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Whattheheckcarer · 17/12/2023 22:15

We are having a problem finding live-in carers - could anyone please recommend?

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NancyJoan · 19/12/2023 23:07

Vanguard Care has some great carers. I think they all struggle to keep good staff though.

MoreHairyThanScary · 19/12/2023 23:04

In our area some of the local agencies will also offer live in care, your council website will have information on agencies available locally.

ItsAllSoBleak · 19/12/2023 22:27

Thing is, the number of people willing to be live in carers is quite low. It can be a tough and isolating job, and doesn't work for people who have families of their own.

Then it's also very competitive to get a good live in carer. My DM started out by putting an ad in The Lady - but all her subsequent jobs came by word of mouth

I think your first sentence should read the number of qualified and good people willing to be live in carers is quite low. There are in fact lots of people willing to do it who are unqualified and desperate.

You have to be very careful if you are recruiting yourself because there are a sector of people who see it as a way to get free accomodation, no bills and food paid for. As you an imagine this sector is not people who have a lot of financial choice or see caring as a vocation.

I placed an advert and had lots of replies but lots of them were people who were unqualified. There were a lot of foreign nationals (especially from Nigeria it seemed - not joking!) with no experience and no evidence of a right to work - with African addresses and phone numbers who were looking for some kind of visa I think. There were people who lived abroad and funded their life by coming to the UK to live in care for a few months at a time. It was extraordinary really.

Many people I have spoken to have said they found good people by using agencies and when they found a good person making them an offer to hire them directly. So if an agency is charging £50 an hour and the poor worker is getting £10.42 an hour, if you say to the worker come and work for me for £15 an hour, its a win win except for the agency. most of them have penalties for hiring staff (stealing their employees as they see it) directly but lots of people do it on the hush hush. You do need to make sure the worker is insured though or if you are formally employing them that is all dealt with correctly.

AnnaMagnani · 19/12/2023 21:20

Thing is, the number of people willing to be live in carers is quite low. It can be a tough and isolating job, and doesn't work for people who have families of their own.

Then it's also very competitive to get a good live in carer. My DM started out by putting an ad in The Lady - but all her subsequent jobs came by word of mouth. And she could afford to be very picky about where she worked - a nice house with an annexe was a minimum.

BluebellsForest · 19/12/2023 20:35

It's Live In Carers UK.

Live-in carers
BluebellsForest · 19/12/2023 20:32

From experience, it's a nightmare and a lottery. I wouldn't recommend any of the agencies we used, in fact I'd warn against them. There's a Facebook group where you can find self-employee live in carers (I'll try to find it) but you'll only have your own judgement on whether they are trustworthy. However I didn't find the agencies filtered out the unsafe, heavy drinkers, unwell people anyway. They just charge huge fees.

Whattheheckcarer · 19/12/2023 20:04

HappyHamsters · 19/12/2023 20:02

HomeInstead or The Lady. Which area, someone might have personal experience

Had some pretty dodgy conversations with some people from The Lady - people saying they'd never been asked to get DBS checked before etc.

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HappyHamsters · 19/12/2023 20:02

HomeInstead or The Lady. Which area, someone might have personal experience

Whattheheckcarer · 19/12/2023 19:54

yikesanotherbooboo · 18/12/2023 23:21

If it is just cooking cleaning company etc there are agencies such as Country Cousins that can help.

Thanks for allnthe replies. Companies like Country Cousins have some terrible reviews though Confused

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yikesanotherbooboo · 18/12/2023 23:21

If it is just cooking cleaning company etc there are agencies such as Country Cousins that can help.

yikesanotherbooboo · 18/12/2023 23:19

We rang round the private agencies. That way there were references. We only had one at a time so DH had to be there overnight as, obviously, the carers need to sleep. Christmas week was difficult. Eventually care was provided so we had to go with the Social services recommended agencies. At the time we didn't know how long the situation would go on so felt we couldn't continue to pay out of pocket . As it turned out it would easily have been covered by the value of the house and we would have had a little more control if we had been paying privately. All the carers were kind but they were a bit of a mixed bag in terms of skills. They were not very well treated by the agency although we tried our best in a stressful situation eg with a car , TV, shopping, Netflix etc.
A family member has had to cover the cost of two for their elderly parents which has come close to the value of their house .

TheShellBeach · 18/12/2023 18:12

The Lady is the place to look.
Put your own advert in.

binkie163 · 18/12/2023 18:09

I have a friend who advertises in The Lady magazine with lots of others. She lives in doing respite, covers family holidays etc she travels all over England. Worth a look x

24hourday · 18/12/2023 09:34

Have you contacted any of the live-in care agencies?

AnnaMagnani · 18/12/2023 09:33

Live in carers are hard to find fullstop.

nervesonnerves · 18/12/2023 09:26

what area are you in?