Hi, wondering if anyone here has any experience or knowledge of the following. My Mum is currently really struggling. She has Parkinson's and dementia and has started having bladder issues. She says she wants to go to the toilet then can't go, then wants to go 10 minutes later. She also sometimes wets herself and doesn't realise it has happened until she feels that she is wet. We have got her incontinence pants but she is stressed and anxious all the time. She lives in a house with the only bathroom upstairs and can't get there very quickly or unaided, she struggles with stairs and undressing so needs my Dad with her all the time. This is exhausting for them both and completely fills their day. There is no capacity to build a downstairs toilet and no private place for a commode. We are currently waiting for a bladder & bowel referral. Does anyone have any idea what her options may be? I don't think she will be a candidate for physio due to her dementia (struggles with simple exercise and has no concept of pelvic floor muscles) and is already on many medications. We don't really want her living upstairs permanently, it's not really possible as it means my Dad will need to be running up and down all day. Her GP has suggested a care home but surely they can't offer a 1 to 1 service where someone runs around after her all day? What do people do in this situation?