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Getting continuing healthcare

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notaflyingmonkey · 12/01/2022 17:16

DM is about to be discharged from hospital to a nursing home, following a debilitating stroke. She is now bedbound, and given she already had dementia, is further altered mentally.

Hospital are pushing for her discharge, as they feel they can do no more for her medically. They phoned me today and the first question was about if she owns her own home.

I asked for an assessment to be done for continuing healthcare, and got a bunch of what sounded like waffle back.

If anyone has been through this, do you have any tips or links that you could share please?

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NormaLouiseBates · 19/01/2022 11:07

Same @notaflyingmonkey My mum is literally like an elderly baby and needs constant care and supervision. People keep telling me to appeal but I just don't think I've got it in me.

MereDintofPandiculation · 19/01/2022 08:41

Their logic is that you need it only if you need nursing decisions to be made on a daily basis. If you can be looked after by trained non-medical carers with only intermittent nursing or medical advice, it’s not a “primary nursing need”. So there is a certain cruel sense to that. It wouldn’t matter if social care were funded properly.

notaflyingmonkey · 19/01/2022 06:48

That sounds pretty much like my mum post stroke @NormaLouiseBates so I am anticipating getting turned down for it as well.

It makes no sense to me that not being able to do literally anything for her herself means she isn't eligible.

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NormaLouiseBates · 17/01/2022 22:33

My mum has just been turned down for this. We'd half expected it after so many people told us how difficult it was to get but it was still a blow. She had a massive stroke in November, was in hospital for 5 weeks and then transferred to a nursing home. She has no feeling down her left hand side, can't sit unaided, can't walk (obviously), needs to be fed, is doubly incontinent, has severe mental deficits and still she wasn't eligible.

I'm currently wondering whether to appeal but I don't know if I've got the strength to go through it. I'm just exhausted and sad all the fucking time and part of me just thinks "oh fuck it".

Sundayscented · 17/01/2022 13:04

We were given CHC for Mum last year; granted in the January 2021 and she died in September. She had been in hospital/ Nursing Home since December 2020 with multiple conditions including COPD, rheumatoid & osteo arthritis, late onset dementia (not too badly affected), food & nutrition problems, double incontinence and other things.

After I asked if she might be eligible for CHC within 6 weeks her social worker, the Nursing Home Head Nurse and family had an online meeting. We were told the recommendation later that day and received confirmation the following week.
Everyone involved in her care was fabulous - as helpful as could be.
I think we were probably lucky. Good luck.

SylviaTrench · 17/01/2022 12:13

I've been through the CHC system, on behalf of my elderly dad. I couldn't get much help from anyone so worked it all out myself, and ultimately had CHC awarded via appeal.

It's a gruelling process, to say the least.

You've mentioned that your mum would need 24/7 care from two carers. Do you mean two people would literally be required at all times? If she can't sit unaided, and cannot do anything for herself, what would those two people be doing on a minute by minute basis?

I'm not asking to be nosey or harsh, but to get CHC you have to show that the patient needs nursing care, so either they have complex medical issues and/ or extremely challenging behaviour.

My dad couldn't be left alone for a single minute because, as well as his physical problems, he had no concept of danger, was at risk of wandering, would frequently attack people, smash up his room etc etc. The Assessor decided this wasn't challenging enough and we were initially denied CHC.

The other issue is that someone can be awarded CHC but further down the line it can be removed. Not because the patient has miraculously recovered, but because they've become increasingly less mobile, or are now completely bed-bound, and ironically therefore deemed easier to care for.

Having said all that, from reading about CHC it can be very much a postcode lottery, some areas you're far more likely to be awarded it than others.
It's worth reading up on the National Framework, it might seem daunting but at least then you've an idea how the system is meant to work.

Candleabra · 15/01/2022 13:35

No, it was the social worker who made the recommendation and then mum was assessed by a nurse. I know the social worker wasn’t happy with the outcome, but I was worn down with constantly pushing it.
This was also during the early months of covid, so there was a fast track process in place. Great in theory but meant the process was completely opaque. Application rejected twice with little paperwork to back up the decision.
Sorry I can’t be more helpful. I hope you are successful.

notaflyingmonkey · 15/01/2022 09:12

Did you have to get outside help with the process @Candleabra?

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Candleabra · 15/01/2022 07:53

I have. Application rejected twice despite ticking every box (so I thought).
It’s very hard to get, particularly if dementia is involved. A key factor is unpredictability. Unfortunately, though my relative was very ill and required a lot of care, it could be managed with carers.

notaflyingmonkey · 15/01/2022 07:47

@FruHagen hospital are just waiting for a suitable nursing home place to be found for DM, as she is not a candidate for rehab.

She regained some swallow - so she no longer needs thickener in her drinks, but can only have pureed food. She can't walk, stand, or even sit unaided. She will need two people to provide care, 24/7.

Everyone I speak to tells me she is happy, due to her not having any understanding of how affected she was by the stroke.

Feel free to DM me if you want to.

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FruHagen · 14/01/2022 22:07

@notaflyingmonkey just revisiting this thread after you mentioned on mine that our situation sounds similar.

It does sound identical actually - how are you getting on? The hospital told us today that they couldn't do anything more for DM and they were starting the discharge process.

Can your DM swallow? Or move?

notaflyingmonkey · 13/01/2022 11:10

Very helpful, thank you both.

This is all so bloody daunting. I keep getting phone calls from people who just seem to start in the middle of sentences, assuming I understand the process, the jargon, etc.

However, I have just pinned down a senior social worker at the hospital who took the time to go through the process with me, for which I am extremely grateful as it helped me start to get my head around it all.

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thesandwich · 13/01/2022 09:47

www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/health-wellbeing/health-services/nhs-continuing-healthcare/
Hope this helps. Really difficult and seek help.

MereDintofPandiculation · 13/01/2022 09:46

Don’t underestimate how difficult it is. You need to demonstrate she needs nursing decisions on a daily basis, not care that a carer can be trained to do.

The assessment comes in two parts, a screening questionnaire which she will pass, then full assessment which is a completely different beast, and is a sobering reflection on quite how ill people can be and still be alive.

Talk to AgeUK - they can refer you for an hour’s free advice.

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