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Advice please on selling DF's house

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Gingerpoppy · 07/01/2025 18:28

Very elderly father is about to go into residential care, he's 92 and has lived independently up until now on his own but is just unable to cope anymore.

His house is big and barely been touched for over 45 years. He's not got rid of a thing and maintenance has been minimal at best. I suppose what I'm asking help for is how 'good' do we make the house before selling it? The whole lot will be ripped out by the new owner, bathrooms, kitchen, carpets etc all will go. There's a hole in a bedroom ceiling which is full of damp, I fear we will unearth a whole load of issues if we start digging about up there. Are we better off just putting it up for auction or should we try the market first?

Is it best to clear out absolutely everything, including the old carpets or leave them down? Presumably no one wants to see his furniture in situ?

Many thanks in advance for any advice.

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Itsallgonesideways · 07/01/2025 23:32

I'd fix the damp ceiling patch because you don't want it to deteriorate further & cause more damage which would be expensive to fix. Plus, the buyers can use it to push for a much larger reduction in price than you're prepared to accept.

Gingerpoppy · 07/01/2025 22:38

Thank you so much everyone some great tips here.

When you say repairs, how far do you go? Do we bother fixing the damp ceiling patch or just leave it? Take very honest pictures presumably so that we don't waste anyone's time including ours.

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Itsallgonesideways · 07/01/2025 21:47

https://www.bhf.org.uk/shop/donating-goods/house-clearance

Clear the house first & do any repairs and then get an valuation from 3 estate agents.

Choose the middle of the three valuations and put it up for sale in the open market. This gives you room to drop the price later if required.

The house should be marketed as a doer upper and shouldn't phase people wanting to put their own mark on a house. I'd rather buy a reno project than pay premium for someone else's taste which might not work for me.

I'm buying a similar property which was previously owned by a lady for 35 years. It requires updating but this doesn't phase ne at all.

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https://www.bhf.org.uk/shop/donating-goods/house-clearance

Abra1t · 07/01/2025 21:38

I also bought (eBay secondhand/seconds good quality) White Company bedding, and folded bright throws and quilts on the bed ends to make it look more contemporary, and stashed some empty White Company/Jo Malone handwash in the bathrooms, along with white towels bought in White Company sale.

Plus some white silk hydrangeas (so wouldn’t die as I live 75 miles away) bought from Etsy for £15.

None of this cost much and I will use some of the bedding and towels myself later.
But it seemed to lift the place.

We still have some hardy plants there as well and the Christmas cactus did its thing over the season.

cestlavielife · 07/01/2025 21:25

Clear the old carpets it will look more spacious and clean

MadameMaxGoesler · 07/01/2025 21:23

I recently sold my late sister's north London, two bed garden flat as executor. She'd lived there for nearly 30 years and done nothing to it, so it was sold as a do-er upper. Loads of potential.
The advice from the estate agent was similar to @Abra1t - clear the personal clutter, but leave enough furniture to show what the rooms could accommodate.

Abra1t · 07/01/2025 19:33

We were told not to clear out all the furniture from my mother’s house but to cut it by about a third in each room and declutter and remove personal objects. Viewers like to see how the rooms could be used and beds are useful for showing size.

I tried to make it look less ‘elderly’ by removing ornaments and displaying more age-neutral glassware and pieces of pottery.

EmotionalBlackmail · 07/01/2025 19:29

House clearance to get it cleared. Don't try and sort it yourself. You can ask them to keep back anything like paperwork or photographs to go through yourself. The one we used would sell anything valuable at auction, take commission, then hand the rest over, plus recycle/charity shop what they could. But they're experts, do it really fast and aren't emotionally connected to it.

Better to sell as is, don't try and hide any problems but price sensibly, bearing in mind that renovation work is expensive at the moment. I've bought a house like this in the past and it was a fantastic opportunity to make it just as we wanted it, turning it back into the lovely family home it had been once.

Good luck!

Gingerpoppy · 07/01/2025 18:35

Twoshoesnewshoes · 07/01/2025 18:33

Probably get it cleared - a house clearance man with van will make short work of it.
I’d try the market before auction - is it in a desirable area?

Very desirable area yes

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SockFluffInTheBath · 07/01/2025 18:34

Not crossed that bridge yet. Maybe a house clearance and flick the hoover round. PILs house will be bought by a builder/ have a go hero developer so there’s no point decorating and getting new carpet.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 07/01/2025 18:33

Probably leave the carpets in though - give them a good vacuum.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 07/01/2025 18:33

Probably get it cleared - a house clearance man with van will make short work of it.
I’d try the market before auction - is it in a desirable area?

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