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I wouldn’t have missed it for the world

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MereDintofPandiculation · 12/01/2024 10:30

Lady on the experience of caring for her demented father.

I can only imagine that things are different when a) you are sharing the duties equally with two others b) you are relieved after 18months

I wouldn’t have missed it for the world

‘I wouldn’t have missed it for the world’: 10 things I learned when my father had dementia

As his condition grew worse, I cared for him for 18 months. Amid the grief and pain, there were moments of explosive laughter – and unexpected pride

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/08/i-wouldnt-have-missed-it-for-the-world-10-things-i-learned-when-my-father-had-dementia

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popularinthe80s · 12/01/2024 12:05

Absolutely, @MereDintofPandiculation
It's fascinating what experience does to you
A year ago, I would have read that article and simply thought 'What a kind daughter and what a difficult situation'
Now, I see the privilege.