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Person going into care home thinks they have avoided selling their house to pay fees?

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LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 19:59

A distant relative has just sadly gone into care (dementia). He is not married but has a long-term partner with whom he has two adult children.

His family seem to think he won't have to sell his property to pay for the fees because "he has put his house in his son's name". I'm trying to think what this means and surely if it were that simple everyone would do it?

Are they misunderstanding the system? Or how could they have achieved this? They are in England.

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bluejelly · 11/08/2023 21:45

Exactly! I want my parents to have the best care they can afford, even if it means I won't inherit a bean.

Tiespin · 11/08/2023 21:45

I think it would be mad to give away your biggest finiancial asset to your child. What if the son or daughter evicted the parent once they owned the property? What if the child got a divorce and the ex spouse claimed half? Mad.

Custardslices · 11/08/2023 21:44

@Marylou62 jeez that's 7 grand a month I'd expect more than a bit if plonk with my dinners.

AldiPaldi · 11/08/2023 21:44

NotImpressedByYourBragging · 11/08/2023 21:10

My husband and I are seeing a financial advisor soon, with the idea of signing our house over to a family trust - we're in our early 60s, no health problems as such, but want to avoid our AC having to sell our home to pay for care fees, in the future.

My uncle did this then had no say in the care home he went to, he lost all control and agency. He railed against it and moaned but it was his choice, he gave away the control over his own life!

Marylou62 · 11/08/2023 21:37

What I don't understand is..(and my own wonderful Mum has been in a care home for a year) is that if they have no money then they'll go to a local authority care home where the standards/outings/daily activities etc might not be as good..(I'm trying to be very careful here and I totally understand these council run homes are doing their best with the funding they receive.. and I have worked myself in a few..) but my mum's home is private and she pays £1750 a week and I can see where the money goes.. from the food to the personal laundry...to the cinema room to the hairdresser..it smells nice and is clean. Wine with every meal if the residents want.. beautiful gardens..
What I'm getting at is that some people don't want their 'hard earned money being taken by the government' but are then horrified when they end up in a home that smells of pee and cabbages! Or if they are too far gone in their dementia/Alzheimer's journey their family is horrified..
When we as a family realized that our wonderful mother was going to need this type of secure unit care we were grateful that she had a house to sell to pay for it... even tho they'll be nothing for us to inherit after our parents told us all our lives that we'd be alright when they went.. knowing that our DM has the best care money can buy has enabled all of us to come to terms with 'losing' a life changing sum of money..

savingmysanity · 11/08/2023 21:37

People tend to think this is a very clever way to "get round the system", what it means is you end up in a council funded care home. This does not necessarily equate to a home where the care itself is any less however if you are used to a certain level of living it may not live up to your expectations. I would not recommend it.
Each local authority take a different approach to the financial assessment process although all work to a similar framework, some take a harder line than others. They can look back as far as they like.

MetalFences · 11/08/2023 21:36

NotImpressedByYourBragging · 11/08/2023 21:10

My husband and I are seeing a financial advisor soon, with the idea of signing our house over to a family trust - we're in our early 60s, no health problems as such, but want to avoid our AC having to sell our home to pay for care fees, in the future.

You must be mad. Honestly, I can't think of anything more frightening than losing control of your own life like that.

Of all the things to not want to spend your money on! Why don't you sell up and go and live under a bridge down by the docks right now? That would be another saving.

WeWereInParis · 11/08/2023 21:35

NotImpressedByYourBragging · 11/08/2023 21:10

My husband and I are seeing a financial advisor soon, with the idea of signing our house over to a family trust - we're in our early 60s, no health problems as such, but want to avoid our AC having to sell our home to pay for care fees, in the future.

I'd much rather my parents could afford decent care than I inherited the house.

flotsomandjetsome · 11/08/2023 21:35

DM (who owns a house with DF) is in a care home.

When the financial assessment is done all DMs assets are taken into account, and as long as DF is living in the house it's value is excluded from the financial assessment. So as DMs assets are under £23,500 she receives funding.

Should DM outlive DF and house therefore be empty, another financial assessment would be done and DMs half of the house would be taken into account, so she then have to pay for her care until her money ran out.

As others have said giving a house to a child would be seen as a deprivation of assets, and it doesn't sound like the relatives partner jointly owns the property, so them continuing to live there shouldn't exclude it from the assessment.

Seems a bit fishy to me - but it's their lookout

RosaKim · 11/08/2023 21:31

applesandmares · 11/08/2023 21:25

Does anyone know anyone personally who has been found to have intentionally deprived assets? Because I see it come up a lot on here and whilst I know of a few people who have gifted homes (mainly to avoid the inheritance tax) I don't know anyone who has been found to have intentionally deprived!

Yes I’m a lawyer and in my line of work I see it ALL the time, not to mention children with power of attorney being taken to court by the OPG for similar behaviour. Most of them thought they’d get away with it - they don’t.

Silvers11 · 11/08/2023 21:27

Silvers11 · 11/08/2023 21:24

If the house is now in the sons name, I believe he's right; they can't make the son sell the house BUT.....

If the LA decide that the elderly man now needs to be in a home, they can investigate as far back as necessary and if they decide that he deliberately deprived himself of his assets IN ORDER to not have to sell the house to pay for his care, then they can refuse to make any payment at all towards the care home costs, until they deem that the money which he should have received from the sale of the house ( or deemed to be what it would have been if he didn't actually sell it) has been used up to the savings level when you don't need to pay

So someone is going to have to pay those costs if the LA won't

However, the first thing to note is the reason for the home 'being put' in the sons name. IF there was a different good reason for doing that, then the LA may very well decide that it was an acceptable reason and still pay the care home fees. ( There is case law about this aspect and there CAN be good reasons)

Secondly, as others have said, how long ago was this done? The LA will look at all the circumstances surrounding the handing the house over to the son when making a decision. If it was done when your relative was perfectly fit and healthy at the time, and the reason it was done makes sense AND it was a number of years ago, then it may all be fine. If done after he was already unwell and it looked like he might need to go into a care home, they will probably decide that it was a deliberate attempt to avoid paying and they will act accordingly....

I should have said above that I was referring to Scottish Law

Escapefromhell · 11/08/2023 21:26

You really don’t want to end up in the council care home if you can possibly avoid it. They are beyond awful from what I saw as an OT. Surely paying for a home of your choice is one of the reasons why people save up?

applesandmares · 11/08/2023 21:25

Does anyone know anyone personally who has been found to have intentionally deprived assets? Because I see it come up a lot on here and whilst I know of a few people who have gifted homes (mainly to avoid the inheritance tax) I don't know anyone who has been found to have intentionally deprived!

AInightingale · 11/08/2023 21:24

I'm in Northern Ireland, not sure about English rules, but surely if his partner lives permanently in this house it cannot be considered an asset? If she is over sixty or disabled the house cannot be sold to fund care. This was the situation with my uncle and aunt. They were married but I think it also applies to common law partners.

Silvers11 · 11/08/2023 21:24

If the house is now in the sons name, I believe he's right; they can't make the son sell the house BUT.....

If the LA decide that the elderly man now needs to be in a home, they can investigate as far back as necessary and if they decide that he deliberately deprived himself of his assets IN ORDER to not have to sell the house to pay for his care, then they can refuse to make any payment at all towards the care home costs, until they deem that the money which he should have received from the sale of the house ( or deemed to be what it would have been if he didn't actually sell it) has been used up to the savings level when you don't need to pay

So someone is going to have to pay those costs if the LA won't

However, the first thing to note is the reason for the home 'being put' in the sons name. IF there was a different good reason for doing that, then the LA may very well decide that it was an acceptable reason and still pay the care home fees. ( There is case law about this aspect and there CAN be good reasons)

Secondly, as others have said, how long ago was this done? The LA will look at all the circumstances surrounding the handing the house over to the son when making a decision. If it was done when your relative was perfectly fit and healthy at the time, and the reason it was done makes sense AND it was a number of years ago, then it may all be fine. If done after he was already unwell and it looked like he might need to go into a care home, they will probably decide that it was a deliberate attempt to avoid paying and they will act accordingly....

Meredusoleil · 11/08/2023 21:24

My father did exactly this with my brother. And they got away with it too!

Dacadactyl · 11/08/2023 21:15

NotImpressedByYourBragging · 11/08/2023 21:10

My husband and I are seeing a financial advisor soon, with the idea of signing our house over to a family trust - we're in our early 60s, no health problems as such, but want to avoid our AC having to sell our home to pay for care fees, in the future.

Are you not worried you'll end up in a bare minimum council funded care home?! My nan was in one of them cos she had no assets and it was SHIT.

Hoppinggreen · 11/08/2023 21:12

Some people may get away with it but it’s impossible to say whether you would have. My Mum looked into it and her Solicitor warned her not to as it might not work.
He said that there are lots of firms who claim they can help you to avoid care none fees but they mostly can’t and if the LA comes after anyone it won’t be those firms.
Its not a good idea

NotImpressedByYourBragging · 11/08/2023 21:10

My husband and I are seeing a financial advisor soon, with the idea of signing our house over to a family trust - we're in our early 60s, no health problems as such, but want to avoid our AC having to sell our home to pay for care fees, in the future.

LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 21:07

Yes. But do all Local Authorities?

If he actually sold his house to his son and the son has the deeds then I guess that's that. But then he'd have a lot of cash in the bank?

I suspect that's not what they actually mean though. His partner is in a precarious position because she has no financial interest in the house (toxic relationship) but I don't believe that means the house won't have to be sold.

I'm interested because this is a distant relative but my Mum is now selling her house to pay care home fees. I'm fine with that actually - who else is going to pay? the country is broke. I do think the threshold should be considerably higher than £23,500 but that's for another thread.

However, me and my brother (who will inherit anything left from her estate if she dies before it is all spent) are fairly on top of the law around all this (or so I thought) and if it were possible to do what this other relative claims to have done then either his, mine or my Mum's financial advisors would have have advised us to do so.

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Mumoftwoinprimary · 11/08/2023 21:06

LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 20:53

To those who think the LA will always find out - is that a bit hit and miss depending on LA (as with school place fraud) or absolutely 100% guaranteed? Would it be possible to hide/disguise it in any way?

The local authority will be far more motivated in saving themselves several hundred thousand pounds than they will in ensuring that the right tiger mum’s child gets a place at an oversubscribed secondary school.

Merapi · 11/08/2023 20:58

It depends when (and how) it was done. The only way to find out is to look at the paperwork, and get legal advice.

Hoppinggreen · 11/08/2023 20:57

LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 20:53

To those who think the LA will always find out - is that a bit hit and miss depending on LA (as with school place fraud) or absolutely 100% guaranteed? Would it be possible to hide/disguise it in any way?

A lot of LA employ someone purely to do this. I heard a lady who did it being interviewed on the radio a while ago

MossCow · 11/08/2023 20:56

tedgran · 11/08/2023 20:49

My understanding isthat if he lived in it and it was in his sons name he should have been paying rent to the son.

That's not 'good enough' for want of a better phrase.

Someone in my family did this a good fifteen years before a care home was needed but the local authority wanted to know why they had given their home to their adult dc when they had homes of their own.

Why would someone give their house away and then pay the person they have it to money to live in it?

The parent ended up in a terrible home, not one they would have chosen, and the situation was investigated which was upsetting and then the house had to be sold and the fees paid.

Hellsbellsandspidersankles · 11/08/2023 20:54

LindorDoubleChoc · 11/08/2023 20:53

To those who think the LA will always find out - is that a bit hit and miss depending on LA (as with school place fraud) or absolutely 100% guaranteed? Would it be possible to hide/disguise it in any way?

No, op. They’re allowed to investigate, and they will.