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Elderly parents

Why do they refuse to take their shoes off?

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SparkleFly · 09/07/2024 23:42

What is it with the older generation, that they absolutely hate taking their shoes off in people's houses? My parents are late 70's and never take theirs off, if I suggest it they look uncomfortable and just ignore me. Same with MIL who will occasionally do an awkward check of the soles of her shoes before carrying on through my house wearing them. My 4 year old has been brought up to always remove them in our house or anyone else's, so he'll occasionally ask me why nanny doesn't take hers off, which is difficult to explain, giving that the real reason is that they don't give a sh**

Seriously though, what's with the lack of respect, especially when they can see everyone else doing it.

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Charlie2121 · 09/07/2024 23:46

I wouldn’t dream of making anyone take their shoes off in my home. I don’t think it’s ever crossed my mind to even think about it until I read your post. I always think it’s a bit weird when people expect you to do it.

HcbSS · 09/07/2024 23:46

Mmhmmn · 09/07/2024 23:45

Taking shoes off and putting them on is difficult and awkward for a lot of over 70s.

This. And many feel less steady on their feet.

Mmhmmn · 09/07/2024 23:45

Taking shoes off and putting them on is difficult and awkward for a lot of over 70s.

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