to someone’s house and GP appointments are in short supply.
My own mother only goes out of the house with people holding both of her arms. She is not classed as housebound.

DiscoBob · 21/08/2025 16:44

Flossflower · 21/08/2025 16:42

GPs will only do home visits for house bound people.

I guess you just have to say she's house bound then. It doesn't have to be permanently house bound does it? They can't call the GP's office and say she can't come in because a taxi is too expensive. So they'll have to give a medical reason else they won't get the support they need.

singswithitsfingers · 21/08/2025 16:44

The British Lions run this service where my parents live, in the north west.