Hi
looking for some advice. My mother has been sick for a long time and this year has really went downhill. After a 7 week stay in hospital she was discharged with carers 4 times per day. Huge relief to me that care was coming in as she was not managing and I was struggling so much to keep on top of everything. Her house was infested with flies, poo on the floor, mouldy cups everywhere. It was a bad state of affairs.
Lots if back story but my issue is now she is refusing to allow the carers into her home. She barricades the door shut so they can’t let themselves in and shouts at them to f@@@ off. They still attend but never gain entry. Her house is back to all levels of disgusting and I’m so worried medical help couldn’t get into her flat if needed. She is wheelchair bound and fell out of it the other day and instead of pulling her help cord she pulled herself into the hallway and made the other elderly residents (sheltered accom) lift her up.
i am wondering what happens when they condition of someone getting home is that they accept carers but when they get home they refuse access? Has anyone ever been in this situation?
thanks