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Any recommendations for meal replacement for my Mum please?

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BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 12/05/2024 16:57

I've had a quick look online and they all seem to be flavoured protein shakes that are dairy based and Mum doesn't digest milk well.

Mum is generally very independent but she has a cold/virus that has turned into a chest infection. Anti-biotics and steroids are helping but she WILL NOT eat. She's basically existing on cups of tea, black because she doesn't drink milk.

I know I'm inviting opprobrium from MN by saying anything at all negative about an elderly person, but she is fiercely independent when she is in good health and an oppositional, uncooperative, martyred, pain in the neck when she's ill. So anything that I buy for her to encourage her to eat has to be really tasty because she's not going to push herself to try it just because I am gently encouraging her to. In fact, I might get better results by just leaving some on her kitchen counter-top without mentioning that it's there.

So, is there anything that you have had when recuperating and lacking appetite or that you have bought for an elderly relative/friend that went down well?

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NoBinturongsHereMate · 12/05/2024 18:20

Absurdgiraffe · 12/05/2024 17:55

Those Alpro pots are nice. Not a proper meal replacement, but some calories at least.

Similarly, the Coconut Collab chocolate pots and salted caramel pots. And they are tiny, so might feel more manageable. https://coconutco.co.uk/products/little-chocolate-pot

Chocolate Little Pots

What WE say: Little pots of rich chocolate ganache! What YOU say: “Little pots of chocolate heaven. Yes, the pots are small, but the contents are so good! They give a great chocolate hit, but without a huge calorie hit…you cannot detect coconut at all....

https://coconutco.co.uk/products/little-chocolate-pot

CadyEastman · 12/05/2024 18:20

*would

CadyEastman · 12/05/2024 18:19

Woukd she eat a bowl of jelly and some tinned fruit in a nice China bowl? Sometimes things from childhood can tempt them?

Swedish Glace do a DF icecream, maybe add a scoop of that?

NoBinturongsHereMate · 12/05/2024 18:16

Fortisip is milk based.

everythingisgoingup · 12/05/2024 18:11

Fortisip

Bumblebeeinatree · 12/05/2024 18:10

How old is she?

Wiglio · 12/05/2024 18:07

Ensure is lactose free, supplements are available on prescription

QuestionableMouse · 12/05/2024 18:03

YFood are lactose free and have vegan drinks. I really like them - they taste like milkshakes.

Bumblebeeinatree · 12/05/2024 18:01

Chopped up mixed fruit (might put cream on it). Porridge. Baked potatoes. What did she like before? If it was curry or spag bog, pizza try that. If I'm unwell I just want things I like not things I should have.

MumofSpud · 12/05/2024 17:55

My dad has esure drinks (but not before a meal time as it fills him up too much!)
And he has been having creamy puddings / rice puddings

EmotionalBlackmail · 12/05/2024 17:49

Glucose C. It's powder you add to hot drinks or cereal for energy. It's not as sweet as sugar. It's great for getting over that hump after illness when you have no energy to do anything including eat!

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 12/05/2024 17:47

She has fruit and stuff, she just won't eat. I've been going in to her and making lunch but she doesn't eat it. She says she will but when I phone later to ask what she is having for dinner she will say that she's going to eat the lunch, but then I don't think she does. She would definitely sneer at anything new like fake milk and she doesn't eat cereal. In fact, considering how much she complains about 'fussiness' in other people (eg not wanting to eat coleslaw over a week out of date), she is very hard to buy food for.

I see that Ensure do a juice bottle, it has why protein in it but no lactose so it might be ok for her. It's only 200ml so she might go for that.

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NoBinturongsHereMate · 12/05/2024 17:47

All Huel products are dairy free, and they have a range of different types of drinks, meals, and chocolate snack bars.

Froniga · 12/05/2024 17:33

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 12/05/2024 16:57

I've had a quick look online and they all seem to be flavoured protein shakes that are dairy based and Mum doesn't digest milk well.

Mum is generally very independent but she has a cold/virus that has turned into a chest infection. Anti-biotics and steroids are helping but she WILL NOT eat. She's basically existing on cups of tea, black because she doesn't drink milk.

I know I'm inviting opprobrium from MN by saying anything at all negative about an elderly person, but she is fiercely independent when she is in good health and an oppositional, uncooperative, martyred, pain in the neck when she's ill. So anything that I buy for her to encourage her to eat has to be really tasty because she's not going to push herself to try it just because I am gently encouraging her to. In fact, I might get better results by just leaving some on her kitchen counter-top without mentioning that it's there.

So, is there anything that you have had when recuperating and lacking appetite or that you have bought for an elderly relative/friend that went down well?

Maybe you get a milk alternative. I’ve been taking Alpro Oat Barista style. It’s delicious. Would she take some cereal with that instead of milk. Or what about making a shake with it. Add some fresh fruit or buy a protein shake mix. Or maybe she’d eat some stewed fruit. Finally ask GP for advice.
Hope you find something to tempt her.

Diversion · 12/05/2024 17:00

Ensure do make a vegan/plant based meal replacement drink. You can buy it on Amazon, not cheap, but worth it if your Mum will drink it.

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 12/05/2024 16:59

I've already suggested soup, which is something that I love when I don't really want to properly eat. Apparently, she never eats soup, like never in her whole life, and she's definitely not doing that now. (She has, obviously, we had lots of really delicious soup when I was a child that she made from scratch.)

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