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My grandad completely forgot he took out a lifetime mortgage

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hobbitum · 08/11/2024 14:45

A few hours ago I didn't even know what a lifetime mortgage was and wish I didn't now!

My grandad is 90 and thought he had paid off his mortgage. He was getting annual statements that he was putting to one side and not looking at properly thinking they were just a formality.

He was informed this week a new provider was taking it over and his friend saw the letter and realised what has happened. He has made no repayments or paid off any interest for who knows how long.

My grandad doesn't remember taking this remortgage out and it now looks as if it will take his home and every penny of his when he's gone.

The more I find out the more I'm worried there is no recourse and his own awful mistake. He's devastated, completely shocked and feels a failure - I think this will seriously affect his health which is my main concern. He is of sound mind.

I don't know why I'm posting here to be honest - surely mortgage lenders should be checking in on customers like this and doing a bit more than just sending standard letters and waiting to take everything when you die? I just don't know how he could have got himself into this situation. What on Earth can I do to help?

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Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2024 17:33

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/11/2024 17:31

You can make a SAR for someone else if you can prove you have the person's permission to get the information for them. When you submit a request for someone else, the organisation will ask for proof such as: written permission from the person; or. a power of attorney document

Yes, you would need their permission, otherwise you're accessing someone's private data. Also, you dont need a "reason" for a SAR, it's a legal right. You just need to ask for it and they have to give it to you

I know you don't need a reason, but I would question the motive of people doing this to get their hands on their inheritance.

friendlycat · 08/11/2024 17:32

AKAanothername · 08/11/2024 17:30

You would be paying much more than $240k interest. You will be paying interest on the interest, this is how it can spiral if you don't pay the interest on a lifetime mortgage. First year the interest is on $300k @ 4% that's $12k, so second year the interest is on $312k and so on and so on. That's how it becomes a massive number.

This is exactly how compound interest works. It works well when you are saving and getting interest on your savings.

Conversely it works badly when you have a loan with interest.

nokidshere · 08/11/2024 17:32

I'm not sure, at first I wondered if the lenders had more responsibility to check in with customers and check the product was still suitable, especially of a certain age. Wishful thinking. At least his home is secure and guess we need to focus on that.

Even back as far as 2001 when MIL took her equity release/lifetime mortgage out she was required to have a face to face appointment with a solicitor by herself to make sure she was able to tell them it was her decision, she wasn't being coerced and she understood what she was taking on financially. It's just a mortgage in reverse and, if you don't pay any of the interest (which you aren't required to do), you simply end up paying more than the lowest rate. They can never recover more than the sale cost of the house (if it were to reach that point).

AnonymousBleep · 08/11/2024 17:31

Suzuki70 · 08/11/2024 16:56

It's not dodgy at all. When you take it out you say whether you want to pay the interest or whether you want it to roll up. If you don't want to pay £x00 a month because you're retired, you don't have to. This grandad decided he wanted to take the "free money" option.

The benefits are you can have as much equity out of your house as you like and not pay a penny back yourself. A lot of people give it to their kids as a house deposit.

That actually does make sense - thanks for explaining (and to the others who've explained!).

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/11/2024 17:31

Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2024 17:29

Is it legal to fill an SAR on someone else's behalf when it affects your own financial interests rather than that person's?

You can make a SAR for someone else if you can prove you have the person's permission to get the information for them. When you submit a request for someone else, the organisation will ask for proof such as: written permission from the person; or. a power of attorney document

Yes, you would need their permission, otherwise you're accessing someone's private data. Also, you dont need a "reason" for a SAR, it's a legal right. You just need to ask for it and they have to give it to you

SunQueen24 · 08/11/2024 17:30

OP it doesn’t really sound like he’s forgotten, more than he didn’t really appreciate the consequences of the loan?

friendlycat · 08/11/2024 17:30

Many people take out this type of financial vehicle. They are advertised every afternoon on daytime tv!

The problem comes with the realisation that taking out a loan, in this way, say for a new car or a new kitchen at the age of 70 becomes a bit of a distant memory twenty years later. Some just take out equity to supplement their state pension. Others to pay off the mortgage.

The passage of time, however, can blur the fact that the money is long gone. The kitchen is now quite old, the car in the past or the £20k used to supplement a state pension has all been spent over the years. BUT the loan is very much alive and accruing significant compound interest and the property is the security against the loan.

There is quite literally no such thing as free money, apart from say a lottery win.

In fact, you are often tied into the sale of a property alongside the equity release/financial partners if money is still left in the property as they have a significant stake and can dictate the terms of the sale.

Your Grandfather may well have allowed his mind to "forget" about the initial loan money as it for him is in the distant past. But the finance company has been reminding him regularly through the issue of financial statements that he has ignored.

He didn't also choose to discuss this with his wider family (accepting you could have been far too young to be relevant.) Hence this is all news to you.

AKAanothername · 08/11/2024 17:30

Loubilou23 · 08/11/2024 17:04

I would consider one in my position in life, house worth $1M and only one beneficiary when I die, my current mortgage on that property is $300K, instead of busting my balls to pay the $300K off in the next 5 years, I could transfer that to a lifetime mortgage and carry on paying a mortgage (the interest payment of 4% on the 300K) until I die. When I die my beneficiary will still get the $700K value in my home and the mortgage company would get their $300K back. If I didn't pay the 4% every month and I lived for 20 years that total interest amount would be $240,000 which the company would also be entitled to out of the sale of my property, which would still give the beneficiary $460K out of the sale of my home (700k-240k).

I think it's a really good idea for some people and some situations.

You would be paying much more than $240k interest. You will be paying interest on the interest, this is how it can spiral if you don't pay the interest on a lifetime mortgage. First year the interest is on $300k @ 4% that's $12k, so second year the interest is on $312k and so on and so on. That's how it becomes a massive number.

Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2024 17:30

"Because you end up giving away your entire house for a relatively small amount of money. "

Is that really a problem though. You don't need the money to buy your next house.

Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2024 17:29

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/11/2024 17:17

@hobbitum you could ask for a SAR - or fill it out on behalf of your grandad - then they have to provide you with all the data they hold on him and have sent him.

(check ICO website for more details)

Is it legal to fill an SAR on someone else's behalf when it affects your own financial interests rather than that person's?

AnonymousBleep · 08/11/2024 17:28

Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2024 16:54

What's the actual problem with it as long as done legally and ethically? An old person wants some money so they borrow on the house. They don't need to be able to pay it back because they don't have too many years left. I don't get what's wrong with it in principle unless you're an entitled child moaning about an inheritance (not that OP is).

Because you end up giving away your entire house for a relatively small amount of money. I suppose it depends if there are ways out of it, for example, whether you can pay it off at any point before it racks up too much interest.

darksideofthemoons · 08/11/2024 17:27

GhostOrchid · 08/11/2024 17:23

As I understand it, for the financial POA you don’t have to wait to lose capacity to activate it. You can delegate to your attorney if you would just prefer someone else to take over the handling over your financial affairs. Obviously, grandad would have to agree.

Edited

Yep- the moment you have POA in place you can use it to manage their finances.

I got it got it when my dad was first diagnosed with early dementia but still had enough capacity to agree to it.

Also, when it came to the time of actually using it noone asked if he had given permission for it, the fact I had POA was enough to start managing his accounts.

GhostOrchid · 08/11/2024 17:23

Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2024 16:55

Yes, but the suggestion was for now so that OP can interfere in his equity release.

As I understand it, for the financial POA you don’t have to wait to lose capacity to activate it. You can delegate to your attorney if you would just prefer someone else to take over the handling over your financial affairs. Obviously, grandad would have to agree.

Nanny0gg · 08/11/2024 17:23

hobbitum · 08/11/2024 14:52

No, sadly not. Thanks for the reply. Is it even worth trying to start making repayments of any kind, or is it a drop in the ocean now?

I just don't think he'll get over this. I'm not his carer but am his only relative really and am just thinking about how I can help him manage this.

That's Equity Release

There were no repayments to make

All he needs to find out is if there's any equity left in his house

But the money's gone somewhere...

BarbaraHoward · 08/11/2024 17:22

Loubilou23 · 08/11/2024 17:04

I would consider one in my position in life, house worth $1M and only one beneficiary when I die, my current mortgage on that property is $300K, instead of busting my balls to pay the $300K off in the next 5 years, I could transfer that to a lifetime mortgage and carry on paying a mortgage (the interest payment of 4% on the 300K) until I die. When I die my beneficiary will still get the $700K value in my home and the mortgage company would get their $300K back. If I didn't pay the 4% every month and I lived for 20 years that total interest amount would be $240,000 which the company would also be entitled to out of the sale of my property, which would still give the beneficiary $460K out of the sale of my home (700k-240k).

I think it's a really good idea for some people and some situations.

Not particularly relevant to the thread, but it's important people understand compound interest. 4% p.a. on 300k over 20 years would be 357k in interest, not 240k.

300 x 1.04^20 - 300 = 357

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 08/11/2024 17:22

The title literally says he completely forgot. I’m not saying he did or didn’t, I’m just saying that if I were her I would be making sure there’s no one else that’s had this money instead. We don’t know if there was a previously dodgy partner or other family member do we. I would certainly be getting the original documentation from the company and checking bank details and signatures.

I stand by what I said, a man of sound mind does not simply forget he’s signed his entire house over. A loan or a pension yes you forget about - this is his entire house.

hobbitum · 08/11/2024 17:22

Popular10 · 08/11/2024 17:17

I can understand the shock and not understandingit but you need to put it into context. He doesnt need to be upset and you need to do an oscar worthy job of reinforcing that it doesnt matter.

Will he loose his house... no
Will he have to pay it back... no
If there isnt enough in the estate Will you be liable.. no itll be written off.

His fibal years can be comfortable and worry free if you manage to help him see that thats all that matters. Youve sad youre not worried about an inheritance (good for you) although this is the heart of the issue. Reassure him that its not important and that all that matters is his comfort now.

Thank you, I think the main thing here is, and others have explained this too today, that rules have changed and they won't be chasing any negative equity when he's gone. This is something he would worry himself absolutely sick over so will be heading over tonight to start reassuring him of this.

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hobbitum · 08/11/2024 17:19

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/11/2024 17:17

@hobbitum you could ask for a SAR - or fill it out on behalf of your grandad - then they have to provide you with all the data they hold on him and have sent him.

(check ICO website for more details)

Thank you, that was suggested earlier too and is on my to do list.

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TwattyMcFuckFace · 08/11/2024 17:19

redskydarknight · 08/11/2024 14:52

You and other family members need to reassure him that this is perfectly ok and you wanted him to be able to enjoy his retirement years without money worries.

This ^^ 100%.

This is how you reassure him and help him.

It's his money and his home after all.

Fluffyiguana · 08/11/2024 17:18

AnonymousBleep · 08/11/2024 16:49

So a lifetime mortgage is something you can take out to get some equity release, then it just sits there accumulating interest and never being paid back until the owner of the house dies (or sells?) at which point the by now huge sum is paid for out of the estate? I'd never heard of this before and they sound incredibly dodgy! How is this legal? And what are the actual benefits of signing up for one - surely the person taking it out must be aware that they're basically signing away any chance of their kids owning their house, unless they're rich, in which case they wouldn't need a lifetime mortgage in the first place...?

It's a way for an older person to get maybe £10,000 to spend on a car or a cruise or a new kitchen.. which often ends up costing them £200,000+ of their assets.

It seems dodgy to me too!

I guess people would argue the older person got value from whatever they spent the £10,000 on and they only 'lost' their house when they died, so arguably it didn't affect them, only their descendants.

Popular10 · 08/11/2024 17:17

I can understand the shock and not understandingit but you need to put it into context. He doesnt need to be upset and you need to do an oscar worthy job of reinforcing that it doesnt matter.

Will he loose his house... no
Will he have to pay it back... no
If there isnt enough in the estate Will you be liable.. no itll be written off.

His fibal years can be comfortable and worry free if you manage to help him see that thats all that matters. Youve sad youre not worried about an inheritance (good for you) although this is the heart of the issue. Reassure him that its not important and that all that matters is his comfort now.

tiddletiddleboomboom · 08/11/2024 17:17

@hobbitum you could ask for a SAR - or fill it out on behalf of your grandad - then they have to provide you with all the data they hold on him and have sent him.

(check ICO website for more details)

Bignanna · 08/11/2024 17:17

Feelingleftoutagain · 08/11/2024 17:16

Did he take the remortgage out? Did someone else do it? Ask to see the original paperwork just to make sure, I would also question what he needed the money for as well as checking bank details of where it went

Good point- seeing he was of sound mind, it’s strange he forgot that he had taken it out!

Feelingleftoutagain · 08/11/2024 17:16

Did he take the remortgage out? Did someone else do it? Ask to see the original paperwork just to make sure, I would also question what he needed the money for as well as checking bank details of where it went

thepariscrimefiles · 08/11/2024 17:16

Loubilou23 · 08/11/2024 16:31

These companies get a really bad rep, but their interest charges are not usually huge, they are in line with any other interest on borrowing and if they have given someone $150K then they have every right to charge interest much like every other lender on every other type of money borrowed. The problem is people don't understand how they work and expect the lender to just give $150K out against the value of a home and expect them to realise that money back in 10/20 or even 30 years time without anything in it for them....

In this case, the loan provider lent £15K not £150K and the debt is now £185K. That's a lot of interest.