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Who can I get to carry my mum downstairs?

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NameChangePropertyAdvice · 10/08/2024 10:27

Mum has Alzheimer's and since falling and breaking her wrist 4 months ago has refused to use the stairs at home so she has been living upstairs. Dad lives with her and is her full time carer, with help from a care agency who come in 4 times a day.

Dad's decided - rightly I think - that they would be better living downstairs where there's a bathroom and a room they could put beds in. Social services might be able to organise mum being carried down the stairs, but it's not a certainty and could take weeks if not months to arrange. Does anybody know whether there's any other way to get mum downstairs, please?

We've already tried St John's Ambulance, Red Cross and the GP surgery. It's logistically complicated because it needs to happen on the same day that her hospital bed is moved downstairs by the company that delivered it, so moving mum needs to be something we can arrange for a specific day. If anybody has experience of this I'd be very grateful to hear from you, thanks!

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toptiersloth · 10/08/2024 11:01

Fire service?

NameChangePropertyAdvice · 10/08/2024 10:47

BabygirlTom · 10/08/2024 10:31

How large/fragile is she? Do you not have any beefy strong friends?

When my friend's mum had been bedbound for a while our friends 6ft2 weightlifter husband went round and gently baby carried her down.

I don't know anybody I could ask to do that. She's not big, but she's easily scared and I think we need somebody with an evac chair.

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namenamification · 10/08/2024 10:38

If she is more frail, then a private ambulance company. The kind that do repatriations of people injured or sick from abroad. They will also sort out logistics in U.K. usually it is facilitating a change of location (eg a house move) for someone who is bedbound, but I am sure they could do this too. (Source, my old neighbours used to run a small company doing this).

Snacksgalore · 10/08/2024 10:37

Private ambulance?

Kittylickingplate · 10/08/2024 10:36

BabygirlTom · 10/08/2024 10:31

How large/fragile is she? Do you not have any beefy strong friends?

When my friend's mum had been bedbound for a while our friends 6ft2 weightlifter husband went round and gently baby carried her down.

Goodness, that brought a tear to my eye.

BabygirlTom · 10/08/2024 10:31

How large/fragile is she? Do you not have any beefy strong friends?

When my friend's mum had been bedbound for a while our friends 6ft2 weightlifter husband went round and gently baby carried her down.

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