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Person going into care home thinks they have avoided selling their house to pay fees?

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LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 19:59

A distant relative has just sadly gone into care (dementia). He is not married but has a long-term partner with whom he has two adult children.

His family seem to think he won't have to sell his property to pay for the fees because "he has put his house in his son's name". I'm trying to think what this means and surely if it were that simple everyone would do it?

Are they misunderstanding the system? Or how could they have achieved this? They are in England.

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MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 10:03

I think 7 years must elapse before the house is no longer considered for care home fees. I also think there were some new rules whereby the people in whose name the house was put must pay rent to the previous owner and show that they have paid rent. No, this is a widespread misapprehension. What you are talking about is removing the house from liability for inheritance tax. It has absolutely no relevance to care home fees. There is no time limit on how far back the LA can go in assessing deprivation of assets.

I do think it is unfair when nearly all of a house's value can be taken to pay for care fees. I think it would be much fairer if every property over a certain value was liable for a small percentage to be be paid into a government account ring-fenced exclusively for care fees. Political football. This has been suggested, as was a scheme where everyone of retirement age paid into insurance for care. One was labelled “death tax” and kicked out, the other “dementia tax” and kicked out.

@Daisychainreactions See above. What you’re talking about is IHT. It doesn’t apply to care.

countrygirl99 · 15/08/2023 09:55

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 09:52

The way round that is increase inheritance tax for everyone, not take everything from a random sample of 1 in 5 (those needing care) and leave everyone else untouched.

I'd be fully in favour of that but which party would dare suggest it. Quickest way to electoral annihilation.

BorgQueen · 15/08/2023 09:53

God the misinformation on this thread.
They don’t put a bloody charge on the house if a spouse or dependant adult live there.
It is completely disregarded.
Get your facts right before commenting.

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 09:52

countrygirl99 · 14/08/2023 11:54

You do realise a lot of people work hard but for low wages that mean they don't build up.assets. Those carers, for example, will need to pay more tax so you can have a lot of money when you are dead.

The way round that is increase inheritance tax for everyone, not take everything from a random sample of 1 in 5 (those needing care) and leave everyone else untouched.

MereDintofPandiculation · 15/08/2023 09:50

angstridden2 · 14/08/2023 11:49

I’m sure greater minds than mine have considered this, but to overcome the regional difference in house prices could a percentage of its value be used as the cap rather than a flat amount. Tbh it’s academic though as Boris’s oven ready idea has been kicked into the long grass and I expect it won’t reappear for a long time regardless of who is in power. I do feel a bit aggrieved that having worked hard all our lives my children could only be left with £23,500 between them.

Someone mentioned the other day that their care fees were capped at 22.5 per cent of their house value. So one country makes it work

Ohpleeeease · 14/08/2023 20:19

JaukiVexnoydi · 14/08/2023 19:25

The property isn't disregarded but it doesn't have to be sold. The LA will put a "charge" onto the deeds of a property which is owned by someone receiving care home accommodation but where the house is still occupied by a partner. Nothing happens until the surviving partner dies or requires care themselves, or the property is sold. By co-owning with a member of the next generation the charge could be deferred for longer - interest would accrue but usually the interest rate is less than house price inflation - but would still be due eventually.

The property is disregarded if a partner lives there. It doesn’t form part of the financial assessment.

Marylou62 · 14/08/2023 19:56

LexCake · 13/08/2023 18:12

This is one of the best posts on this thread, in my view. I’m bracing myself for the fact that my parents could similarly use all of their assets (which are modest) to pay for care, not that there is any indication yet that they need it. So your sensible words hit home with me.

By contrast, slightly shocked at the number of people who seem intent on dodging the system, when “getting away with it” means cheating the public purse and consigning a loved one to the poorest level of care.

Thank you for your support...
Fortunately we worked with social services so when Mum's half a million pounds is gone she'll be able to stay there.. she's physically well so she could be in her secure dementia unit for a long time...
Out Dad died after a very long illness and we were very sad but we are all devastated by what is happening to our wonderful Mum.. knowing how safe and well cared for she is has softened me and my siblings 'loss' of our inheritance..
I'm not surprised tho by a lot of these comments..not many made by people who 'deprived' themselves of assets and regret it or indeed any on adult children who've spent their parents money and now realise the care those parents are getting..
It's easy to say 'I'd never pay that' ..'I want my kids to inherit ' etc ..but when you're actually faced with it...well.. it's very different...

JaukiVexnoydi · 14/08/2023 19:25

AnneElliott · 14/08/2023 19:18

I thought the property was disregarded if a partner lived there? So it might not be the fact that the son bows owns it that means it's 'safe' but because the partner legitimately lives there?

The property isn't disregarded but it doesn't have to be sold. The LA will put a "charge" onto the deeds of a property which is owned by someone receiving care home accommodation but where the house is still occupied by a partner. Nothing happens until the surviving partner dies or requires care themselves, or the property is sold. By co-owning with a member of the next generation the charge could be deferred for longer - interest would accrue but usually the interest rate is less than house price inflation - but would still be due eventually.

AnneElliott · 14/08/2023 19:18

I thought the property was disregarded if a partner lived there? So it might not be the fact that the son bows owns it that means it's 'safe' but because the partner legitimately lives there?

JaukiVexnoydi · 14/08/2023 19:13

Baconisdelicious · 14/08/2023 19:08

But what happens if you sell your house to pay for a care home and the money runs out ? at 7k a month, if a person stays there for 3 years that's £252k, so when the money has gone who pays that 7k a month or are you moved to a council run care home ?

You will be subject to funding rules. LA will pay what it will pay. Care home accepts it, the family makes up the difference or you find somewhere cheaper.

Some care homes are run on a basis that if you have been self-funding for a specified minimum duration, then they guarantee not to turf you out if the money runs out even if they would normally require higher fees and don't accept "new" residents without topup. My grandmother chose a place to move into when the time came specifically for that important feature.

Baconisdelicious · 14/08/2023 19:08

But what happens if you sell your house to pay for a care home and the money runs out ? at 7k a month, if a person stays there for 3 years that's £252k, so when the money has gone who pays that 7k a month or are you moved to a council run care home ?

You will be subject to funding rules. LA will pay what it will pay. Care home accepts it, the family makes up the difference or you find somewhere cheaper.

Marylou62 · 14/08/2023 18:56

Redrunnynose · 13/08/2023 21:07

But what happens if you sell your house to pay for a care home and the money runs out ? at 7k a month, if a person stays there for 3 years that's £252k, so when the money has gone who pays that 7k a month or are you moved to a council run care home ?

As we worked with social services a place was found in a home where she can stay when her half a million has gone..she has Alzheimer's but is physically well...so that will only last 6 years ish...if we'd found the home by ourselves she'd have been asked to leave..

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 18:56

Peeeas · 14/08/2023 18:44

The house remains within the estate for iht in this case (gift with reservation), but of course it's still potentially useful if the main object is to get assets to DC early (assuming tax implications are fully understood).

I didn't discuss the tax implications with them. They just told me that they had set up a trust with both their DC being the trustees.

Peeeas · 14/08/2023 18:44

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:57

Yes, that is what my cousin and his wife have done. You have to make sure everything is watertight, so you can't get turfed out on a whim or if the children get a 'dodgy' partner who insists the parents need to kicked out to free up some assets.

The house remains within the estate for iht in this case (gift with reservation), but of course it's still potentially useful if the main object is to get assets to DC early (assuming tax implications are fully understood).

Peeeas · 14/08/2023 18:41

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:13

Please correct me if I am wrong here, but as I understand it when a home is put in trust, the land registry details don't change until the owner of the house dies. When they die, the trust then kicks in.

If you settle assets on a lifetime trust, then you no longer own that asset and the land registry should be updated. If you provide for a will trust of the house, that trust doesn't come into effect until the will comes into effect (i.e. death of the testator). So it depends on approach. The tax consequences will generally be quite different between those two examples.

SequentialAnalyst · 14/08/2023 18:31

*allowance, not threshold

SequentialAnalyst · 14/08/2023 18:30

I think in the case I refer to, the money for care won't be needed for long.

Re: assets. If I have money of my own, say in equities, I am the one who decides what to happen to those equities. If they are in my name, and a Capital Gains Tax bill arises, then it's me and only me that pays it. And with only 1 CGT threshold available.

If they are held jointly, then the other person's CGT threshold can also be used.

Vijia · 14/08/2023 18:09

Unfortunately, if you have dementia or other debilitating care/ support needs and you cannot remain in your home because no one is willing or able to give you the 24/7 care necessary, your LPA can make a financial/ welfare decision to remove you from the home if it's deemed in your best interests.

So many issues with these sorts of restrictions.

They can also sell your home if they want to and what then?

Unfortunately there are crooked lawyers and crooked family members and if you don't have mental capacity anymore your wishes may be over ruled.

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:57

CatsnCoffee · 14/08/2023 03:21

DH and I want to give our house to our DC so they have assets when they come to apply for a mortgage in the future. We’ve been advised that a clause will be written into the agreement to give us home in the house as long as we’re alive.

Yes, that is what my cousin and his wife have done. You have to make sure everything is watertight, so you can't get turfed out on a whim or if the children get a 'dodgy' partner who insists the parents need to kicked out to free up some assets.

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:54

MoralOrLegal · 13/08/2023 23:10

@Sisterpita Yes, that all makes a lot of sense. I have always known that care-home fees are very high for that reason. My dad is looked after well. He had around five good years of living in a lovely place round the corner from us (at his choice) and seeing his grandchildren at a crucial stage of their development, before he sadly became confused and unable to recognise anyone (some six years ago). I don't begrudge the fees (from selling his home) for that.

(If I'm honest I feel that my dad isn't really "there" any more, just his body, and I do sometimes now feel frustrated about the financial situation, but that's probably a different thread.)

I can relate to that. My DM lived with me and my two young children for a year when she became too poorly to live on her own. She gradually deteriorated and because of my circumstances, I was unable to have her here with me any longer as it wasn't fair on the children - open plan house with DM sleeping in the dining part of my small kitchen/diner and then having to be hoisted into the living room and put a commode four times a day by the carers. Not ideal for the children and certainly no dignity for her.

It broke my heart when she went into a care home and that was when I did all my grieving because I felt I had lost her. She became hypoxic because she wouldn't keep her nasal canula in (COPD) which meant she was very confused. She sadly passed two years later.

SheilaFentiman · 14/08/2023 17:39

“People make such a fuss about inheritance tax (even when the vast majority of estates are not valuable enough to attract inheritance tax)”

The need to make care home payments will nudge a number of estates out of IHT.

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:26

Mygirlruby · 13/08/2023 21:23

Not everyone who needs care ends up going into a care home - if you need carers to come into your own home (which is a far better option for many people) you still have to pay for it. Might be pensions, savings or releasing equity. Whatever, people who need care will have to pay somehow and there are not going to be enough younger people of working age to pay massive taxes to foot the costs.

If you own your home and have a low income and not very much in savings, the local council pay for any carers that come in. I believe they can provide up to four double ups (two people at a time) every day. If the care needs are more than that, then that is when the service user would go into a care home or move in with relatives. Or they could stay in their own home and release some equity to pay for their care. At that point they would have to fund all their care because the financial assessment would show they had plenty of money because they released some equity.

BooneyBeautiful · 14/08/2023 17:13

Badbadbunny · 13/08/2023 20:13

Land registry records are a matter of public record, and the LA can have access to stamp duty records. They also have council tax records, voting register records, etc., again going back years/decades. It's not that hard to find out if someone previously owned a house and any ownership changes of the house a person lived in immediately before going into a home. It's basically an hour (or less) of a council officer's time to get the full picture of the house ownership over time, and the person's history of house ownerships.

Please correct me if I am wrong here, but as I understand it when a home is put in trust, the land registry details don't change until the owner of the house dies. When they die, the trust then kicks in.

BorgQueen · 14/08/2023 17:06

That should say Monetary gifts AND other assets.

BorgQueen · 14/08/2023 17:05

7 years has NOTHING to do with deprivation of assets. They can go back 20 years or more if they are suspicious.

7 years is for monetary gifts to drop out of someone’s Estate for Inheritance Tax.

STOP conflating the two.