Elderly parent who lives with me suffers from dementia and incontinence (frequent urinary and sometimes fecal).
Because of the dementia, they do not know they are incontinent and won’t wear a pad. They get aggressive and upset when I suggest pads. Each time it happens, they are convinced it is a one-off.
The resultant mess is frequent and substantial. The washing machine is always on. I’m constantly having to replace underwear/trousers/bedding. The house smells awful. I have found pieces of poo on the floor on multiple occasions. I don’t even want to think about the carpet.
I don’t know what to do. Does anyone have any experience of this or advice? Thank you.