Please or to access all these features

Elderly parents

LPA for finance- are there any banks that aren't useless?

84 replies

Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 16:56

DSis and I have financial LPA for mum. Her account is with barclays. We had to spend 1 1/2 hours in branch registering the LPA's. We were told that it was all sorted, but we can't use the app to manage her money (why??).

Basic stuff was ok but when we wanted to put some of her money in a bond, the website wouldn't let me do it. After hours on the phone, we had to go into branch again (another hour). They said the reason it hadn't worked was that they hadn't listed her town of birth.

i wanted to put some of her money in an ISA and, surprise, I can't do that online. Mum wanted to send some money to a DGC who is buying a house, and that won't go through either. They are looking at things and will probably call me, but nothing. I'm done with them.

Does anyone have any better experiences?

OP posts:
AttilaTheMeerkat · 18/08/2025 21:00

The whole LPA system needs a complete overhaul and has been oversold to the public. Many staff members in both banks and building societies still have no idea how to deal with such legal documents and there have been problems with these going back years. (I was never trained in these and was just advised to forward all questions to our Head Office).

ThatCyanSheep · 18/08/2025 20:12

And unfortunately @Isitsticky, yes the system is just broken. They introduced digital codes to try and make it better but the vast majority of banks don’t recognise them

ThatCyanSheep · 18/08/2025 20:12

Kyotoorbust · 18/08/2025 17:50

Newcastle Building Society were great
7 in person visits to HSBC to sort it

but just wait until 1 of them dies
makes trying to activate an LPA a doddle

Everyone I have notified- ’we require a certified copy of the LPA’ - me do you really as it costs £300. Them -does it really. Can you just send us an email then?

Except NS&I They wont let me invest my mothers money without a certified LPA. She has an old account. Has anyone found a way round this?

It absolutely shouldn’t be £300!!!

NoBinturongsHereMate · 18/08/2025 20:05

And I found Nationwide very good. Didn't try using the app at all though - did everything in branch.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 18/08/2025 20:04

Kyotoorbust · 18/08/2025 17:50

Newcastle Building Society were great
7 in person visits to HSBC to sort it

but just wait until 1 of them dies
makes trying to activate an LPA a doddle

Everyone I have notified- ’we require a certified copy of the LPA’ - me do you really as it costs £300. Them -does it really. Can you just send us an email then?

Except NS&I They wont let me invest my mothers money without a certified LPA. She has an old account. Has anyone found a way round this?

£300! How?!

I got a stack of copies certified for £15 (admittedly 6 or 7 years ago, so I'd expect to pay a bit more now).

Flamingfeline · 18/08/2025 18:59

Coventry and Skipton building societies have been good, with helpful people on the phone (I always go through to the power of attorney department where they are specially trained, rather than the normal service). Lloyds and Bank of Scotland actually good, and patient with me when I keep losing and muddling up the passwords.
NS and I spectacularly bad. Post Office and Virgin Money were beyond belief appalling.
i don’t think any of them allow you to use the app as power of attorney .

Fushia123 · 18/08/2025 18:47

TSB have been fine for us so far.

Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 18:37

Traveller2025 · 18/08/2025 17:58

We’ve got POA with several different banks. I’m with Barclays too so found that easy but my brother isn’t and has to go in to register which is a pain. I have to logon on a computer rather than my app but that’s ok. Yorkshire have been great. Always able to speak with someone once set up but there was quite a bit of paperwork to send rather than registering on line. Santander have been ok and was easy to log power of attorney.

I also have an account with Barclays, have done for decades, but still had to go in to register my LPA.

OP posts:
Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 18:35

So it sounds as if shit, wank and crap is the verdict for most of them, even if some lucky people have a good experience. It seems, as ThatCyanSheep says, the system isn't fit for purpose. They seem to spectacularly miss the whole point of LPAs.

OP posts:
PermanentTemporary · 18/08/2025 18:20

Not much help as Barclays have been sort of ok for me. I keep a Chromebook I otherwise hardly use especially for them. But I’ve kept Mums affairs incredibly simple because we had a terrible crunch point where she needed 3 years’ fees in cash to show to the new nursing home to be able to leave the hellhole she was in, and we didn’t have it. It got sorted out, but it’s left me extremely cautious - I run a basic current account that her pension goes into, a (rapidly shrinking) savings account with a bit of interest accruing, and that’s it. ive got a debit card which makes life pretty easy for ordering clothes and toiletries etc.

Traveller2025 · 18/08/2025 17:58

We’ve got POA with several different banks. I’m with Barclays too so found that easy but my brother isn’t and has to go in to register which is a pain. I have to logon on a computer rather than my app but that’s ok. Yorkshire have been great. Always able to speak with someone once set up but there was quite a bit of paperwork to send rather than registering on line. Santander have been ok and was easy to log power of attorney.

user1460471313 · 18/08/2025 17:52

I had to physically go into branch to sort it all out which was a huge pain. Also I cannot understand why they won’t accept the online access code like everything else. Totally archaic

Kyotoorbust · 18/08/2025 17:50

Newcastle Building Society were great
7 in person visits to HSBC to sort it

but just wait until 1 of them dies
makes trying to activate an LPA a doddle

Everyone I have notified- ’we require a certified copy of the LPA’ - me do you really as it costs £300. Them -does it really. Can you just send us an email then?

Except NS&I They wont let me invest my mothers money without a certified LPA. She has an old account. Has anyone found a way round this?

Abra1t · 18/08/2025 17:37

Barclays were just useless when my mother was dying and had died. I tried to open a third-party access on her accounts and she was long dead before it went through. The power of attorney (old style) was taking too long to be registered and I thought this might be quicker.

Then they were unhelpful when she had actually died, too, and I was trying to sort out her affairs. I don't think they understand what elderly and frail people and their families need from them.

When I was in a branch trying to sort out something after my mother died, I watched the man who'd 'advised' me rudely ask an elderly couple with obvious arthritis/limb stiffness and sight issues why they weren't using the ap instead of coming into the branch. Probably because they can't use their fingers very agilely and can barely see?

Jackreacherstrousers · 18/08/2025 17:37

Halifax was very good. Everything was done online to register the LPA and I was given a card for the account.

ThatCyanSheep · 18/08/2025 17:36

Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 17:29

Do you mean to do that for each transaction that won't go through? They already have the LPAs.

I’ve found that in most cases once you do it once, they will generally take note. But for large transactions (like gifting a large amount of money or opening new products) they will be wary

Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 17:32

limescale · 18/08/2025 17:30

I had to sort all this out with Barclays during lockdown. It nearly finished me off!
It’s still utter shite. He’s newly out of money (private funded care) so it won’t be an issue for much longer.

Well yes, there's that to "look forward to" I suppose.

OP posts:
DistractMe · 18/08/2025 17:31

HonestOpalHelper · 18/08/2025 17:28

If your mum has capacity then open a joint account, that's what I have done with mine, solves all the issues!

Sorry, but that's not good advice as you risk the account being frozen if the patent loses capacity.

limescale · 18/08/2025 17:30

I had to sort all this out with Barclays during lockdown. It nearly finished me off!
It’s still utter shite. He’s newly out of money (private funded care) so it won’t be an issue for much longer.

Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 17:29

Do you mean to do that for each transaction that won't go through? They already have the LPAs.

OP posts:
HonestOpalHelper · 18/08/2025 17:28

If your mum has capacity then open a joint account, that's what I have done with mine, solves all the issues!

ThatCyanSheep · 18/08/2025 17:23

Isitsticky · 18/08/2025 17:22

I can't be doing with all that, tbh, CyanSheep.

If you want to get some movement you’ll need to. It’s a right pain in the arse but it’s the only way they’ll listen.

ShanghaiDiva · 18/08/2025 17:22

Yes, probably all useless. Nationwide were spectacularly crap.

DistractMe · 18/08/2025 17:22

Lloyd's don't let me use the app for my Mum's accounts, which is annoying but manageable. I just have to do everything on my PC.

I'm also Court of Protection appointed Deputy for one of my children and that account is with Nat West, which I find pretty good. I personally bank with NW and all my accounts, including my son's, sit side by side on the app, which is so helpful.

swampwitch0 · 18/08/2025 17:22

Nope
Absolute shitshow

Swipe left for the next trending thread